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Fean71 53M
66 posts
1/3/2010 1:14 am
Friendship


Friendship
Everyone knows friendship is about ,can we honestly say who our friends are?People hides behind a Mask fearing being attacked when their weakest moments.Can we change these foes into friends?i always think its better to gain a friend then to gain a enemy .How much do we know about friendship? Do we really know our friends Well?Will they stand with you in times of need?Even to fly a thousand miles to help a friend ,if time allows for the wait.eg. if you are stranded in an airport half way across the world,lost your baggage,robbed and nothing at hand with just your clothings,will he/she fly half way across to get you out of times of need?

Contents of friendship
Everyone should have a friend ,how much do we know our friends ? or do we just judge by how it looks ? Do we know the contents of friendship of this relationship?Bonding is important between friends .know his/her dreams ,goals ,interest and the list goes on and on ...know your friends weakness and change that weakness to his /her advantage can be phyiscal /mental .There are different kind of friends,Best Friends,Intimate Friends and Casual Friends .There should be a right balance time spend for best friends and friends,best friends know you better and more likely to be more caring ,understanding and always there no matter what happens ,Well as for friends it could be "in the Process to be best/intimate friends" as for some it just remains as friends and dont go further,which ends to be casual ,only knows you on the surface.Intimate friends are girl/guy , guy/guy or gal/gal friends or flings which know u intimately,he /she might have knowledge of you.There are cases of best friends merging with intimate friends or Casual with Intimate,things does happen when he/she have relationship with you.

Strangers to Friends
Knowing that this is a SEX website ,friends who are gals telling me, they got mails from men asking very directly over mail about going intimate(on the first mail?).If you want to score on women,never ask a lady about sex without abit of friendship ,being overly agressive and wanting to buy her drinks or dinner wont help either.Be prepared for rejection and dont persist on asking,it will worsen the situation for you and u might loose the friendship totally and be considered a JERK,believe me word gets around.A Ladies mind is very much complex from a Mans mind.Ladies mind looks for contents of a man .Mens mind? hmmm look for ?.... you should know very well wat men looks for(some not all,i`m not gay either)STOP !trying to get women in bed ! They are not meats.They are humans and have feelings too, if you are looking for sex then i`ll say go to the red light district,its better you get wat you want without rejection 100% and you wont be considered a jerk printed on your forehead ,then to get yourself labeled as a jerk.Change that mind set and you should be on your way to having more dates with any women YOU want,trust me it is the only way no shortcuts.Honesty is the best policy ,if she ask "are you married?" ,tell her the truth .If things does happen i trust he/she wont blame you and if your wife/husband finds out , be prepared for a long story and if you are not forgiven from your spouse atleast u still have a friend which u had a fling with.Having said all this i stand to be corrected if its a fact and its a open topic.

rm_DevilCharmZ 47M
3366 posts
1/3/2010 8:25 am

Some women can be straight after sex. Don't be surprised especially when you're in this site.

About knowing a woman better, friendship and honesty. I can agree with you. But please... Do not befriend a woman only with the intention of a hidden motive. I think that can be really shallow. An insult to that lady and to oneself too. (not referring to you, but jst in general. )


Fean71 53M
147 posts
1/3/2010 8:40 am

in general which amounts higher a lady heading straight for sex or a men straight for sex? everyone on this site would know the figures. my best bet is still friendship first then whatever happens later,if it doesnt happen "back to the drawing board".
thanks DC for posting ,its a general feedback its all good DC


rm_DevilCharmZ 47M
3366 posts
1/4/2010 8:57 pm

    Quoting Fean71:
    in general which amounts higher a lady heading straight for sex or a men straight for sex? everyone on this site would know the figures. my best bet is still friendship first then whatever happens later,if it doesnt happen "back to the drawing board".
    thanks DC for posting ,its a general feedback its all good DC
It's a debatable topic. 'In general' which amounts higher wouldn't help much more over than... Perhaps depending on where you look?

I know of people who like you've mentioned, would not even think a bit about sex without friendship. And also of others who would never consider friendship but only sex... There're people who would fuck you if you do not really open your mouth (sorry to put it so bluntly.. ), and people who would only do if you win their mind & heart over 1st...

Personally at this point of my life, I'm ok with friendships. So long as people don't give me all shit and make my life that miserable with offered 'friendships'... It had happened too often before. Solution is simple these days. If they cross way beyond my board... I DUMP them. I don't think I'm that desperate for sex for now. More like maybe looking for good ones...?

Meeting people can be fun and interesting... So long as they don't give me the extra 'troubles' in my life...


Fean71 53M
147 posts
1/5/2010 1:40 am

i agree with you DC ,friendship are good but if those with extra troubles ones ,dump and walk sad to say ,friendships are not meant to add up on you but more to have someone to talk to.


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