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It's more than just condoms   9/27/2005

We've been to a few different swinger clubs and resorts, and we're still amazed at the ignorance some people show. We were very happy at one place that really pushed safe sex - those that complain are either asked to leave or not invited back. At another location, it was frowned upon - with the answer that "people in the lifestyle don't have problems". They even complained about ...


1 Comments, 633 Views, 26 Votes ,6.05 Score
rm_turner11000 38 M
2  Articles
You think you know someone....   9/25/2005

You can meet someone that you think is fit and cool and get one really well. Everything goes well and you end up shagging, you always use condoms, but after you have split up she tells you that you still need to go to the docs because she has a disease that can be passed from her pussy lips to the very base of your penis. The motto is this, go to the doctors after you split from someone ...


0 Comments, 382 Views, 13 Votes ,4.49 Score
Safe Ass Licking   9/19/2005

What are the do's and don't of safe ass licking? Probably starts with a shower, but then what?


3 Comments, 629 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
JsAngelBaby 37 F
4  Articles
What To Buy?   9/15/2005

So I was thinking, since I want too much out of guys (like want one to be around 3 days out of seven) I was thinking that why not go get the next best thing . . . A vibrator or dildo. But I want to know more about them, what is what. Yes I have seen both, but what really works better? I have never had sex so if I get a dildo will it “pop my cherry, ” for say? ...


4 Comments, 557 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
rm_brjn1 47 C
1  Article
Blood Donors and Safe Sex   9/8/2005

We have read on the advice lines before that the easiest way to get tested for sexually transmitted diseases in America is to be a blood donor, and that donors are given a certificate to say they are healthy. <br> Is this really what happens over there? <br> This doesn't happen in the UK. Our blood transfusion service has a policy of refusing blood donations from ...


4 Comments, 444 Views, 24 Votes ,4.61 Score
justkickinit5 43 M
10  Articles
curious to see what the percentage of people out there are saf.   9/6/2005

well i was curious about how many peopl out there use condoms or some bitrth control... i hope its a big one , people we have got to be safe out there.... let me know...


3 Comments, 298 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
rm_BnKnNC 42 C
7  Articles
Wrap it   9/1/2005

If your gonna do it, Wrap it up!!! That's the only way to protect yourself. Especially, in a lifestyle like this. It only takes one person to have something before a whole lot of people can get it if you don't. It's not about birth control. It's about protecting yourself and the ones you love.


2 Comments, 244 Views, 12 Votes ,4.39 Score
a must   8/27/2005

it you are going to do it why not make it safe so you can do it again protect yourself


0 Comments, 270 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
cuple67 56 C
6  Articles
sex is good if we know how we do it   8/23/2005

hi to all nice and sexy people the sex live give us what we think in our imagination but we must be carfull a bout our health


0 Comments, 515 Views, 19 Votes ,1.94 Score
Is this safe ENOUGH?   8/22/2005

We've never been with anyone besides each other. We are only planning to play with one other couple, but we want to make sure that we are safe when we do. <br> Here's a basic "safety" list we came up with: <br> 1) Vaginal penetration by / with the other couple using condoms, but no internal cumshots. Pull out even with the rubber, pull the rubber off and let her jack him ...


2 Comments, 660 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
cplseeksfml4fun 44 C
9  Articles
Why do some people not like safe sex?   8/22/2005

Me and my husband are into the swinging lifestyle, yet we use protection both ways we go. We wouldn't have it any other way. It is the safest way to be. You avoid getting a deadly disease and you avoid getting pregnant by someone else's husband. <br> So why is it that people are so nasty and could care less about protection from both male and female point of views?


2 Comments, 303 Views, 15 Votes ,2.37 Score
mmmaybeu 51 M
3  Articles
oral   8/19/2005

Just wondering is oral sex safe or can you catch some nasties from it? Theres never such thing as a stupid question


0 Comments, 332 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
Why condoms????   8/18/2005

As a swinging couple I have to ask a seemingly stupid question? Why condoms? First of all you must trust, to a certain degree, the people you are swinging with. And if you engage in oral sex, as many of us do, you probably do it without a condom. So if a guy receives oral sex without the condom and then another guy receives oral sex from the same female it seems like those two guys just had ...


1 Comments, 496 Views, 15 Votes ,2.37 Score
HomerBigSlick 36 M
3  Articles
Condoms   8/17/2005

I hate using condoms, but unfortunately they are a necessity when sleeping with new partners. Does anyone out there know of any type of condoms that let you actually feel what you are doing?


1 Comments, 248 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
sixpackboytoy 42 M
3  Articles
fakes   8/16/2005

so many women are fake on this site you email them only to find that money is involved one way or another whether it be a site or flat out for sex people say if they look too good then it probably is but should i really have to lower my standards/


6 Comments, 551 Views, 24 Votes ,4.04 Score
4 bi men for fun (part 2)   8/14/2005

It was really getting very exciting one cock in my hand, one in my mouth, another mouth on my cock while another mouth sucked cock number four. It was so great. Lots of slurping, then in the background there is the faint tingle of a cell phone. Damn, someone's going to get called away. But no one leaves. How great is this, four of us enjoying the hot sex. I am tasting precum for the ...


0 Comments, 404 Views, 12 Votes ,4.74 Score
AbsolutePrincss 55 C
3  Articles
Be Carefull   8/4/2005

Even though your cought up in the moment of hot wrong sex...lol...dont forget to stop and take the time to use protection. It wouldn't take much to get and spread something around...expecially if you have multiple partners


1 Comments, 540 Views, 34 Votes ,6.39 Score
SingleWhiteMan5 39 M
6  Articles
Has anyone gotten an STD from someone on Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating?   7/29/2005

I think if someone has an STD they should be required to post it on Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating, a lot of people are here for only sex and the more STD's spread the more likely it is anyone can catch them. There should be an option to post your records on Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating to prove that you do not have STD's, at least to the date shown, kind of like the confirm ID thing, what do ya think?


7 Comments, 706 Views, 25 Votes ,5.46 Score
smartin2680 44 M
2  Articles
the new patch..   7/27/2005

i am sexually active and recently i met a women who uses the patch for her contraceptive choice. i am a firm believer in the condom not only for stds but for birth control. she had said that it was just like the pill but better. i had my doubts anyway but am asking if anyone uses it or been with someone who does and how effective is it?


2 Comments, 305 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Cunnilingus and safe sex   7/22/2005

I like to eat pussy, I am good at it. I want to be safe. Tell me what you know about safety. What do you do?


3 Comments, 990 Views, 14 Votes ,2.98 Score
jumboman69247 45 M
6  Articles
Oral Sex and HIV   7/17/2005

I hear that you can catch HIV from oral sex, especially if the sex fluid is squirted directly into the mouth without exposure to air first. The giver of oral can get it even if there are no cuts/sores in their mouth. Given this, how many people actual use condoms/dental dams for oral sex? I for one, couldn't imagine the pleasure being anywhere the same, since contact with the ...


3 Comments, 910 Views, 18 Votes ,2.17 Score
Sweetcock_1977 47 M
10  Articles
Condoms   7/14/2005

My friend told me they streched a condom over their head, is this possible or r they winding me up?


2 Comments, 171 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
GreatWithTounge2 46 M
4  Articles
Condoms   7/14/2005

Arnt they a pain in the arse, always ruin the moment + it feels so much better without! Wish there were another safe form of protection!


0 Comments, 106 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
dealer0900 37 M
5  Articles
Are enlargement pills safe or do they have side effects?   7/12/2005

I was going through a site where I have seen the ads of enlargement pills, that "guarantee" satisfaction in a certain amount of time. I have read through their mechanism and how they actually stimulate the penis, and I think it would actually work. However, my concern is about their side effects. Since the enlargement pills are not tested in Bayer's laboratories, a question mark ...


1 Comments, 229 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
huckin 53 M
2  Articles
Why Talk about Safe Sex?   7/7/2005

I totally agree with this person. Sex, NO MATTER how, should always be safe. Take ALL the precautions there are.


1 Comments, 85 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
Abercrombie532 36 M
2  Articles
Getting tested   7/5/2005

Getting tested for hiv and other stds is something that should be done on a regular basis.


4 Comments, 238 Views, 12 Votes ,4.57 Score
SweetandWild27 48 F
3  Articles
Why Talk about safe sex   7/3/2005

Ok People, Think about this..You are on Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating, looking for sex, sex, and more sex, with someone You talk with through a damn screen..And Face it People condoms dont always work, nor does Birthcontrol, or being fixed...The only way to know You wont catch something is to get off the Sex Sites, and meet someone that You can actually see in person on a daily bases, and get to know that person ...


1 Comments, 534 Views, 24 Votes ,3.36 Score
my encounters with ladies when making love...   7/3/2005

making love is an art of enjoyment, with someone that we have chemistry and mutual understanding with... the enjoyment of being touch, feel, kiss, caress, and taste physically... in all, be it ladies or guy, we do have our needs at times... precautions need to be taken care of when we are enjoying love making...i have in due respects for the ladies that i have met so far... thanks! to ...


1 Comments, 195 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
tiny_puppy 46 F
6  Articles
just feel safe with condom   7/2/2005

too worried when without condom with some guy ..make me ready to mad. Clean, safe ...very important...


4 Comments, 460 Views, 20 Votes ,4.53 Score
dynamitesneon 41 M
10  Articles
Is there a way as safe as condoms but feels like the real thing?   6/28/2005

I suppose the title pretty much sums this up.


2 Comments, 222 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score