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Angels, The New Year, Cold Weather, & Sushi :-)
Posted:Jan 16, 2013 12:05 am
Last Updated:Jan 16, 2013 11:46 pm
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Hey all!

I know it has been ages since I was here and blogged. My apologies to those who follow.

I was busy with the holidays. My favorite time of year.

But, I also had some revelations and realizations in my life that put a lot of things into perspective.

In November on one particular night, our furnace quit working. We didn't realize this until morning when we woke up with the and the house was cold. The furnace didn't just "quit", the pilot was off, but there was no gas. The Mr. re-lit the flame and had to turn the gas back on! Well it wasn't working right, so he stayed home from work and had a furnace guy come look at it. He told us that it was the worst furnace he has seen, and that we are extremely lucky that our house did not burn down or blow up! He turned the gas back off and told us we needed a new furnace asap and under no circumstances were we to turn that furnace back on.

I am still stunned by our story. We had a guardian angel looking over our family that night. Or several angels. At any rate, we are very lucky and I am grateful. Beyond grateful. We are blessed.

We had a very good holiday. I loved the snow we got on Christmas Eve. It was magical.

We rang in the new year with family as always, and it was great.

We have had some cold weather, which of course is normal for Montana this time of year hahaha. But I am "feeling" it this year for sure.

I was diagnosed with RA (rheumatoid arthritis) in late spring of last year. For those that do not know, it is actually an autoimmune disease, rather than the "arthritis" that most people think of. The cold has had me in a lot of pain. I am on meds for it, but they lower your immune system because it is a low dose of chemotherapy. So every time I start taking it, I end up sick with something and on antibiotics, so I have to quit taking it for awhile. So I have only been on it for as long as three weeks max before I end up sick with this or that. This means that I am in a lot of pain. My hands, fingers, wrists, shoulders, hips, knees, ankles, and feet all end up hurting. Not all at the same time however...but my hands, fingers, hips, and feet have all been hurting equally lately.

This is on top of my back problems. I also have degenerative joint and disc disease in my spine. Which is why I had the cortisone shot. Then I ended up freaked out because I had my shot during the time that bacterial spinal meningitis outbreak happened because of contaminated injections. Luckily my state was not included, but I was sent a letter anyway with symptoms to watch for etc.

Lots of fun huh? lol

Sometimes it is all I can do to get out of bed some days. Due to pain and fatigue. But I keep positive. I have to. I have a family to look after and take care of. The Mr. is such a loving partner to me...he takes such good care of me. He helps out always, and is always so concerned about how I am feeling. He really makes me feel special and loved. I am very lucky.

I have been starting a plan to re decorate my room, because it has sort of become my sanctuary. I spend a lot of time in my room, so I want it to be comfortable, cozy, and my little spot of happiness lol. So that is my goal for the next few months.

On to the sushi now!! My BFF taught me and my how to make sushi, and we are totally addicted now. It is our new thing, to have movie and sushi night with our "fams". We don't do the raw meat sushi though...yuck! We do the veggies and crab meat. It is sooooo delish!! We have our own sushi set to make sushi now we are so hooked! Never thought I would like it, but she proved me wrong lol.

But I am happy, I am in a good place mentally. I am trying to keep up with exercise, but my body has not been cooperating lately. Especially when just walking around the grocery store is a difficult thing anymore. I keep my faith that I will find the right meds to put me into remission though. I am still young, and I can do this. I have de-stressed my life, and it feels so good.
I know what is important to me and what is not, and the rest doesn't matter.

I have not set any resolutions for the New Year, but to just keep doing what I am doing and be a healthier and happier me.

I just need to catch up with everyone's blogs now and its will all be good. Sorry for the lengthy blog. That is what happens when you are away too long.

Peace!
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HNW - On Thanksgiving
Posted:Nov 22, 2012 1:42 am
Last Updated:Jan 14, 2013 9:59 pm
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Happy HNW a day late, and Happy Thanksgiving to everyone!! I hope that you all have a great holiday with lots of good food.


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HNW - Do you Like?
Posted:Nov 14, 2012 10:11 am
Last Updated:Jan 14, 2013 9:59 pm
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Hi all! I haven't posted in a week! So sorry. I have been so busy. I will post about it. But for now, here is my HNW contribution. These are my favorite boots! Happy HNW everyone!!


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HNW - Better Late Than Never
Posted:Nov 7, 2012 9:24 pm
Last Updated:Nov 14, 2012 10:05 am
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Happy HNW!


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Voting Is Sexy! Lots of Sexy People Out There!
Posted:Nov 6, 2012 10:22 pm
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2013 10:43 pm
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Everyone proved how sexy they are by getting out and voting.

Americans. No matter who you voted for. You exercised your right to vote. Be proud of that.

I am sick as a today, but I still got out to go vote. It didn't take long (although it had the potential to, so I am thankful).

Here is to no more political ads as well, and no more ads in the mail, and no more people knocking on my door or having to screen my phone calls! WooHoo! LOL (for a little while anyway)

I hope you all had a Happy Election Day!

Laterz!
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Better With Age?
Posted:Nov 5, 2012 10:30 pm
Last Updated:Nov 14, 2012 10:06 am
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Hello! It has been a few days again. I thought I was doing good, then starting feeling really shitty again...ended up at the Dr.'s office and am now on some antibiotics for a sinus infection. No word on the strep test...I guess it must have been negative. So, yeah...doing just grand here lol.

Anyway, I wanted to post a thought or two on age.

Whether or not we get "better with age".

Depending on the day, I would say no.

But generally speaking, I would have to say that most people do get better with age.

What do they get better at?

Well...I am glad you asked.

Strictly speaking only as a woman of course, because I have no idea about men's issues etc. on a personal level.

I think that even with the threat of "wrinles"...eek ghads! .... I still 'look' better than I ever have. That is just my opinion however. That comes from knowing how to apply makeup, something I didn't really know in my twenties lol. Taking care of my skin with cremes and oils etc. I know how to take care of my hair as well. Treatments, styling, etc.

Even if I have to color my hair to ward off those gray ones...I still feel sexy.

I have confidence that I lacked when I was younger. Having a man that tells me how beautiful I am on a daily basis doesn't hurt either.

Way better in the sexual department then I was years ago. Practice, practice, practice lol.

Being open to new sexual experiences has really let me be more adventurous with sex. I have learned a lot about sex in general and I am not afraid to talk about it openly.

Knowing who I am and what I want in my life, and who I want in my life is a big part of it too.

Being self aware. Knowing what makes me happy, what does not, what interests me, what I am all about, what makes me tick, what gives me my passion, what is my passion, all of this and more. It is why I can be happy at any point in my life. Even the hard times, because all I have to do is stop and think about what wonderful blessings I have in my life and focus on that.

Being thankful for all I have, all we have worked hard for, and all that is to come still. Even for the lessons learned, even the hard ones. Because without them, I would not be the person I am today.

I used to think that I would hate getting older because I dreaded the thought of wrinkles, and getting gray hair lol. I know...that was so superficial. But typical of young people I think.
I never realized how much more life is. How much more beautiful it is. Just to be. To be in the world. A part of something so wonderful.

Most things are better with age. Anything that is worth anything at any rate lol.

We learn more as we age too, at least that is how it should be. We are never to old to learn something new. It is never too late either.

So, yes. My answer is yes. We do get better with age.

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Sex Appeal & Legs
Posted:Nov 1, 2012 11:56 pm
Last Updated:Jan 14, 2013 10:00 pm
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"There is more to sex appeal than just measurements. I don't need a bedroom to prove my womanliness. I can convey just as much sex appeal, picking apples off a tree or standing in the rain."
-Audrey Hepburn




I just love that quote.
Mostly because it is true.
If I am having a "good hair" day, so to speak, then I feel sexy, and when you feel sexy, you feel confident, and then others can see it as well.
Certain items of clothing can help make you feel sexy too.
A favorite bra, or a new one.
A pair of red lace panties, or black.
Whatever your favorite color.
A slinky pair of 'hose'.
High heels or boots.
It could even be just a good makeup day, or a new shade of lipstick.
Anything really.
Because you can wear a man's shirt and be sexy as hell too.

Sexy is different than "slutty". Some women don't understand the difference.
You want to be sexy not slutty.
Slutty is trying too hard.
It's trying Everything all at once, but nothing works because it is not genuine, it clearly doesn't make the women feel confident, she is only trying to make herself look sexy. It doesn't work.

Just one simple thing can help you feel sexy and give you that confidence....it doesn't have to, nor should it be, everything all at once.

Sometimes you won't even know what it is...but a man will find it extremely sexy.
The way you look at him through your lashes.
Your laugh.
The way you twirl your hair...
The way you chew your bottom lip when you are in deep thought.
Watching you breath, and the way your breasts heave when you are excited.

So many unknowns.
But mystery is good as well.
The allure of that which is still to come...

Sexiness. Beauty. Confidence. Appeal.

Legs...Breasts...Ass...Hands....Eyes...

Movement. Sway. Angle.

Touch...Whisper...Breath...

Hot.

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Smooth & Slick - ;-)
Posted:Oct 31, 2012 11:59 pm
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2012 10:34 pm
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This is a Halloween party pic.
Cock ice luge.
Fun fun fun!
Yummy shots taken from this smooth, slick, hard, but cold cock!
I love watching the ladies take shots from this cold hard cock.
Yes, I do have bi tendencies.
Not a full fledged bi chic however,
I do appreciate a beautiful woman just as much as the men.

I love to touch another woman.
Feel the softness of her skin.
slowly and lightly touching.
Gliding.
Caressing.

Women are beautiful.

I love being a woman.
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Happy Halloween - HNW - Treat
Posted:Oct 31, 2012 12:07 pm
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2012 10:34 pm
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Happy Halloween!
I decided to do a Halloween collage for you.
My Halloween knee highs, and a cute little sheer skirt (its actually an underskirt for Halloween costumes).
Not wearing this for Trick or Treating of course.
Going out with the wee ones since the weather is pretty decent here. It is going to be fun!
This is your treat for HNW!
Laterz!
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Speaking of Heels ;-)
Posted:Oct 30, 2012 10:02 pm
Last Updated:Nov 2, 2012 12:01 am
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If you read my previous blog post 10 Things About Me Tag Game
then you already know that I can no longer wear heels for fashion purposes anymore

But, as discussed...that doesn't mean I can't still wear them in the bedroom for fun! I mean I can't get rid of ALL my heels! That is like asking a woman to cut off an appendage or something! My Gawd! The horror!! I did sell quite a few pairs on the good ole bay site however lol. Some of them just beg to be worn out in public more! What kind of woman would I be if I just kept them holed up in my closet till they went out of style?! Or worse...till they came back into style lol....

But then again, if I had a nice $800 pair of Louboutin's or Jimmy Choo's...they would NEVER go out of style or leave my closet!!

Sadly...I don't even think I will be spending money on high heels any longer...so I have to have my fun with other shoes. Not a problem for me! lol

Hope you enjoy the pic! Just one pair of my "heels".

Laterz!
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10 Things About Me (Tag Game)
Posted:Oct 30, 2012 8:35 pm
Last Updated:Jan 15, 2013 11:25 pm
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I have been tagged twice now for the "10 things about me tag game. First by MCRiderD and then by Teyjj.
I know I told MCRider that I would try to post something over the weekend, and I didn't do that. My apologies. I am actually getting over the flu, so I have been sleeping much of the time. When I am not sleeping I am coughing, blowing my nose, coughing up yuck...lol doesn't it all sound so lovely and erotic???

But back to business...Here are 10 things about me, in no particular order.

1. This is actually the very first time I have ever caught the flu virus. No joke!

2. Halloween is my favorite Holiday to decorate for, because it is in my favorite time of year...Fall!

3. I can't wear high heels anymore Per my Dr.'s orders due to my back problems. That makes me so very sad.

4. I didn't get my drivers license until I was 18 years old.

5. I have never seen the ocean. I know! Soon...

6. I am scared of spiders!

7. I prefer to wear silver jewelry over gold...only because I think that silver looks better against my skin tone.

8. I want to get a tattoo. I currently have none.

9. I can still remember every word of the Mr. Ed theme song, and sing it. I used to watch it all the time on Nick at Nite.

10. I Loved the Sookie Stackhouse Novels before they became the True Blood series...but now I love the HBO series too.

There! Done....I'm not going to Tag anyone, only because I have been reading the blogs and I swear that everyone has been tagged lol...so you are just going to have to deal.

Laterz!
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Playboy Bunny
Posted:Oct 25, 2012 8:23 pm
Last Updated:Oct 30, 2012 8:13 pm
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These are my playboy bunny knee socks I also have a silver playboy bunny necklace. May feature that in another post...perhaps.
I am still in my warm and cozy phase. I somehow accumulated an abundance of knee socks in the last year. Because they are great for the cold weather months.

Laterz!
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A Clean Close Shave?
Posted:Oct 25, 2012 9:06 am
Last Updated:Nov 22, 2012 1:43 am
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I just had to share this.
This is an actual review on 'the river' site for "veet for men hair removal gel creme".
I shit you not. I looked myself and it is the first review. Not sure why he gave it a five star review lol but it is so funny!! Here ya go!

"After having been told my danglies looked like an elderly rastafarian I decided to take the plunge and buy some of this as previous shaving attempts had only been mildly succesful and I nearly put my back out trying to reach the more difficult bits. Being a bit of a romantic I thought I would do the deed on the missus's birthday as a bit of a treat.
I ordered it well in advance and working in the North sea I considered myself a bit above some of the characters writing the previous reviews and wrote them off as soft office types...oh my fellow sufferers how wrong I was. I waited until the other half was tucked up in bed and after giving some vague hints about a special surprise I went down to the bathroom. Initially all went well and I applied the gel and stood waiting for something to happen. I didn't have long to wait.
At first there was a gentle warmth which in a matter of seconds was replaced by an intense burning and a feeling I can only describe as like being given a barbed wire wedgie by two people intent on hitting the ceiling with my head. Religion hadn't featured much in my life until that night but I suddenly became willing to convert to any religion to stop the violent burning around the turd tunnel and what seemed like the destruction of the meat and two veg. Struggling to not bite through my bottom lip I tried to wash the gel of in the sink and only succeeded in blocking the plughole with a mat of hair. Through the haze of tears I struggled out of the bathroom across the hall into the kitchen by this time walking was not really possible and I crawled the final yard to the fridge in the hope of some form of cold relief. I yanked the freezer drawer out and found a tub of ice cream, tore the lid of and positioned it under me. The relief was fantastic but only temporary as it melted fairly quickly and the fiery stabbing soon returned .
Due to the shape of the ice cream tub I hadn't managed to give the starfish any treatment and I groped around in the drawer for something else as I was sure my vision was going to fail fairly soon.I grabbed a bag of what I later found out was frozen sprouts and tore it open trying to be quiet as I did so.I took a handful of them and tried in vain to clench some between the cheeks of my arse. This was not doing the trick as some of the gel had found it's way up the chutney channel and it felt like the space shuttle was running it's engines behind me.
This was probably and hopefully the only time in my life I was going to wish there was a gay snowman in the kitchen which should give you some idea of the depths I was willing to sink to in order to ease the pain. The only solution my pain crazed mind could come up with was to gently ease one of the sprouts where no veg had gone before.
Unfortunately, alerted by the strange grunts coming from the kitchen the other half chose that moment to come and investigate and was greeted by the sight of me, arse in the air, strawberry ice cream dripping from my bell end pushing a sprout up my arse while muttering..." Ooooh that feels good ". Understandably this was a shock to her and she let out a scream and as I hadn't heard her come in it caused an involutary spasm of shock in myself which resulted in the sprout being ejected at quite some speed in her direction. I can understand that having a sprout farted against your leg at 11 at night in the kitchen probably wasn't the special surprise she was expecting and having to explain to the the next day what the strange hollow in the ice cream was didn't improve my status...So to sum it up Veet removes hair, dignity and self respect..."

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