The Weather Outside is Frightful...
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Posted:Feb 22, 2015 7:28 pm
Last Updated:May 16, 2024 3:20 pm
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Dang. It's been cold. And snowy.
I still love it, but it is beginning to wear a bit thin on me.
This is perfect cuddling weather: strip down as far as you want, pull up next to a warm body, pull up the covers, and hibernate for a few hours. Ah! The heat, the rubbing, the slow kisses - so sweet!
Frankly, I think cats have it made. We have a house cat, our second, and both of them have been indoor cats (we received both of them as rescues, and, in both cases, they had already been declawed).
I swear, these cats sleep almost the entire day. And, whenever she wants, she just curls up beside someone, and falls asleep. She could cuddle something like 24 hours a day - and no one would be upset! Indeed, our family would be overjoyed to help her with her hobby!
She eats, she plays, she sleeps - not bad. The only downside is that, as a rescue, she has been neutered.
Considering my love life, that may not be a downside after all...
Keep Warm, and Cuddle On!
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And One More Thing...
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Posted:Feb 14, 2015 7:38 pm
Last Updated:May 16, 2024 3:20 pm
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You know, I have read many blogs about how men don't read things, like profiles. And, from time to time, I have seen those comments in profiles - well, the part of it I could read, as a standard (non-paying) member.
And I thought that those comments must be exaggerations. Until today.
When I saw I had a new flirt (number 2! Woohoo!), I was a bit nervous - I mean, given my past and my present, why wouldn't I be?
You know, I just had to check. And my profile does, indeed, indicate that, not only am I straight, but I would only want to meet women.
So, obviously, I am flattered and all, but I will not be reciprocating with this man who "flirted" with me. And I am a bit curious: in his profile, he does not list that he wants to meet with men. Hmm... I am wondering if he knows something I do not? Excuse me for a minute.
Nope, it's still there. I am still male. Whew, I was worried for a minute.
And, while I am making light of this, I do wonder: why me? If he's not interested in men, why did he look at my profile? Why did he click to flirt with me?
A while back, when I was on one of the chat lines, and a local man dropped me an invite to chat. So I did. He was rather insistent that I meet with him, and tried to convince me, multiple times, that his mouth was as good as any pussy. I made it clear: I am not interested in meeting with men. And I checked my profile: yup, straight, wanting to meet women.
I did edit my profile after that experience, because I had written in my profile that I wanted to learn more about pleasuring my wife. However, I chose a rather poor choice of words, writing that I was "curious". So I fixed it.
Here it is, a couple of years later, and another man has flirted with me. Maybe we don't read the profiles; I mean, I do, what I can read of them, but, well, maybe we need to remind men that it's better to use our eyes and read than be led by a pretty face.
Oh, wait, that's right - he flirted with me, not a pretty face.
I still wonder why. If you are this man, you're reading this, and I haven't either embarrassed you or angered you, please let me know. I would rather not have something be misleading and hurt someone's feelings.
If not, well... I guess I can be curious as to why he flirted with me.
As long as that's all I'm curious about out here, I guess.
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Soapbox...
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Posted:Feb 2, 2015 7:44 pm
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2015 7:14 pm
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I just added a comment to a group I belong to, and, well, I wonder if it will cause me to get booted.
See, in my post, I made a claim that I think is rather unpopular: that not all guys - even out here - are only interested in sex.
Ok, we are on an adult hook-up site, but... well, to limit anyone's interests to just sex is fairly limiting, IMVHO.
Right now, I think I would be happier to cuddle. i know it's been a couple of years, and I'm betting things really haven't changed much, but... well, cuddling fir me was always good. The sex...? Not so much, like when my wife gave me my first "mercy fuck".
When I was in my 20's, I was a "wild" man. I slept with many women - ok, well, many for a preacher's . And, when I say I slept, I mean it - we slept. I had a few "girlfriends" whom I would see sporadically, and we had an arrangement: as long as neither of us was with someone else, we could cuddle and sleep and go our separate ways the next day.
Man, I miss those days! No pressure, clothes optional, no problems, just some nice, soft, warm body to be next to. I actually had some young women thank me for allowing them to sleep - they had made it quite plain, I felt, that sleep was on their agenda, and nothing else. I felt shamed that they were actually worried that I would break my word and try to "convince" them to have sex with me.
Now, did I miss out on some women who, possibly, I could have "convinced" that sex would be better? Yeah, but I would have lost on some good cuddles, too. Many of those women needed a good cuddle more than another guy trying to work his way into their panties. I was happy to oblige.
Don't get me wrong, folks: if a woman and I had chemistry, the sparks are flying, and the mood is right... cuddles or not, we're getting down! But I do miss having a nice snuggle at the end of a long day.
And, to me, sometimes that was more important that making love.
My two cents worth.
How do you feel about it - is a good cuddle worth missing a night of sweaty, passionate sex? Is it as important? Does it complete a night of hot, passionate, sweaty sex? Or is it just a bother - who cares, just get me laid?
As always, you want your comments private, just let me know, and it'll just be between us. Will you make me blush? Who knows!
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Pettin' some pussy...
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Posted:Jan 24, 2015 8:10 pm
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2015 7:12 pm
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I remember hearing, back in the day, that Johny Carson got into a heap of trouble when sexpot Rachel Welch visited his show with a cat on her lap. That he asked to "pet her pussy". Then, when she got up she had to put the cat down, to which Johnny replied, "thank you for putting your cat down."
All of which is false. Huh.
As i grow older, I look back on some of things I had been told, and I wonder - how much of it was true?
Made up stories to make others laugh or wonder or even feel good about the victims of made-up pranks... how much is true?
As a , I had a friend who was well known for being with anything with a pulse. I briefly dated one of his ex-girlfriends, and, well, just had to ask. I mean, I was about as different from him as night is to day: naive, a virgin, and very unsure of myself around any woman.
I asked her why she went out with him? Her response? He was good in bed. He did, however, have a certain fetish: she claimed he liked to use a live frog in his lovemaking.
Ew!
I did mention my naivete, right?
Another incident involved my two grad student housemates, and one girlfriend. One night, whilest I was busy studying, the girl in question came to visit. She had been dating both of my housemates, going back and forth between the two of them. That night, she went up, and, well, didn't come down for quite a while. When she did, both of my housemates came down with her, and she was dressed in a robe. They all looked a little worse for wear, shall we say. So I asked the obvious (to me) question, how did she get along with both of them present? She merely smiled, and claimed no one was left out in the cold.
How much was true, and how much was just a lie to make me wonder, in my lack of worldly experience, how exactly these things happen? A normal teenaged girl would sleep with a boy who had a fetish for living frogs, and a girl (who stood 5'1" - maybe) took in two gentlemen, both of whom were known for being well-endowed?
Needless to say, both of these women are married, and have moved on with their lives. One of the husbands, I'm sure, knows a bit of her "wild" past, as he was a member of a circle of friends that used to get together over at our place for fun; the other one, well, he may never learn of the wonder and glory of frogs.
And, me. What would my wild story be?
Hmm... I need to make up something really interesting, but it needs to be believable. I mean, I'm not wild, I'm not outrageous... maybe trying to make love with my wife while we were spooning is wild?
Nah... I'll work on it, and think of something else... later.
Meanwhile, what's the craziest thing you've ever heard of (or participated in) sexually? If you want to keep it private, just let me know, and it will be out little secret. 
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Gettin' Warmer...
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Posted:Jan 17, 2015 8:24 am
Last Updated:Jan 24, 2015 7:45 pm
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Ok, so the weather is warming up a bit today - and then we get another Alberta Clipper (a quickly moving snow blast). Fairly typical. The old saying is, "If you don't like the weather in Ohio, wait a minute... it will change".
The weather today is supposed to be great, well, for January in Ohio. Sunny, high in the mid-40's F, no breeze. A perfect day to go playing. Back in the day, I would love to to a park, and play on the swings with my partner. Or maybe play some tennis, or go for a walk at a local park, ride a bike - you know, just play.
So, how do you play with your partner on a day like today - you've been stuck inside for over a week, only leaving to go to work, the store, or other necessities... what do you do? With my current situation, I am planning on spending the day... cleaning out my car. Loads of fun.
So, let me live vicariously - what would plan to do on a day like today?
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Happy New Year!
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Posted:Jan 8, 2015 11:11 am
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2015 10:31 am
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I have to admit, being in a part of North America that is definitely feeling the bitter cold of an Arctic blast, that I like this weather. The air as you breathe it in wakes and stimulates you from the inside out; going sledding with the makes you feel like a again; bundling up to the point of not being able to move - ah, it's insane, but I love it!
Besides, as I keep pointing out, at night, this is perfect cuddling weather. A nice, warm blanket, a cuddling partner - there is really not much more in life that is perfect, in my very humble opinion.
I am not good in hot weather. Around here, it doesn't just get hot, it gets sticky, too. Hot and sweaty - when I haven't done anything to be hot and sweaty about - well, I just don't like it. I mean, when it's cold, you can always add another layer, or bundle up under a blanket to keep warm; when it's hot, you can only get so naked - if you're still sweaty, not much you can do about it. Besides, in public, getting naked is frowned upon by most people... especially if you're older, male, overweight, etc.
A question for you: what's your favorite season, and why? Actually, mine isn't the winter (it's a close second); it's spring, with the new growth, the new life, the warm days, the showers (where I can put on boots and jump in puddles!), even (to an extent) the mud. Summer's too hot for me, and fall, well, fall is when things look like they're dying. What about you - what do you like, and why?
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And the Beard is trimmed...
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Posted:Dec 25, 2014 6:56 pm
Last Updated:Jan 4, 2015 8:03 pm
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Being a white-haired, overweight male, who grows a nice, thick beard, I decided to grow it out for a few months and see what happens. I grew a Santa beard!
But, all good things must come to an end... right before my shower this morning, I decided it was time. I had plugged in the trimmer the day before. I grabbed the trimmer, looked in the mirror, and got started.
4 inches of beard. Gone. The mystique of being Santa. Gone. The magic, the laughs, the pointing at me wondering if... All gone.
Now I'm back to being a face in the crowd.
It was rather neat, always having that instant recognition from and adults, having an instant ice breaker, not having to be totally awkward when you first have someone approach. That confidence - for me - was a huge boost.
But, on the flip side, I no longer have the stress of having to live up to being Santa. I mean, if an attractive woman was in front of me, I kind of felt like I had to avert my eyes; I mean, Santa wouldn't stare openly at an attractive woman. He could see whatever he wants through his magical snow ball; the ultimate voyeur's perk!
The saddest part of all this? Santa has me beat. Oh, sure, I know he's supposed to be married, and he's a saint and all... but even Santa comes once a year.
Merry Christmas!
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Instant Messenger
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Posted:Dec 23, 2014 12:48 pm
Last Updated:Dec 24, 2014 7:32 am
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Maybe it's me, maybe it isn't...
I have noticed that, when I send a message to a woman on IM, that she never replies. So that got me to wondering...
Is it me, or is it everyone?
I mean, seriously, even with my self-image issues, I have sent out several IM requests. I understand, these women may have been involved in conversations with other members, and may not have been interested in chatting with someone else. Then, of course, those who felt that they did not want to talk to me personally. But I wonder if there might not have been something up?
Hell, I'm probably grasping at straws here, but...
So, this leads to a two-part question this time: 1) does this happen to you, too? If so, how often? Do you feel there is a problem with the IM system?
Followed by: 2) does anyone want to see if it works? Seriously. I usually pop on between 10-11 pm EST, and can arrange to either be on IM, or to look in here to see if someone wants to try IM with me to see if it really does work as advertised.
No, this is not a cheap way to meet you - if you don't want to chat with me, that's fine, I just want to see if I should be wasting my time with it or not.
If you are interested, leave a comment. I can either make it public or not, your choice. Just let me know what you want to do.
Thank you to any who reply.
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Where Did You Have The Best Sex Ever?
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Posted:Dec 15, 2014 8:09 pm
Last Updated:Dec 24, 2014 12:07 pm
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I have had some hot times in a hot tub... been on a floor... a bed (of course)... but my favorite...
The Shower.
Ah. Lathering up my lover's breasts (gotta make sure they're clean!), scrubbing her hair (and I do mean on her head, you pervs!), soaping up her body - and getting a good feel while I'm at it, while she returns the favor - getting clean all in the name of getting dirty again!
The shower has been a favorite of mine for years. Kissing, rubbing, soaping, even towel drying her body - oh, the anticipation of when we get out and get down to gettin' dirty again.
But, I gotta admit, my sex life is pretty, well, vanilla. I love reading about folks' adventures; I mean, it makes me want to live them, too. So, the question remains... where did you have the best sex ever?
If you would rather keep it private, just let me know, and I won't share - it'll just be our little secret!
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Time Flies... Even...
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Posted:Dec 6, 2014 1:18 pm
Last Updated:Dec 10, 2014 6:25 pm
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Well, when things aren't any different.
Working, eating, playing with the , going to sleep - that's my day. Nothing new.
I have been trying recently to get myself out there more. I am clicking on more profiles, trying to chat with more folks on IM (when it works), and dropping little comments when I see something great - or interesting - on cam. Hotlisting has been a boon for me: I've been getting more looks due to it.
But it is a long, drawn-out process.
How about you? You having success?
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You know what...?
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Posted:Oct 12, 2014 8:14 pm
Last Updated:Dec 14, 2015 7:38 pm
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I have recently been looking around at other sites, where, even though I have not signed up, I get frequent notices of chat invitations, little mail alerts, etc., from all of these fabulously beautiful women.
Huh.
Even on other sites I had to sign up to view their members, I put in a very generic description of myself, and no photo - and I still get lots of chat invitations and mail alerts.
Huh. Weird.
And many of these invitations are from women who are much younger than myself, and, to be honest, are WAAAAAAAAAAAAY out of my league. I mean, some of these women are model- or porn-star-quality beauties. And they want to spend time with me - with a very generic description of myself, and no pictures?
Right.
One of these women actually has a photo I recognized from a member here on Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating. I'll have to drop her a little note to let her know that someone has "borrowed" her ass... and it's a nice ass.
Given that my self-confidence is shot (being married to a woman who would rather play social media games online than be with you is a bit damaging to the old ego), and all the other issues I've mentioned along the way, I just gotta wonder - are these women legit? Or have they used photos they have "borrowed" (as I mentioned before), or from their youth, or from their pretty girlfriends, etc., to attract more attention? Or do they just want to lead men around by their balls?
Do women get off on leading men around by their balls electronically? And how can you tell if they are?
I believe the answer is yes - just the same as men do, surely - and, sadly, you can't. The internet is a wonderful place to hide, because, as the saying goes, "no one knows you're a on the internet." Woof.
I am the dog. And I just don't enjoy it.
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Ah, a new month...
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Posted:Sep 1, 2012 8:40 pm
Last Updated:Sep 3, 2014 8:45 pm
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New school year, new month, new season approaching...
What's going on in your life?
Mine? Well, the more things change... sigh.
I think the change of seasons is helping a little. I am feeling a little bit more up than I have been, and that's good. Other than that, not much is new.
So, anything good going on in your life?
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So, what's happening?
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Posted:Apr 29, 2012 8:15 pm
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2012 6:44 pm
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Not much.
Real life has reared it's ugly head, and has eaten up whatever free time I have had as of late.
I still exist, I am still married (whatever that means), and I am still feeling a bit sorry for myself.
Gadzooks, I HATE it when I do that!
I become a whiny old, well, whiner. Hell, I can't stand reading my thoughts when I do that - and I kinda have to live with me. I don't want you to have to put up with that kind of self-pitying BS from me.
In case you hadn't noticed, I like to defuse tense situations with humor. Sometimes, it's a good thing; others, well, it can make a situation worse.
So, how about a joke?
One Sunday, the dawn broke, and it was a beautiful day. Perfect temperature, perfect breeze, perfect sunshine... a perfect day for golf.
Now this one minister was pretty much addicted to golf, but it had never interfered with his calling - until today. Today, he couldn't get it off his mind. So, as soon as he could, he called the church secretary, and made up a story about how sick he was - he even threw in a few fake coughs - so she would call in a substitute minister. Once that was done, he was off to the links!
It was still pretty early when he got there and paid his greens fee. He piled his clubs into his rented cart, and drove up to the first hole. A nice little par-3 hole, with a slight jag to the left, a little down the fairway. On a good day, he could probably make par. Today, he felt like he owned the place!
He put his ball down on the tee, took a few practice swings to warm up, then lined up his shot. His form was perfection as his back swing neared the top of the arc, then he felt his club being forced down, until it came into contact with the ball. WHACK!
As he continued his follow-through, he watched the ball sail down the fairway, then curve left with the green, and slope down as it approached the hole. It hit the ground a little to the left of the hole, but the slope of the green was to the left - leading the ball slowly down, until it gently fell into the hole. PLINK!
A hole in one. A hole in one? Yes, a HOLE IN ONE!
St. Peter was watching all of this in Heaven. Disgusted, he turned to God. "He lied to get out of his calling, he left his flock to play some frivolous game, and You give him a hole in one? Where is the punishment of sins?"
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God just smiled at St. Peter and said, "Yes, but who can he tell?"
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