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It's a two-way street isn't it?
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It's a two-way street isn't it? I have always thought that in the real world the best sex always involved two or more people. It seems though in cyberspace this does not apply. A room in which I was a moderator has recently been closed much to my regret. The main reason for this closure was the lack of people willing to participate fully in the room. I and my fellow moderator, a girl, would feel obliged to spend as much time as we possibly could in the room to welcome visitors both new ones and the regulars. Indeed part of that obligation extended to perhaps using our WebCams more often than we really wanted to. Eventually though it became obvious that fewer and fewer people would join us on their WebCams. Obviously when my fellow moderator went on her cam the room tended to get busy! The guys would come into the room and jump on her cam and stay until they were satisfied occasionally someone would actually fire up their cams. I know that this sort of thing is standard procedure in most of the rooms. However, my point is that it also works the other way it has become increasingly obvious that many of the female visitors seem to be more and more reluctant to go on cam. It would appear that many of the guys here are quite happy to go on cam and be viewed by any woman, or alleged woman, who for whatever reason is not on cam. Why is this? Are we that desperate? Or too trusting? It seems to me that this being basically a sex site it would be reasonable to expect most people to be willing to use their WebCams. However should you dare to ask 'do you go on cam?' of any woman in the room you usually either get a somewhat tired excuse or a terse no. Do this too often and you get labelled cam-hound. Now I believe it is quite reasonable to expect that both sexes should participate fully in the rooms activity and that if it is okay for a woman to expect men to go on cam then we men should expect the same. In fact I believe this to such an extent that at this moment in time and for the foreseeable future I shall only allow those on my cam that I know to be real women. These women will be ones that I know from past experience either have cammed in the past or ones that are on cam at the same time. Now I expect this will result in far fewer viewers! And as an exhibitionist this is not what I would want. I do think though that if we, as men, were more reluctant to ' perform' willy-nilly perhaps more women would be willing to use their WebCams. I am under no illusion that this is perhaps purely pie the sky. After all given the ratio of men to women why should women bother? I do get rather tired of the same old excuses such as, I'm too shy, or, I might be recognized, or there are people around. Now come on this is a sex site hardly a place for the shy! And who would recognize you? Only other members. I'm not saying that everyone should be on their cams 24/7 or that they need be naked showing their faces etc. nice though that may be! It would just be nice to know that the person you are talking to or is viewing your cam is what they claim to be and that they are enjoying what they are watching. Words are sometimes not enough. Not only am I an exhibitionist but I'm also into watersports so sometimes, in fact most times, what we view is not specifically sexual in nature although we do find it very erotic. Because of the nature of this our WebCams are open to be viewed by both sexes and most of us are quite happy with that. I personally will only watch women, but the exhibitionist in me means that I'm happy to be viewed by either sex. But naturally I find it much more arousing when I know that I'm being watched by a woman and that she is enjoying what she is seeing. So, what about it girls? Are you willing to play fair? Or are you happy to be freeloaders and take advantage of the situation? Yes I do know that many of you do in fact use their WebCams on a regular basis but in my experience the so, so many that do not. I also know that this is been a regular bone of contention for so long in so many rooms. Just remember though that just like in the real world sex is indeed a two-way street even in cyberspace. By the way, if anyone is curious I can usually be found most days in ParkPees lololol |
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a very very good entry cyber.... I couldn't agree more. Come on people join in with the fun and don't just sit there watching..... even chatting in the room is better than seeing a room full of people but still talking to myself. oh..... watch me wank and do you cam does not count as chat 
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