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Getting to an Open Marriage  

IMdoc2r 60M/61F
14 posts
2/19/2011 11:03 pm
Getting to an Open Marriage

How do other couples do this?

Coming out as bisexual a few years ago led to many great conversations with my wife and ever better sex. Nothing outside the marriage has occured, but she wants to move toward an open marriage.

I am ok with it, if it helps strengthen us and we can avoid jealousy and other issues. I'd also like to be able to have an FWB who is female and she balks at this. I don't know why. She wants a FWB due to my being gone all the time, but only if its male. So bisexual fun is ok, hetero fun...not so much.

How do other couples move to a place of security and still maintain trust, love, and without jealousy.

What is there to discuss?

donrochelle 67M/61F

10/29/2019 3:18 pm

 I hope you read this. As you know we live apart, so eventually we gravitated to an open relationship and meeting people alone. Both being bi we initially decided we’d only have same sex partners. She had a girlfriend out there mostly just the teo of them, and had 3somes with her and her husband after my being ok (we had met initially as a couple so I was comfortable with him. Her gf passed away in a car accident and finding another single girl became very difficult. Here in Fl meeting single males is an ordeal although on occassion it works out. So we discussed it, and realized restricting to same sex just wasnt viable. So being very secure in our relationship, we met whomever situationally allowed. I started seeing a couple we had met before and did 3somes, and ultimately she and I met alone (with full permission, comfort, trust and respect on both parts) frequently. Rochelle has dated some guys here and there. My gf here got cancer and sadly thats no longer viable. But how we help bridge the gap, is first by total honesty, and full knowledge its an aside and no ones leaving the other or stealing anyone. Also, photos, vids and a full “debrief” also helps. Happy to chat about it over coffee sometime.


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