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Why not cock pictures ?
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Why not cock pictures ? I would like your opinion about why do girls with pussy or tit pics as there avatar say too people with cock pics not too message them....? what do you think ?  |
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Because they can. En-Joy!
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First you have to understand what triggers a woman's arousal vs what triggers a man's. It is a cliche but also very true that men visuals are what stimulate men and women need multiple sensory inputs. Not to say that there isn't a bit of both in both sexes but *empirical science* tells us that there are gender differences in that regard. What that means is that a pair of boobs or legs in stockings or an ass shot will captures a man's attention and make him want to learn more about her. If a man gets two equal messages, one with a boob shot and one without, which one do *you* think he'll respond to first. Even the few women who don't mind cock shots need a little something more to hold her interest beyond, "eh, I guess that cock is decent". Another thing, most men who post cock shots post the same 4 or 5 boring shots that show no creativity or anything that says more than, "Hi, I'm a dick". Do you know how many pics I've seen that some dude took sitting on the bowl. Just eeewwwwww. Men don't realize that because they all use the same shots, the cease to be memorable, they become "just another cock shot and let's move on to the next profile". Don't you want a woman to notice you and respond to your profile? If you do then you need to stand out somehow. A picture of penis won't do it. Finally, I always wonder why men ask this question. If your goal is to meet women and get laid (or whatever) why does it matter, you just need to give women what they respond to.
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First you have to understand what triggers a woman's arousal vs what triggers a man's. It is a cliche but also very true that men visuals are what stimulate men and women need multiple sensory inputs. Not to say that there isn't a bit of both in both sexes but *empirical science* tells us that there are gender differences in that regard. What that means is that a pair of boobs or legs in stockings or an ass shot will captures a man's attention and make him want to learn more about her. If a man gets two equal messages, one with a boob shot and one without, which one do *you* think he'll respond to first. Even the few women who don't mind cock shots need a little something more to hold her interest beyond, "eh, I guess that cock is decent". Another thing, most men who post cock shots post the same 4 or 5 boring shots that show no creativity or anything that says more than, "Hi, I'm a dick". Do you know how many pics I've seen that some dude took sitting on the bowl. Just eeewwwwww. Men don't realize that because they all use the same shots, the cease to be memorable, they become "just another cock shot and let's move on to the next profile". Don't you want a woman to notice you and respond to your profile? If you do then you need to stand out somehow. A picture of penis won't do it. Finally, I always wonder why men ask this question. If your goal is to meet women and get laid (or whatever) why does it matter, you just need to give women what they respond to.  Combine that with profile handle that references their penis "OneHungGuy" and wow, all it tells us if your handle and pics are all about your dick, then you are selling yourself as a dick. A more imaginative cock pick is the unzipped pants - shows dick, but has an erotic, sensual slant to it.
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Agree with BEBBW, its quite alright to include a dick pick, but one or two are fine, 20 dick pics, dick lined up by a ruler, pop can, remote control is lame. Dont get the dick over the toilet too And I would honestly tell man not to have any dick pis at all or if he does put them in a separate album. I wouldn't even suggest a full unzipped pants look because (a) it's too reminiscent of a flasher which is not appealing to a lot of people and (b)it's still his dick. If a guy has to unzip, he should stop at the top if his yippee trail, a tease but not the full monty. See here's thing, even woman who like dick pics won't dismiss a profile that doesn't have them; the man can always send one after the fact. But a lot of women *will* dismiss a profile that has a dick in the pic without ever giving the profile or message a second glance. For men it's a numbers game, it's all about getting the most (positive) attention possible.
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