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Lingerie Preferences...  

smg991 48F
14 posts
1/15/2017 1:43 am

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1/23/2017 2:31 pm

Lingerie Preferences...


over the last few relationships i've had, it seems my lingerie or undergarment preferences have not met with approval.

so i pose the question to men out there in Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating land...what do you think looks sexy on a woman? what do you like her to wear underneath?

for me, i wear garter belts & stockings (not a fan of panty hose or tights) but my garter belts are not the lacy numbers. i like the full on 6-8 strap suspenders that hold up your stockings properly - especially stockings that are a little warmer given our cold winters. and i wear them quite often so they need to stand up to frequent wear. so these aren't your "costume" lacy get ups that wouldn't last past one sex session (i think

i also am not a fan of thongs. the reason most women wear thongs is to avoid a panty line when wearing skirts or dresses. but they are fairly uncomfortable. so i've cut out the middle man entirely. which means i don't wear matching bra and panty sets b/c i don't wear...bottoms at all. and frankly, going commando does give me a bit of a secret thrill when i'm in a board room crossing my legs and knowing something no one else in the room does.

i also love to wear corsets. the proper steel/boned kind that cinch at the waist and interlock in the back. and just b/c i wear corsets doesn't mean i'll be your bitch. i just like the way they feel and look. especially one that's crafted beautifully and accentuates a female hourglass figure (which is what i have).

so there you have it. these are the things i tend to wear (or not wear) under my clothes. my previous bfs have not appreciated my style. so i'm curious, what do you like your gfs/lovers to wear underneath?

HermanG67 56M
8464 posts
1/18/2017 10:09 am

I think corsets are ultimately feminine


smg991 replies on 1/18/2017 4:45 pm:
so do i

boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
1/15/2017 6:54 pm

Corsets are a big turn on, as is garters!


smg991 replies on 1/18/2017 4:45 pm:
glad you think so!

dnaalberta M/105F
1 post
1/15/2017 12:11 pm

Girl, wear whatever you feel good in! The thing that makes you sexy, is when you feel awesome about yourself and you glow with confidence. Any guy who says he doesn't like your lingerie is looking to knock you down, not worship you and encourage you to feel good. Don't waste your time on those trolls.


smg991 replies on 1/15/2017 3:23 pm:
thx for that. you know, for a long time i thought my idea of sexy was just not mainstream and what made me feel sexy was just not a turn on for guys (b/c of my past bfs). but on here, where sex is so openly discussed, i am learning that i'm not weird and that lots of guys like what makes me feel sexy. it's very reassuring. and thanks for your comments - you're lovely

smooth61941 83T  
40 posts
1/15/2017 8:26 am

Thigh highs, thongs, lingerie, bras--all in exciting colors....but black is nice too.


smg991 replies on 1/15/2017 3:20 pm:
i do prefer to go with black. or a deep purple or navy blue or dark gray. i don't go too crazy on the colours. and black does go with everything

classicalrebel4 68M
1755 posts
1/15/2017 6:05 am

I like variety even sports bras and workout panties turn me on.

Please don't let me be misunderstood.


smg991 replies on 1/15/2017 3:19 pm:
lol. you just want the girl to show up, right?

fpb091 54M

1/15/2017 4:19 am

I say women should ware what makes them feel comfortable or sexy , if like what you ware good, maybe some women where some undergarments for there better half but ware what you want too!


smg991 replies on 1/15/2017 3:18 pm:
well i do wear what i like for me. but i kind of hope that if i feel sexy in them, my bf will appreciate that. hasn't happened yet.

nicebuttocks1950 74M
330 posts
1/15/2017 4:13 am

I think all women like to wear undergarments that make them feel sexy. They know something about themselves that they know men in the room would like to know!!! The best thing I like about undergarmenst is seeing them on the floor beside our bed!!!!!


smg991 replies on 1/15/2017 3:17 pm:
lol. great attitude. thx

rocket2102 56M
69 posts
1/15/2017 4:00 am

Sounds like you have done every thing the way I like it. Maybe it's not wearing a thong that shocks them? Personally, I love to unwrap my presents as well as disrobe my girl. No thong is hot and great if you are ready for the quick one. Just don't leave anything behind in the conference room. I would never complain about stockings and garters. Actually, ripping panty hose off is a lot of fun too.Very hot. But, it must be chilly up your way. Keep your kitty warm.


smg991 replies on 1/15/2017 4:11 am:
oh not to worry - i have very good control while at work. nothing gets left behind and my kitty is plenty warm. a thong wouldn't help though, would it? lol. thx for the comment.

jcthebear 45M
204 posts
1/15/2017 3:29 am

I would very much appreciate your style of lingerie, especially the stockings and garters. Feel confident that your choices aren't the problem, your ex-bfs are.


smg991 replies on 1/15/2017 4:09 am:
thx - kind of you to say

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