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Blogs > rm_ganien > A Strange Bedfellow

Pulling through...  

rm_ganien 51M
1237 posts
11/7/2013 7:08 am
Pulling through...
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39lawless 58F
6864 posts
11/9/2013 6:22 am

 One of the things that resonates for me with your writing is, while acknowledging the tough stuff, you choose to focus on the positive. I find your stories to be both heartfelt and uplifting. I feel your sadness as much as I feel your joy. That is a gift.

I'm sorry about this whole situation with Lia. I do think it is very hard to be honest and upfront when one knows it's going to cause the other hurt. I know the part I forget when I'm avoiding like that is that withdrawing without being upfront is usually more hurtful than just coming clean.

And (sorry for jumping around here a bit) your comment in your earlier blog about falling for a monogamous person who wants to be your everything really hits home at the moment. Trying to explain loving someone else doesn't lessen the love I have for the monogamous person is like trying to explain to a fish how to ride a bicycle. It gets even more perplexing when I try to explain that me loving another actually helps me love them more.

I don't have any answers. If anything, the older I get the more questions I have. So all I can do is say my heart hears and feels yours and when I'm struggling, I often hear your gentle words of wisdom and I feel better.

You are right - it really is all good! xoxo
Always tell the truth
Use kind words
Keep your promises
Giggle and laugh
Be positive
Love one another
Always be grateful
Forgiveness is mandatory
Try new things
Say please and thank you
Say your prayers
Smile

~Author unknown


rm_ganien replies on 11/9/2013 7:40 am:
Thank you! I am glad that my writing stirs your emotions and hits home for you. It is the main reason I think, that I share stuff on my blog, that it is sometimes the only place I feel I can be understood... instead of explaining how to ride a bicycle to a fish. I know exactly what you mean.

It is funny that you mention me falling for Silver, my monogamous best-friend. This is really the next big thing in my life. I am not sure how to write about it or put it down here, but I will try. I am curious about your thoughts about the situation.

I am so grateful that sometimes I can make you feel better with just these little characters spilled across the web.

XOXO to you too, my dear.

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