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AFFAIRS I AM WONDERING IF YOU HAVE EVER HAD AN AFFAIR? IF SO, DESCRIBE THE DETAILS, WERE YOU BOTH MARRIED? WAS ONE OF YOU SINGLE? HOW WAS THE SEX, REALLY? DID EITHER OF YOU OR BOTH OF YOU GET EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED? WERE YOU ABLE TO SPEND AS MUCH TIME TOGETHER AS YOU WANTED? WAS IT A REGULAR THING FOR EXAMPLE A CERTAIN DAY OR DAYS AND AT A CERTAIN TIME? OR WAS IT JUST SOME OCCASIONAL STOLEN MOMENTS? WHERE DID YOU MEET? HOW DID IT END? OR IS IT ONGOING? AND FINALLY..AFTER ALL IS SAID AND DONE...IS IT REALLY WORTH THE RISK? I AM HERE TO FIND SOMEONE SINGLE, BECAUSE I AM SINGLE, WITH SIMILAR SEX INTERESTS. I GET CONTACTED ALL THE TIME BY MARRIED MEN, AND I GOTTA ADMIT I AM TEMPTED BUT AM WONDERING ALL THE ABOVE QUESTIONS? IN THE END, I THINK I WILL BE DISAPPOINTED AS IT WILL NEVER BE ENOUGH...BUT WONDER IF THE PLAYTIME MIGHT BE FUN FOR A WHILE. I AM USUALLY AGAINST CHEATING...BUT I AM SINGLE...SO THE RISK IS REALLY HIS. UNLESS SOMEONE FINDS OUT...THEN MY LIFE COULD BE TURNED UPSIDE DOWN WHEN WORD GETS OUT. YOUR THOUGHTS...PLEASE!!! I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN HAPPINESS!! (MY LIFE'S PHILOSOPHY) |
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4/16/2008 2:59 pm |
You have significant risk too ... the risk of becoming emotionally attached, then you are the "odd man out". When it ends, he still has his wife and you have no one. I would strongly suggest you stay away from married men. Blogging: It is Cheaper Than Therapy !
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4/17/2008 11:02 am |
I was in a relationship while I was married also. She was divorced, without kids. It was an occasional thing maybe twice a week. It lasted about 3 months.It was during a period of my life that I was drinking quite a bit and went out without my wife often. Not a good situation. It was fun and pretty wild. She did become emotionally attached, and I did not. My wife did find out. When I tried to break up she called my wife and told her all about it. I did break up with the GF and stayed with my wife for about 7 yrs after. So yes its fun and exciting and a bit of an ego booster to start with. Yes its hard on both people emotionally. And in the end probably not very fullfilling, especially for the female. It wasnt worth the risk. But if I was married again and the right woman came along I cant say for certain that I wouldnt do it again. I dont drink much anymore and I am single, and dont plan on getting married again. So hopefully I am not destined to repeat the same mistake again. lol.
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THANKS TO YOU ALL FOR YOUR HONESTY AND OPENNESS...THINK WE ALL CAN BENEFIT FROM YOUR EXPERIENCES. ITS LEARNING FROM OTHER PEOPLES EXPERIENCES THAT MAKE BLOGGING SO WORTHWHILE. I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN HAPPINESS!! (MY LIFE'S PHILOSOPHY)
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4/20/2008 7:52 am |
Hi Playful.... I wandered upon your blog page by just clicking central wisconsin lol... We are in the friends group. Thought I would share my story with you. Before my story ... I just want to say...... NOOOOOOOOOOOOO NOOOOOOOOOOO NOOOOOOOOOO Married men... all it will do is lead to heartbreak... You seem like a really great person, one that wants love and companionship, a partner... the emotional ties are too risky with anyone married. Years ago I married my teenage sweetie... he treated me great.. was a treasure I was too young to appreciate at 19... I then met husband to be #2.. I had never cheated on anyone ever I hated cheaters... He was also married, hot, exciting, wild, ... we had a wild passionate affair for 6 weeks that i felt guilty about every waking moment,as I had no excuse for it... my husband was great... he was just boring and I was young... well it all came to a head... I left my husband, he left his wife, my parents wouldnt talk to me for a year as they loved the husband I left... 11 years and 3 kids later.... GUESS WHAT??? IMAGINE THIS... What goes around comes around... I always figure this was my payback for hurting my first husband so much... HE CHEATED ON ME!!! ahaha... payback is a bitch isnt it... turns out he was cheating on me with numerous women for the entire 11 years of our marriage... and we had wild great sex 5 times a week at least... SO... I did'nt blame myself for his behavior... I just moved on... Raising my kids alone for 12 years... I finally met a wonderful man .. we have been together now for 1 1/2 years... He would never cheat on me this I am sure of, nor would I cheat on him.... CHEATING SUCKS.......... I dont believe anyone can really feel ok when doing it... even if you are single and your not cheating on anyone... you are still cheating yourself.... Thanks for letting me vent lol... We should chat sometime, I think you sound like a really cool woman.. R
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Hi I guess I will take the side no one has! I am married and have had 2 affairs over 25 years. Both were with-in the last 3 years and both knew I was married. One of them was still married and one seperated. It was not always sex! Lots of times it was a breakfast get together at mc d's or at a park. It was just nice to sit and chat about what was going on in our lives. When it did lead to sex it was always great!I still talk to these women and when and if they wanted to meet I would go!Like it was said above "friends with benefits". I also met a woman with whom I did not have sex with and we talk a couple time a week, again fwb's but different bebefits. If you want a man just for sex I say just do it and enjoy yourself!!! And if and when your dream guy comes along you won't have any problems. Plus you never know! you might find a friend along the way.
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I've had a couple of affairs that were very rewarding. Both of the women were single and we became very good friends as well as lovers. The sex was fantastic I think because we were friends and felt comfortable with each other. We never saw each other often enough, but we chatted online when we couldn't meet and when we were able to meet the sex was that much better. One of the ladies met and fell in love with the man of her dreams and got married and the other also experienced changes in her personal life but I remain close friends with both through email. That may not be normal, but I've never looked for just sex. Intimacy has to be more than sex, it has to be trust and true friendship too.
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