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Dating Rules in the 40's and 50's -- Some Guidelines -- Rule #2  

professor_jeff 66M
41 posts
7/5/2008 1:32 pm
Dating Rules in the 40's and 50's -- Some Guidelines -- Rule #2

Rule #2: Pay Attention to Red Flags

Like those internal alarms that alert you to your gut feelings, you also have an alarm system to alert you to red flags. Oftentimes this alarm system is turned way down. As a result, we often ignore red flags and find ourselves getting involved with inappropriate partners because we’re not paying attention. To become a truly successful single in the new millennium, you owe it to yourself to become a red flag specialist. That means paying attention to red flags as they are presented to you on dates. An example of a red flag would be if you found yourself on a date with someone who could not stop talking about their ex. They may be a fantastic person, and eventually make a great partner, but right now they’re not ready. Your job is to pay attention to that red flag and not pursue them.

Lkkn4You 62F  
656 posts
7/5/2008 3:27 pm

 Hey...dont forget about red flag #5...They are 39 yrs old and still live at home with mommy!


professor_jeff replies on 7/6/2008 10:50 pm:
If you are running into this type of guy, it is not just a red flag rather a major wall. Don't hurt your head when running into it!!! LMOA

Scott_in_Tulsa 52M
1325 posts
7/6/2008 2:24 pm

 I've had that happen to me. The last date that it happened on, i asked her for his contact information, as i was going to send him a bill for dinner and my services as her counselor.
"We are all worms, but i like to think of myself as a glow-worm" - Winston Churchill


MissAnnThrope 63F
11481 posts
7/6/2008 3:51 pm

 I don't know if the women do this, but the men who go on and on about their ex or exes also won't let up with a line of questioning. "How long have you been on this site? Have you met many people? How many have you had sex with? Why don't you think that's any of my business?"

Yeah. One red flag leads straight to another.


professor_jeff replies on 7/6/2008 10:52 pm:
How very true!!!!

professor_jeff 66M
20 posts
7/6/2008 10:52 pm

 How very true!!!


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