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Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
2/13/2018 3:24 pm

Usually meet at Bars or Sex Partys


slowrider136911 62M
269 posts
2/13/2018 6:56 pm

I like a coffee shop. Quick and easy. If it's a single girl, I'll do lunch as well. Couple would be coffee or maybe a bar. Pretty much a safe public place. Lot of flakes out there!


Pale_Guy 30M
66 posts
2/14/2018 1:46 am

Coffee shop or restaurant. I always meet people in public first.


asslover9988 53M
139 posts
2/14/2018 8:50 am

hotels, bars , mall


WantUToWantMeToo 54M

2/14/2018 10:22 am

Safe, neutral and non threatening environment. At least you get a coffee if it doesn’t work out or she’s a no show. Lol


JohnInNebraska 63M
188 posts
2/14/2018 11:04 am

I met a couple at a bar which worked out great, In regards to the question I believe the best place is at a coffee shop, bar or somewhere in the public is the best places to meet.


sanots123 58M/58F
23 posts
2/15/2018 2:37 am

Of course, we meet only at a public place - restaurant, coffee shop, bar, park - anything.
Only once in Bangkok, we were invited directly into a condo for a group setting ------------- AND BOY, we did enjoy ourselves.


fahiem2010 52M
67 posts
2/15/2018 1:19 pm

\8b if your meeting don't go well I'm in Orwigsburg let's me.


GIdontknow_134 66M
270 posts
2/15/2018 3:29 pm

Hi nasty:

I've met up with women (from online) at bars, restaurants, a pool hall, a coffee shop, a hotel, a mall, one woman's home, the home of a friend of a woman, Meet & Greets and probably a few other places that I'm forgetting. I think the most important thing is picking a place that satisfies her (and your) security needs. That tends to leave out meeting at your home.

HTH,

G


nicelipss66 48F
24236 posts
2/15/2018 7:24 pm

I say Coffee Shop. cause if things don't click. still ok cause it won't take too long. and both can go on their way after that. short and simple.

But I have to say that I have met several members from this site at my my place. that is because I have talk to them some much over the blogs and talk to them over the phone that I felt comfortable to do so. but I always let my roommate know when someone is going to visit, that way he knows just in case. and sometimes he is here in his room just to make sure. but so far every meeting has been very pleasant.


playtoy484 60M
103 posts
2/16/2018 9:11 am

The ones i have met have been right in there own bedroom...


EvelynJMN 64T
8 posts
2/16/2018 10:36 pm

Always try to make it a public venue - bar/restaurant usually.


jayandkayforfun 45M/43F

2/16/2018 11:25 pm

as a single man i have met 2 Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating couples at there homes one female was naked as i walked in and the other was fully dressed but not for long and as for now as a couple we have not got to that point of meeting yet so cant answer


wincardium 61F  
8 posts
2/17/2018 12:01 am

I prefer meeting people in public for the first time. There's a great local bar that's near me and perfect for meeting people. I also like coffee shops and of course, Starbucks.

While I have done it twice, I just don't think it's a good idea for a female to meet a man she's never met for the first time in a hotel room. But that's me. Love, love, love Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating!


McDawger 51M
49 posts
2/17/2018 4:25 am

I love to meet at a hotel...and fuck right away😘


Bmanus465 71M
46 posts
2/17/2018 5:42 pm

My first meeting was in a parking lot in my car. She was very nervous as we went to a hotel room. We spent the time in the room with me kissing her and talking about what I would do to make her happy. We never had sex that da but for every week after that for two years I got a room and we fucked for four hours each time.


nekkedcouple 63M/58F  
85 posts
2/18/2018 6:23 am

We usually meet at a bar. There have been several times when the guy doesn’t show up or he does and doesn’t look like his pictures, so it’s safer and easier to meet in public.

But we were at a hotel out of town on the last evening of a business trip/vacation this past Friday and we invited a guy over that we had chatted with online. He had sex with my wife for quite a while and then he left. We made love afterwards. Very erotic.


poullaki1982 42M

2/18/2018 2:43 pm

I met that woman from Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating at a bar in Athens. But nothing more happened


DiscreetAffairPA 47M
214 posts
2/19/2018 6:31 am

Any place public. First, it gives the woman more safety and security. Second, it gives either or both of you a way to back out easily if you're not comfortable.


CedarsPrince 44M
1608 posts
2/19/2018 7:17 am

I usually prefer a restaurant or a coffee shop. It's a public place so everyone feels comfortable. You also get to know how the person is by the way they eat and treat the staff.


fancy_legs 52F  
190 posts
2/19/2018 8:48 am

First meeting is a restaurant , somewhere that is public. Safe place. Try to get off the rush timing so you can actually hear the conversation without yelling over the sport bar places. Going to a restaurant gives you more time to have a conversation with that person. See if there is any interest or connection for anymore to follow.


oldman1973 75M/38F
617 posts
2/19/2018 9:07 pm

We only ever meet others, Men, couples with bifems and single bifems or groups at our home, we enjoy a few days of uninterrupted sex fun every time


RealGuy4u101 61M

2/19/2018 9:30 pm

It all depends


shag46514 74M
51 posts
2/22/2018 9:39 am

Coffee shop or local park is good for first meet. Her house is good too. I think the strangest place was a first meeting on a bench across from the local police station. She felt really safe there, but we moved on. Where ever the lady feels most comfortable works for me.


SummerDances 48M
23 posts
2/23/2018 4:32 pm

Coffee shops or smoothie bars are where I have met most of my Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating dates


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