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About Swingers  

rm_BigTaurus1 61M
20 posts
5/5/2014 11:15 am
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Travel_Couple69 58M
1604 posts
5/5/2014 12:19 pm

 The experience is not always universal. We actually do not equate our exploration as being in the lifestyle or being swingers, though we have common elements with those who do.

We are sexually open, communicate well, have fantasies that we wish to share, no jealousies, do not believe in monogamy, but believe people can be monogamous, enjoy pleasing our partners even if that means adding another to the mix, see this as a journey of us as a couple - pushing our boundaries of sexuality and sensuality believing that it makes a great relationship better. Communication is a big part of all this and as an added spin-off we communicate much more so in our day to day activities and seem to have avoided alot of the traps of previous relationships.

We do not see it as cheating. But we do not see cheating as a linear aspect of sex with someone else. We prefer to look at dishonesty, if we agree to anything or any limit and the other violates that trust, its dishonest.

All relationships risk intrusion from without. Again back to communication and the limits, each couple has to set things for themselves that they are comfortable with. It is not unheard of that an open couple broke up due to attachments to third parties. No hard stats to back this up, but we believe that is less likely to happen to open couples than traditional relationships.

This is not for all folks, and the fantasy should not be over looked. It can be just as intimate, exciting, and fulfilling for a couple to openly discuss their fantasies without ever feeling the need to act on them.


rm_BigTaurus1 61M
269 posts
5/9/2014 3:01 am

 I understand what you tried to explain,and I agree on your last paragraph!


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
5/22/2014 8:38 am

 Over in this part of the world there is swinger parties where folks come as couples and end up with someone else just for the evening. Now I been in your part of the world. There is nothing wrong with teasing your husband. I don't think folks even adventure out of their marriages.. Nothing wrong with a belly dancer for him. Swing isn't for everyone and it takes a lot of trust in marriage for this to happen.. For me I am not a swinger and will not be a swinger.. My hubby and I are very happy with each other.. hugs V
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rm_BigTaurus1 61M
269 posts
5/24/2014 11:55 pm

 Sweet VM..I like your participation..I am really comforted to know this from.you...I like your happiness and mutual love and trust with your hubby.Best regards and eishes to you both!,but..I like your post and blog


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