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Pet Peeves  

toriamandafoote 58T
8 posts
6/11/2018 3:05 pm
Pet Peeves

I love this site. I have had so much fun with so many people and even made some life long friends here. There are some things that do bug me though.

1. Profile Pictures

OMG guys put up a nice face picture. Dick pics are okay, but don't mean a whole hell of allot as far as attraction goes. I mean I hope you have one. I hope it is in good working condition. I hope you are proud of it and even have a nickname for it. A photo of it here does absolutely nothing for getting me to look at your profile though. I want to see how you take care of yourself and what kind of facial hair and hair style you have. A dick is a dick boys. If you want a pic of it in your profile that is wonderful, but as your main picture, well, your face has way more meaning.

2. Discretion

Again, OMG. If you are cheating on a spouse, I hate to tell you, but no matter how hard you try to hide it you will eventually get caught. It's a conversation you have to have with your spouse about who and what you are looking for to satisfy your wants and needs. Most spouses in a love based relationship will do all they can to sate your needs if they can, or give you permission to play outside of the relationship to get what you want. I personally never play with an attached person unless I have the okay from the spouse. I used to play that way,but I've had two sets of tires slashed and the word painted on my door. I will never go through that crap again. Permission is actually kind of fun. I've become friends with a couple of spouses over the years and we share information on our time with the man. We are both actually able to make play way more fun that way. An open conversation with the person you are married or attached to can be tough, but it goes a long way toward making a longer lasting and more rewarding relationship at home and it gives you the opportunity to play without worry. Worry can be a boner killer from hell, both at home and with play friends.

3 Incomplete Information.

May I say OMG again? OMG. Fill out and answer every question on the profile section. For one you get extra points to do it and you get contact from people who can see and understand who you are and what you want. I reach out to a few who haven't completed everything, but fun time is harder and can be disappointing when you and the person you've hooked up with find out that's not something they are willing to do. Also it's incredible how many people who bitch about not being able to hook up only have 5 or 6 spaces filled out. If you are looking for fun, tell everyone what you think is fun. It can be such a big let down when you find out your needs aren't going to be met after you spend the money to be a member and you work to set up a meeting. It kinda leaves a sour taste in your mouth. Then you leave and your only way to do anything is to find a rando in a bar that you have no idea who or what you are hooking up with.As I am a giver, I do everything I can to make my partners fantasies come true. It's a big help to know what those fantasies are ahead of time so I can plan and dress accordingly.

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