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Fat Shaming/Acceptance
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Fat Shaming/Acceptance  PinkxxxKisses posed a thoughtful question in her blog about the prevalence of "fat shaming." As a former BBW that weighed 210 pounds five years ago, I too have experienced this phenomenon. I am curious about your thoughts. Do fat men who hook-up with fit women receive less flack than fat women that hook up with fit men? Have you ever dated a person whose physique was drastically different than yours? Did it make a difference on whether you introduced them to your friends? |
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Fat guy hooks up with a fit girl over here and the whole Bar applauds him as he leaves, more so if he leaves with her. Then we pass a hat around and pay his taxi fare !! Dated far thinner when I was younger and was with fatter girls after I lost the weight. I was quite content with myself both times ! By fat shaming, do you mean, walk right up to their face and insult them ? Well donr shedding down ! Iused to be 280 of your American pounds at 15
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Fit women who hook up with fat men are seen to have low standards or self-esteem or to be hooking up with him for his money. Ugly and older men have the extra boon of possibly being particularly well endowed thrown into the mix. No one seems to talk openly about a chubby chaser fetish in the fat man's direction, though it could be out there. Fat women who hook up with fit men are seen to either be hooked up with either due to her money or his chubby chaser fetish. The other option is that he is transient, in and out of the picture in the blink of an eye. The same goes for ugly or older women (in comparison to their male partner). I don't introduc hook ups to my friends. Two different worlds that should never collide. When one moved on to something more, an introduction was made. It was as much of a mistake as he was. But we'll save that story for another time.
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My hubby was a very much larger man. I kept telling him that I loved him the same no matter what shape or size he was. He still says he's fat, I keep telling him that I love him. "To Be Consumed" Blog : I want to be your drug of painful withdrawals.
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I have no preferences either way, but am so sick of the shit I get from women that call me fat, whilst not the skinniest of people and also the real skinny ones thinking I am a lost whale or some thing....
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When I was in college, I dated girls who were bigger. I loved them either way. Girls were usually the ones who were saying I should date girls more slender. Ironically, after two knee surgeries and back injury it's been tough to stay as fit and yet have had girls say I should be dating only big girls (after I had a break up with one slender girls even guys jumped in and said, you should only date girls as big as you). It is a shame that people have pre conceived notions of who you are supposed to date. If there is chemistry even after you have booth seen each other naked, who the hell cares. Really.
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I've never dated outside my BMI. I don't find overweight women to be attractive. That being said, I find it a sad commentary on society when anyone is cheered as some sort of hero, or had their motivations questioned because they accepted a partner that has an unpopular physique. I thought that we were all supposed to be free to love whomever we wanted? From a man's POV, I shouldn't be a hero for dating a fat chick, and I shouldn't be a superficial shallow selfish dick if I don't. Sadly, that's not the case. I've been called names and blocked on this and other sites simply for stating that I prefer not to date women that are overweight.
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I haven't really faced this issue.......though some women I have met keep insisting they are heavy when they aren't...but that is an entirely different topic.... Click Here To Read A Hot Erotic Story: When A Woman Meets A Stranger Part 1 of 4
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I don't assess people based on their looks or weight, but rather, the content of their character. I am not interested in people that have requirements of such superficial qualities either. I consider them lacking in depth, and in all probability, unable to have a meaningful conversation. Not my cup of tea.
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I've dated women from 4'10" to 5'10", from 105 pounds to probably 260 pounds. I have things that attract me to women, being big or small isn't really what draws me. I find attractive and unattractive in big and small sizes. I'm a few extra pounds, and I find it damned near impossible to find a "vanilla" date. Take a guy that needs to lose weight and add financial difficulty, I'm pretty much in the leper colony. And I see and hear plenty of bigger women who say they have no problem whatsoever finding men attracted to them. Women with financial problems? They've got no problems finding dates, guys don't expect them to pay for anything.
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