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How far can you go  

Ladywithatti2d 83F  
261 posts
7/5/2009 8:04 am
How far can you go


Just how far can anyone go when it comes to the internet and all it has to offer. Yesterday, I read, yet again, where a "SOCIAL WORKER" posted an add on Craigslist involving a 9 year old girl.

Yes, that is correct the Social Worker's had an argument with a girl in her school who is 9 years old. In revenge, the Social Working MOM, posted an add on Craigslist stating. ""I need a little affection... I'm blond, I'm cute and I'll be waiting." Along with that add, she posted the childs HOME PHONE NUMBER.

Is anyone wondering yet WHY this woman is still a "social worker" I certainly am. In interviews with the childs mother, she stated that in one day they had over 22 phone calls from men looking for sex with this , totally UNAWARE, that the was 9 years old.

The woman pled "NOT GUILTY" to two misdemeanor charges, and a charge of endangering a . Her comment was "She didn't believe that the had been harmed materially". There are also ways to cross reference , coming up with ADDRESSES. Wonder how she would have felt, if one of them had done just that, and WAITED FOR THE to leave home before accosting her. Does that send a shiver up your spine it SHOULD. Would anyone here appreciate THEIR 9 year old getting this type of phone call.

The family hired a lawyer, who got a subpoena for the records from Craiglist, and traced the email directly back to the woman, leading to her arrest. So yes indeedy, it CAN be done and has been done.

It makes you wonder, just how FAR people will, can and DO go for revenge. This site is no different, the only discriminating factor is that everyone here is SUPPOSED to be an ADULT.

However, does that honestly sanction the right of others on here to disclose personal information on someone they may have met, or information they received about a person they don't like for whatever reason, and give them the RIGHT to post it all over the internet fraudulently?

If you have read my blogs then you are aware that this has happened to my own , more than one time around, all of which could have endangered her life without her even being aware of it.

She is NOT ALONE in this, I have read OTHERS that have had this happen to them. So because we are on the internet, and an adult sex site, this gives who the right to hound or harass anyone much less post in open chat rooms, blogs, or anywhere else ANYONES private information.

PRIVATE, that is the key word. It is very ironic that those who go around posting this stuff and behaving in a far less than adult manner are the EXACT same ones, that if their membership HERE, or their lifestyle were disclosed to their neighbors, or the school their attend, they would be extremely UNHAPPY. Why, because it's their PRIVATE life, and they want it to remain as such.

If YOU value YOUR privacy, then you had better VALUE the PRIVACY of everyone ELSE.

Lady

rdy2try4 59F  
3330 posts
7/5/2009 9:10 am

Comment...

"EVEN IF THE INFORMATION IS NOT TRUE PEOPLE BELIEVE IT!!"

The woman who POSED as a young boy because of a fight with her daughter, ending in the young girl hanging herself... was NOT a boy!! Yet everyone believed it was.

People seem to forget that you can be ANYONE you want online. It is faceless and totally fantasy for many. And because 'so and so' said it does NOT make it right. Look at how computer virus' are spread because ONE said it was something and it got passed to another. Then the next one forwards it to 2 and so on and so on. WHO REALLY got the free ticket to Disney Land for passing this on to achieve 1 million hits??? NO ONE!! Same with the 'pass this on to 5 people and watch the duck' messages. IT IS NOT REAL.. NOTHING HAPPENED, yet how many of you did it to SEE if the duck would do something!!???

Going back to the dangers of it which DID end in one little girl dead, there was a man that got shot because he received a message someone said something online, and the myriad of other problems... you have NO CLUE who are what you are sticking your noses into when you do this. You have NO CLUE how stable or unstable someone is when you start this and it COULD end up in someone dead or dying. Yeah, we all love the 'dirty laundry' or the National Enquirer would not be in business. But you should THINK before you stick your nose out there. IT COULD BE YOU!! What would YOUR boss do if you were seen here? Your school gonna make you parent of the year?

Not me nor anyone 'owes' someone anything UNLESS it is a family member or someone you are planning on being with for a lifetime. Even then there are going to be exceptions i.e. I do not tell ALL my family members how much money I make a year. And if you happen to be like that woman in the news here lately that was found to be 'on the run' after leaving a jail in the 70's, for the record she WAS an upstanding family member, mother, and more...but she finally got caught.. she is STILL the same woman she was before they caught up to her and her FAMILY did not abandon her!! It didn't change who SHE was.

Realize folks.. ANYONE can be on the other end of a computer. ANYONE can say they are someone. YOU HAVE NO WAY OF KNOWING WHO IT IS!! For all you know.. it could be someone like Ted Bundy. The man who got another man to his wife.. ONLINE. The man that murdered a woman and injured another saying he needed a nanny.. ONLINE!! Because someone says "I am ......" does NOT make him/her automatically who they say they are. Could you live with yourself KNOWING that you said something that caused another person to cause bodily damage to another or themselves?? Trust me.. it CAN and DOES happen... do YOU want to be the instigator in someones death?? ?? or injuries?? You say it wouldn't happen.. tell that to all the people's families I just mentioned in this posting alone!! There are many more.


8andtonguenu 73M

7/5/2009 9:17 am

I bowl out in Las Vegas. The word there is, What happens in Vegas Stays in Vegas. That is sorry, whether it is you daughter or someone elses. People are going to have to change. People are back stabbing and the old ways of shareing helping, the brotherly love is gone out of this country. That was purposely done by the past administrations over the past 25 to 30 years. The so called proffessionals would come foreward and say we need to do this, we need to do that and every week they change their mind and people do what they say. Well after they cange their attitudes their routines what they say what they do how they feel they wind up so screwed up they don't know what they are doing. That may sound silly, but lok back over the past few years how the counsellors, the social workers and so on have gone back and forth changing their stories. A drug counsellor has to be a former drug addict. An alcoholic counselor has to be a former alcoholic. A suicide counsellor has to be suisidal. Now ask your self. What about your child sex counsellors??????? Scarey isnt it. My cousins ex wife was a school counselor. She changed her last name fout times to teach at 4 different schools where she was forced to resign for takinf a 16 year old male student home over the weekend while her husband was away, the next one she showed a porno film she was told not to, I don't know about the other 2 schools, she was fired within 3 months from them. She was never prosecuted. They didn't want to give the bad publicity to the school, they did not want to put the students through a mess. She is still out there. A lot of otheres the same way.


haversack_smith 47M
6189 posts
7/7/2009 3:42 pm

So a grown woman posted an add on craigslist to harass a 9-year-old girl her daughter had had a fight with?

I don't have anything to say, but I just spent five minutes picking my jaw up off the floor. What on Earth is wrong with these people???


rdy2try4 59F  
3330 posts
7/8/2009 2:34 pm

Haver, the same thing that is wrong with people taking photos (mine) from my profile to make other profiles (multiple ones not just a profile) and have them outline all but me. Yes, seriously, how to force me to do the things I don't do, don't like, and don't want to be involved in. And THEY have control over the messages they get and CAN tell them to meet me at some location as we are all in the same chatroom together and they know the parties. And then this unsuspecting man that thinks he has some hottie that fantasizes about being taken forcefully could possibly approach me at this location and grab me. They can say and do anything and have NO care as to what happens to the person that is their victim.

Trust me folks, this is not a joke. I DID call the site and have the profiles taken down. And there was also a threat of physical violence being done to me in my own blogs. There are some VERY sick people in this world. And to have someone be forceably taken and have everything they don't want done to them in a .. would SERIOUSLY not make me WANT to do those acts more, learn to like them or anything else OTHER than hate people and/or worse. If it were them they wouldn't think it was a joke. Yet they come in and say how nice they are, and pretend to be innocent of the entire thing.


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