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Keeping Up: Knowing your limits and staying true  

spritestar 39F
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4/1/2018 7:07 pm
Keeping Up: Knowing your limits and staying true

so it has been a while since the last time I posted something.
To be honest I've been off and on with a few members of this site; exploring and seeing what my own limits are and solidifying my own needs.

As a matter of fact, I've explored being a bit more flexible in my desires. Allowing a bit more le-way for some of my wants. Nothing huge but little things just to see if I was being unreasonable.
Come to find out, I wasn't.

So some of the things I have played with.
Age: Up or down, I've found that that younger than me aren't mature enough. they aren't ready to be fully committed or have a full understanding of what it is I want

Playstyle: Some of the ones who 'claim' to be Doms aren't. and they prove that by the demands they make. because at a specific point the are demands, not intelligent questions or gentle supporting of exploring new limits. No, you can tell those who are just "Playing" at being a Dom by that attitude.

Gut-Call: most importantly your gut. it is such a fine-tuned thing that everyone should be more than aware of the benefits of paying attention to it. The times that I've ignored it or not given my full attention have proven to lead to some of the worst heart ach (see above!)

So to be perfectly frank; you as a person already know your limits. What you are willing to settle for. Staying true to that should always be your 'sticking' point. Never move from it.

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