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Attractive enough to fuck vs. Attractive enough to see more than once
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Attractive enough to fuck vs. Attractive enough to see more than once I'm just wondering what it is that allows a man to meet a woman, talk with her awhile, ask her to come home with him, have some great sex, and then never call her again? I understand that not all men want a relationship. I get that. Alot of guys are even upfront about that at the beginning, and I respect them for telling me that. It is always my choice if I want to get involved with them or not after learning that. What I don't get is why they give up having sex with a girl again... I hear this from other women, so I know it isn't just happening to me. I thought at first maybe I was a terrible lay, and once they had me they decided I wasn't worth a second time. But as time has gone along I have figured out that isn't necessarily the case. Other women have it happen to them, and plenty of guys have told me I am great in bed. I have to think that there is something else going on. Why do you guys never call again? I don't want to corral you into a relationship, but I would like to find someone with whom I can have sex more than once, having to start all over again with a new person every time. That gets so tiring, having to learn a person and go through all the initial meeting and questions every time. I would like it to get easier as time goes by and get to know ech other sexually enough to really learn how to please each other. Sex gets better as time goes by and you know the person better. Is it the chase? Do you revel in the chase just to see if you can get the girl, and then lose interest after you've gotten her into bed? Are that many guys operating under the "notch on the bedpost" mentality? Is that what you mean when you say "no strings attached"? I thought that meant you didn't want to be tied down to an emotional relationship, but maybe I've been misunderstanding it all this time. Guys, weigh in on this for us girls, will ya? We are just trying to understand how to work with you guys... |
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11/3/2007 7:25 pm |
Good luck getting a response from them! LOL! This is simply what they do...forgive me if I sound cynical...feeling a little like I've been cast aside like a piece of trash. Trippin' around with my brains on the floor These are the days it never rains but it pours Check out [blog WeeMunchkin] 'cuz my blog's a big old pile o' crap compared to his!
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I agree with what you say. I don't know which is worse...never getting another contact from them, or getting a contact only after a month or so when they only want to get laid again. Leaves me feeling like they couldn't find anyone else to deal with them and feeling like a sperm receptacle. I look for a regular, not for a relationship, per se, but just to have my needs taken care of; like you, it's exhausting to have to start over every time. A simple "hello" would be better than nothing...at least we know you're still alive. Kinda makes me want to give up on the whole "game"....until I get horny again!
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That would depend i have had a woman fallow me for 3 years after have sex! But some men have the fuck and forget them pounded in there head why who knows! Guess there scared of a heart brake! And yes a man can be heart broken. Now if I had a dicreet lover what would not couse me pain but be a friend and a lover well i think that would be ok! I'm free in the mornings where are you to 28133 Zip ? We can chat more about this !
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I agree 100% Beautifully stated and wonderful post!    Star light, Star Bright, First star I see tonight, I wish I may, I wish I might, have this wish I wish tonight: Find me the man who when he sees me, his heart fills with joy, a man who wants to tell me about his day, a man who will text me just say, Hi - I was thinking about you, a man who knows I make his life better by being a part of it.
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11/4/2007 1:22 pm |
Oh yeah, I agree with all of it 100% as well ... I just chalk it up to them being idiots! To bad there are so many idiots out there ... You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose. You're on you own. And you know what you know. And YOU are the guy Who'll decide where you go. Dr. Seuss 
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11/12/2007 10:30 am |
That is an interesting question, and I think the answer is different for different men. I think some women feel once you have had sex, that you are totally committed to them, even if they said no strings attached. Then they look at the control of your life and get very demanding. I'm sure this isn't true of all women, but a great percentage of them. I agree that sexual sharing is a learned subject that takes more than one time. It takes quite a bit of time and practice to find out what your partner likes and how she likes it. I guess that's why I'm slower to jump into bed, but love being there longer.
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