Ya know ...after 23 years together you would think that we would be completely secure with our relationship.That is not always the case and I have resently found out I am not the only one who goes through these times of insecurity.Every once in a while I go through a spell of depression and get very insecure with our relationship....Now this is not a lifestyle problem....we went through these long before we entered the lifestyle so it is a problem that I was wondering if other had as well.We recently met a wonderful couple who are going through the same thing right now....Is there others out there who go through these bad times and besides being reassured by our partner....how do we overcome this? We live in a society where relationships come and go...is there such a thing anymore as till death do us part...or is it now till something better comes along do us part.