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A Correspondence  

onelittlesecret 41M
68 posts
2/20/2008 12:10 pm

Last Read:
7/29/2020 8:40 am

A Correspondence


Okay, I have a confession to make. Before coming back to Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating I decided to give one of those other “dating” sites a try. I made up a profile, sent out a couple e-mails (on this site it was free) and soon started out a correspondence with a lovely all-American girl from New Hampshire.

I figured you guys might enjoy it, although there’s a lot to it. I posted the back and forth as comments within.

Oh, and for the guys, look for a follow-up post on how to make a successful profile.

onelittlesecret 41M
1579 posts
2/20/2008 12:11 pm

date: Sat, Feb 2, 2008 at 4:04 PM
subject: About Me

Hi Dear, I'm Sarah ----- from -------,NH...I read ur profiles and will really like to know u more better....Let me first of all introduce myself....Im the only child of my parents ,and lived with my dad until he died in 2003..I have never had chance to be wth mum,cos she left my dad since i was 2 yrs old....I work as an artiste...Deal with artworks stuffs...It often involves traveling inorder to get it aswell..Am a lady with a joyfull character,independant,optimistic, respectfull, sensual and attractive..I like going to beaches, camping ,watching ovies,dinners , clubs and listening to musicals as hobbies,My favourite sports are football,basketball..My last dating was really horrible....My last ex boy friend was a Drug addict and since i caught him,i have vowed not to be with him..Cos he has really hurt my feelings and heart cos i was really honest to him instead....Now so much coucious looking for my Mr right .someone to love and will love me back same way without any hinderance of any kind..I like kids but got none but i really want a new family one day!..I live alone right now......I will really like to know u better ,if you respond back to my message...You will see some pix of me at my profiles...and also some lil more things about me....I hope to hear back from you soonest..
Regards with luv,
Sarah


onelittlesecret 41M
1579 posts
2/20/2008 12:12 pm

date: Sun, Feb 3, 2008 at 1:12 AM
subject: Re: About Me

Hey Sarah,

Thanks for the letter. What sort of artwork do you deal with? Like I said in my last letter, I'm working on -------- right now. I actually just got back a couple weeks ago from -------. It was pretty cool, -----------.

In a couple months I'll be headed to work back at --------, which is actually a pretty fantastic place. I've been working there the past couple years, basically getting paid to learn. Haha. Where did you study in school?

I've been talking with my sister about going to see Juno this week, I've heard from a lot of people about how good it is. What kind of movies are you into?

Take care, you sound sweet. And ask me any questions. I hope to be able to get to know you better.

----


onelittlesecret 41M
1579 posts
2/20/2008 12:12 pm

date: Sun, Feb 3, 2008 at 11:56 PM
subject: Where i'm now

Hi , I'm really grateful for your message to me..I liked your profile aswell and think we might have some things in common, I will also like you to know more about me,Well right now am on a short business trip to some place in Western Africa..I cameto buy some of my artworks and crafts that i sell...I will be back home early Next Week...So i will like to know more about u...Do u have kids?have u been married before?Do u live alone?What do u really do 4 living ...Do u wanna meet in person when am back so we can get on together....I will also like to talk with u on phone..If u want i can give u the cell# i use right now in western africa so we could talk.....Cos actually i lodge at an Hotel Named Ade Kazema Hotel.....Let me stop here for now,,I will be waiting for your response to my questions?Let me see more pix of u if u got more? Cheers and God bless
Sarah


onelittlesecret 41M
1579 posts
2/20/2008 12:13 pm

date: Mon, Feb 4, 2008 at 12:28 PM
subject: Re: Where i'm now

Sarah,
No kids, no ex-wives. Haha. I've just had the one really serious relationship. I'm definitely more the hopeless romantic than a Don Juan when it comes to relationships.

As far as a living, well that's pretty hard if you're just starting out ---------. The only place you can consistently get paid is -------. So right now, -------- I'm mostly living off my savings. I'll probably be living with a housemate when I move back to --------.

I would be interested in talking to you, and maybe meeting over coffee or something. I'd rather wait until you're back stateside though, I'm a little weary of over-seas phone bills. I included a couple more photos, but if you're on facebook I know there are a lot more of me on there. It'd be cool if you could send me back a couple more of you if you happen to have any.

I was wondering Sarah, is English your first language? How well are you able to get around over in Africa?

Have a good one,
----


onelittlesecret 41M
1579 posts
2/20/2008 12:13 pm

date: Mon, Feb 4, 2008 at 4:07 PM
subject: What i'm looking from man

Dear ----,
i'm so happy to hear from you again.Thanks very much for the MailI will be happy to meet you too in person when i come back to State,you can give me your Phone Number,i will be Text you Message and you too will be texting me back in Western Africa that i am now,am in Nigeria in Part western Africa,so by the Grace of God,i will be back to State in Next Coming Weeks and i will be happy to meet you in Person when i come back to State,so what i really need from Man is Caring,Respect,Faithful,True love,Honest,Good Behaviour and Not Cheated on me,because i don't want to be hurt anymore like what my ex Boy Friend do to me,i Caught him with my Best Friend Sleeping with Her in my Matrimonia Bed-Room when i went Out and they don't know that,i don't go Far,so i haved to Ran away from him because he Cheated me Lot and i don't want to be Hurt anymore that is why im still single since all this days because i haven't found Good one that i will Get know and Get Married to him,maybe i Guess you are the Right Man that God want to gave to me,am a Open Person,i don't hide something from Man that am Dating and am Straight Forward Lady.I have been single by now since Last 2 Years May 2005,so i will be happy if you can be Open to me,Caring and not Cheated on me.I hope you can Understand what i mean by this.Hope to hear from you soonest.And if you have any Other Pics of you that you can send to me,i will be happy to see them.
Sarah


onelittlesecret 41M
1579 posts
2/20/2008 12:14 pm

date: Mon, Feb 4, 2008 at 7:40 PM
subject: Re: What i'm looking from man

Hey Sarah,

It sounds like English isn't your first language. Where are you from originally?

That's a horrible story about your ex-boyfriend, it's hard to get past those tragic images in life. I'm definitely an open and faithful kind of person, but I have to say that I'm really looking for a friend, and who knows where chemistry might take someone.

But tell me about where you're from. If you want we can Instant Message each here online.
----


onelittlesecret 41M
1579 posts
2/20/2008 12:14 pm

date: Mon, Feb 4, 2008 at 8:19 PM
subject: Nice to hear from you again

Dear ----,
Well am so Happy to hear from you again.It will be Nice to meet you in Person when i come back to State,it seems we are Good Match and it seems Both Of Us was Joined by God because we are Looking for thesame thing and we are the same Match,i think God as Gave me my Joy and what am looking for since all this Days,so i will be Happy if God Can Lead Us through Our Relationship and Help us Build it and Strong Serious Relationship,so i Pray that God will Teach Us to Build the Relationship because am Ready to Get Married to you if you can take it Serious.Hope to hear from you Soonest,you can call me to this Hotel Managers Phone Number in Nigeria where i am.Just tell him that,you want to Speak with Miss Sarah Coley.This is the Number.. -------------.Hope to hear from you soonest..
Sarah


onelittlesecret 41M
1579 posts
2/20/2008 12:15 pm

date: Mon, Feb 4, 2008 at 11:46 PM
subject: Re: Nice to hear from you again

Hey Sarah,
I'd rather wait until you got back, if that's okay. But we can try to Instant Message each other online?

----


onelittlesecret 41M
1579 posts
2/20/2008 12:15 pm

date: Tue, Feb 5, 2008 at 3:23 AM
subject: I cant wait to meet you

Dear ----,
Im so happy to hear from you again.I really wanted to meet you soonest and i cant wait to meet you too babe.Well i will be back to state by early of next week babe so that we can meet each other,go to dinner,go on date,camping and shopping so that we can get to know more about each other hunnie and we can have a strong relationship with each other that will end to marriage and family.I want you to know that,u will never regret that u have someone like me.Well all i want from you is your true love.I will be happy if you can give me ur love and see how i will treat it.Well i want you to get back to me again.I waited to hear from you again.
Sarah


onelittlesecret 41M
1579 posts
2/20/2008 12:16 pm

date: Fri, Feb 8, 2008 at 10:57 PM
subject: Re: I cant wait to meet you

Hey Sarah, how is the trip going?


onelittlesecret 41M
1579 posts
2/20/2008 12:16 pm

date: Sat, Feb 9, 2008 at 7:00 PM
subject: Need You ----

Dear ----,
Im so happy to hear from you again.Well i have a little problem and im sad babe.I went to the Airport today to booked my return flight back to state.But the Money that they Charge me was too much babe bcoz of the Stuffs in Bringing home with me.So babe,i still needed $750 to Completed my flight and to pay some Taxes from the $750 so that,i can be able to come back to state and u can Picked me up at the Airport and bring me to ur place to Catch funs together and go on date babe.I will be happy if you can help me babe and i will pay u back once i come back to state.I just dont want to get stucked here or will u be happy if you heard that i get stucked here and not be able to come back to you?Hunnie,i will be happy if u can help me with the $750 and i promise you once i come back to state,i will pay u back babe.Thats why im sad and thats why i havent write you because im totally sad and not happy.I waited to hear from you again if you are going to help me babe so that i can give you my information for you to send the Money to me by Western Union Money Transfer becuase that is the easier way for you to send it to me and for me to get it babe.Cant wait to meet you..
Sarah


onelittlesecret 41M
1579 posts
2/20/2008 12:16 pm

date: Sat, Feb 9, 2008 at 10:31 PM
subject: Re: Need You ----

Oh I wish I could help you, but I'm afraid of being taken advantage of since I don't know if you're really you. Is there some way you can confirm your identity for me? What do you think you'll do while you're stuck there?

----


onelittlesecret 41M
1579 posts
2/20/2008 12:17 pm

date: Sun, Feb 10, 2008 at 3:28 AM
subject: Assurance

Hello ----, Thanks for the mail.Well i want you to know that,im not after your Money and im not such a lady on internet that use men for Money or screw men.Well i want you to trust me and i swear on my life and promise u that,u will never regret that u have someone like me or u send Money to me to come back and i will pay u back once i come back.Im not here to use u for Money i just needed ur help to come back because there is no one that can help me so come back thats why im seeking for ur help because you are the only one that can help me.I give u Assurance that im not going to take Advantages of you cos im a Christian and i have God fear.Im not such a lady that use guys for Money on internet.Please do doubt me ----.I look forward to hear from you soonest if u r going to help me so that i can give u the Information for u to send the Money to me via Western Union Money Transfer. Always Love, Sarah


onelittlesecret 41M
1579 posts
2/20/2008 12:17 pm

date: Sun, Feb 10, 2008 at 4:47 AM
subject: Re: Assurance

Hey Sarah,
Sorry for the misunderstanding, I meant is there some way you help prove you are who you say you are? Since we've only corresponded through e-mail that is.

Best,
----


onelittlesecret 41M
1579 posts
2/20/2008 12:18 pm

date: Sun, Feb 10, 2008 at 5:53 PM
subject: Re: Assurance

Hunnie ----, well there is no way for me to prove this for u but all i want u to know that im who i said i am and im not after ur money but if u dont believe me and dont want to help me,well u can forget about it cos i dont want u to think im after ur money.


onelittlesecret 41M
1579 posts
2/20/2008 12:18 pm

date: Fri, Feb 15, 2008 at 2:08 PM
subject: Re: Assurance

Hey Sarah,
I've been meaning to write. How are things going? Did you manage to get yourself back home? Hope all is well.
Take care,
----


onelittlesecret 41M
1579 posts
2/20/2008 12:18 pm

date: Fri, Feb 15, 2008 at 5:50 PM
subject: Re: Assurance

Hello thanks for the mail.Im still here in Africa


onelittlesecret 41M
1579 posts
2/20/2008 12:19 pm

date: Sat, Feb 16, 2008 at 11:26 AM
subject: Re: Assurance

Sarah,
That sucks, what have you been up to? I assume you still have a place to stay?

----


onelittlesecret replies on 2/20/2008 12:19 pm:
Doesn’t she seem like a real sweetheart? Although I haven’t heard back from her since my last e-mail, I hope she’s alright. I’m afraid she might be angry with me. (Oops.)

geauxgeaux4you 58M/54F

2/20/2008 12:57 pm

At what point did you sincerely suspect a con???



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onelittlesecret replies on 2/20/2008 1:07 pm:
You think she's conning me?!?

onelittlesecret replies on 2/20/2008 1:11 pm:
I was pretty suspicious from the beginning. Either she was lying, or was very high on something.

geauxgeaux4you 58M/54F

2/20/2008 1:31 pm

Quoting:
onelittlesecret replies on 2/20/2008 1:11 pm:
I was pretty suspicious from the beginning. Either she was lying, or was very high on something.

Or just slightly illiterate.

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onelittlesecret replies on 2/20/2008 1:37 pm:
Lol. Yeah, those schools up in New Hampshire might need some help.

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