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Ever just say no?  

cdave8 40M
7 posts
12/20/2009 8:52 am
Ever just say no?

I was recently approached by a very attractive woman (part of a couple) for some behind closed doors fun. Originally I was all for it but as I learned more it gave me reason to reconsider.

She essentially hunts for men online, gets their info and has him set up meetings. Now they really seem to have this system down, blocked phone calls, having the other man buy the hotel room. Really just started to seem shady to me. Yes those can be explained as 'for their protection from crazy people' but what's protecting me? I could just be being paranoid but given the world being the way it is, how do you protect yourself when you're meeting people from this site? I'm a fan of public meetings first but most people are more interested in jumping straight to the bedroom (which is understandable given the purpose of this site.)

In the end I turned them down, not just for the above reasons, really those just put me on guard. The guy when he called asked for someone else. He got my name mixed up with someone else on her list. If you're gonna ask me to do something risky and probably a little stupid at least get my name right.

rockhardman21 39M
266 posts
12/20/2009 12:10 pm

 I agree that you made a good decision. You should always take precaution to protect yourself, especially if you are uncomfortable. No need to be reckless.


sharjo1975 48F

2/5/2010 5:46 pm

 Trust your instincts... they are there for a reason.


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