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NYE Party after thoughts!
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NYE Party after thoughts! Another year.....At one time we were ready to skip hosting a New Years Eve Party this holiday season, There seemed to be a lot of Buzz about Rocky Mountain Parties adding a New years Eve Party to their schedule. We had thoughts about trying to put together a suite to create a Party Room, but those plans never came together. As we ran into past quest and those we know, we received a lot of encouragement and feed back to once again Host our New Years Eve Party. I have wrote in our blog in Past Years about what it takes to put together our Party. Our Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating Sent messages Count on New Years day showed 1781 in the last 60 days, Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating is the main place we use to extend invites, but not the only place, so there are probably a couple hundred additional e-mails and a batch of phone calls. I have also wrote in the past about the struggles of all these contacts and conversations. As a host, we always hope those that we extend invites to realize and have respect for what we are trying to do...and keep this in mind when responding. Many do, but there are so many that do not, making the process of extending invites and providing information a real struggle. The Worst of them are those who seem to be insulted that we invited them, I would guess they base their lack of interest in our party based on their lack of sexual interest in us, But Time after time,,,it continues to amaze, but also frustrating and to be honest, hurtful at times, to have people lash out at us. Some of these are very personal attacks. They do take their toll...make us wonder why we expose ourselves like this. Now this is just communication, Add making sure the house is ready for guest, Getting the Garage Cleared out and set up as our smokers lounge, making sure we have food, drink, Ice, clean sheets, locking up the pets...the list goes on and on. We once thought we would do the party to save money as compared to the expense of paying for a party and a room in a Hotel...lol..what were we thinking! So...We set a RSVP list, The Cancellations start at some point, with weather this year it happened fast. The strange part was the large amount of people that canceled the morning of the party...that had never RSVP. Caught us a little off guard, but what the heck, it was kinda cool they were trying to show good manners and let us know they were not coming! This year...so many of the people we consider regulars Did not show up, there was a group of friends that attended the RMP event, then there was a fair amount of the remainder that canceled for a variety of reasons, So really we had two couples that we consider regulars at our party attend. As those regulars canceled I was in shock...Would any body show, something as a host I always worry about but If My regulars were going to be now shows... As it turned out roughly about 8:00 the drive way and yard started filling up as car after car came down the street. We had just over 20 couples attend with three singles. With out our core group to carry the party I really had no clue what to expect from our guest! That core group is generally the ones that will get things going, they are the ones that are most comfortable with our home, but there is also that danger that they are also the ones most familiar with each other and can easily leave other couples with that...left out feeling. So far we have received some pretty good feed back, no orgy broke out in the living room...And I think a little larger percentage did not end up off in a bedroom having sex, but there seemed to be a lot of great interaction, flirtation and exhibitionism going on, As always there were a couple of couples who didn't stick around... but regardless of hook up...so many just seemed to be out going and really having a good time! I hope the feed back we receive reinforces this perception, It was different...and pretty cool in its own way! Made it hard to shift from Host to Party mode for myself, and seemed Val was in host mode most of the night herself. So once again, I feel we had a successful party, but it always concerns me when the invite process remains difficult, thinking the amount of past guest that would be interested in attending again and the success and reputation of past parties would make filling a guest list easier. But it has not. I would also hope that these considerations would also reduce the percentage of no shows, But the No Shows constantly seem to be in the 50 percent range! So we often wonder if our perception of the success of our parties is wrong or skewed. We may never know! The several guest that had been in our home before and brought a new guest with them, thank you. It is always my wish we would see more of this. Something that was also cool this year was some extended communication with several different couples and a single lady, sharing your open an honest emotions, concerns and excitement is a welcome interaction. I hope in retrospect that you are glad we had those interactions and you chose to attend. I would also like to send out a very sincere thank you to all those who attended. This year, Being both different and positive really has us feeling good about our efforts. Hope to see you all next year! |
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