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A different kind of double standard
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A different kind of double standard I have been in a chat room on this site, not a regular in there just a visitor. I have met a few nice people, and chatted with them. I have even chatted with some of them off site on the popular messenger service. One in particular who I chatted with, and found attractive, I saw out one night dancing a one of the bars that I patrol. I was working that night. I was almost sure it was this woman, but couldn't be quite sure. She was with a guy and I didn't approach her. I saw her in chat again a few days later, and mentioned it to her. She told me that it was indeed her, and that the guy in question was only a friend. She went on to say she wished that I had spoke to her, and let her know who I was, she was hoping to meet me someday. The conversation went well, and we were flirting big time. The subject of my marital status came up, and when I explained that I am married she flipped out on me. I explained that it is clearly stated in my profile my status, and she told me that she never read it. She went on to be rather rude to me, and needless to say hasn't "spoken" to me again. I don't blame anyone who doesn't want to get involved with a married person, but don't feel it is necessary to sit in judgment of those married people looking for an outlet. One of the biggest complaints I read on here from women is that men don't read profiles. Sounds like a double standard to me!!....lol Da Big Fella |
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well maybe she was a standard too and couldn't see your profile. I think you'll find that most singles on here would prefer to meet other singles, I also think that if it wasn't for some women having affairs with married men that divorce rates would be down, and single men having affairs with married women. No offence but I don't understand why someone married wants to mess around, if you don't like the current partner, isn't it easier to split and find a new on, saving all people from being hurt? This is not a dig at you, I just don't understand it at all. I think it's just a given that women think men who are after them will be single. Bye everyone, it was a blast
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sorry, I just looked at your profile and it does say you're married but it also says at the top looking for a woman who likes to share everything with her man. You said about double standards. I think that's one, you obviously can't share everything with her, can you? Would you be there at Christmas, etc? Bye everyone, it was a blast
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sorry, I just looked at your profile and it does say you're married but it also says at the top looking for a woman who likes to share everything with her man. You said about double standards. I think that's one, you obviously can't share everything with her, can you? Would you be there at Christmas, etc? The whole double standard thing was meant more in jest than anything.....I wasn't necessarily upset with her. Just didn't appreciate how upset she got with me. It's not like I had promised her anything, or even set up a meet.....just was friendly flirting, and she got pissed. I didn't understand why, that's all. Regarding your first post, I appreciate that you weren't giving me a dig. There are circumstances that some wouldn't understand until they've been in those shoes. I don't expect you or anyone to understand, but there are some woman who do. Those women are the ones that you mentioned, that if it weren't for them there wouldn't be affairs. I think that some men lie about being married so that statement isn't entirely true, but your point is well taken. Thank you for your input, and for dropping in on my blog. Da Big Fella
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Thanks for your advice Amy!! Great to see you darlin'!!! Da Big Fella
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I don't get that many views of my profile, so I can't view that many profiles.....that being said, I thought most woman had enough points to do so. I am not that upset that she didn't read my profile, more the fact that she was so upset to find out that I was married. As if I had lied to her about it, when it had just not come up yet. I appreciate your input NB!!! Da Big Fella
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Thanks for putting it in perspective CL!!! Glad to see you dropping in on me sugar!! Da Big Fella
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6/9/2008 7:37 am |
Big Fella....Never an excuse to be rude, she was obviously venting her "stuff" on you...You have been nothing but a gentleman as long as I have known you and I'm sure that you handled that unfortunate situation as such. We are all in different phases and circumstances in our life...that's the beauty of Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating...we're all adults making adult decisions...
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Big Fella....Never an excuse to be rude, she was obviously venting her "stuff" on you...You have been nothing but a gentleman as long as I have known you and I'm sure that you handled that unfortunate situation as such. We are all in different phases and circumstances in our life...that's the beauty of Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating...we're all adults making adult decisions... Da Big Fella
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