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Why am I not getting responses to my emails?  

thenewgurl 48T
19 posts
2/17/2018 10:19 am
Why am I not getting responses to my emails?
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thenewgurl 48T
23 posts
2/18/2018 10:00 am

 Currently I have 22 unreadable emails in my mailbox. There were more, but I deleted old emails from inactive accounts.


thenewgurl 48T
23 posts
3/11/2018 12:59 pm

 Protip: you want a few weeks of Gold free? First you have to have been a paid member at one point or get verified. Next post a picture of yourself. A good face pic if you can or a body pic. Not a dick pick. Those are the least interesting. Next, make sure the rest of your profile looks interesting and complete.

Ok, now you have to be active. Mobile helps because you can do some stuff not possible on desktop as a standard member, but the most important stuff requires desktop mode. Log in everyday and look at profiles (mobile sometimes works better for this or just mouse over for quick view). Click on the points link under your profile pic and you will see a list of activities that earn you points. Do at least one thing off the list everyday.

Now use hotlist/top fan to your advantage. Sure you can spend points to check an email or view a profile on the points page, but don't use that. Those points just disappear, poof gone. A top fan bid can last months and those points go to the person you are interested in. It usually costs fewer points to bid than buy a view. Now you can view that profile, send an email, and read emails from that profile. Responding to emails is one of the most important activities to help you get gold.

Do this for a few weeks and you have a good chance of gaining popularity and getting a couple of weeks free. Don't stop doing the things and don't act like a douche to keep it going. Your welcome.


Scottb0805 58M

4/12/2018 6:58 am

 I have tried the hotlist/top fan and received no reply. E-mail me at scottb60135 at gmail


Scottb0805 58M

9/20/2018 6:47 am

 I am interested in knowing you better and would love to see you sometime. Scott


Scottb0805 58M

11/30/2018 12:11 pm

 I paid for your membership for a month and didn't hear from you. My KIK is Militarypolice1966 my email is scottb60135 at gmail dot com I hope you get this and I hear from you. Scott


thenewgurl 48T
23 posts
1/10/2019 6:30 am

 Hi Scott (and anyone else this applies to). I do apologise. I work in sales on commission, and it got kinda hairy these past few months. I was working 60-70 hours a week and then still going in on my day(s) off for appointments so I can try to catch up on my medical bills. In the meantime, your (and a few others I could read) emails got buried under a mountain of dick pics, and I didn't get reply notifications for the blog.

Just a heads up, I never give out my phone number. I've had this one for over a decade and am not going to risk having to change it. I rarely use email for personal communication. I have a Kik, but it gets a bit tedious sometimes , and I just turn it off.


thenewgurl 48T
23 posts
1/10/2019 6:57 am

 Yeah, I haven't ever messed with the pay for standard members on my side, but have had conversations with people who have it. I use the top fan feature on the rare occasion I want to send a message, usually only to trans women and the rare cis woman that pops up on my Cupid. I never expect a response back, so I say what I want to say and let it be. I try to respond back as often as possible, but shit happens, it gets buried, my dysphoria/anxiety kicks in, or something comes up and I just forget. Sometimes I just don't want to deal with anyone and just don't log in for a month (or six)


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