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Planet Essachs, my world unfettered by societal norms, your world re-imagined in the image of your imagination set free. Totally off-the-wall un-associated nonsequetarian (to coin a new word - hey, it's my blog, I can do whatever I want [cue evil laughter]) night thoughts welcome.
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Nobody's your friend when you're down and out...
Posted:Nov 30, 2020 2:56 pm
Last Updated:Aug 15, 2021 1:17 pm
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Just realized that I've been on this site about 1-1/2 years. Managed to pick up four friends (1 transvestite, 1 gay man and two women thousands of miles away). Not one fan. Total goose egg, nada. Granted, I'm not exactly flashing Atlas' bod on my profile, but, really? zero fans?
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What are night thoughts?
Posted:Nov 24, 2019 7:19 pm
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2021 12:30 pm
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What are night thoughts?

Not what you think they are, you dirty pervert!

Or, maybe they are(?). Night thoughts are a common exercise in creative writing classes where students are asked keep a journal of random spontaneous thoughts every single evening. The thoughts are be captured before the conscious mind can process, manipulate and warp them. A search for pure thoughts and unadulterated imagination. A source for seeds of ideas be developed, embellished, shaped into poetry and prose in the lucid light of day.

I'm many away from my college creative writing course (even engineers had take a liberal arts course back in the day). But, I think it would be fun try keep a night thoughts journal again. What better time than now? What better place than here? [To all those who answered "how about in your own personal journal?" I answer: "This is the only place where '4DaBoy' exists. There is no other vessel, no other well, no other journal for these thoughts."

So, here we go...
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The Fun of Not Being a Gold Member
Posted:Nov 22, 2019 8:07 pm
Last Updated:Dec 30, 2020 2:17 pm
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of the fun things about being on this site but NOT a "Gold Member" is that you get see a small fragment of people's profiles. The rest is left your imagination.

For instance, profile of a woman online this evening ( a picture of lovely decolletage) said, "Hello. I in a very happy committed relationship and I'm not looking change that. What I looking for is men ..."

She's looking for what? I wonder. And imagine. And dream with just that and the image of her cleavage go on.
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Ghost in the Machine Typos
Posted:Nov 20, 2019 3:57 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 7:3 am
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One of the weird glitches on this site is the way that letters, sometimes whole words, disappear from posts after hitting the "Add" button. The end result is that the post, no matter how fluid your prose, ends up reading like a bad translation of some foreign language.

I can't begin to guess how that happens ( a chemical process engineer - not a computer programmer). But I have been wondering lately - why? Maybe this site isn't just a place where somewhat sad and lonely people can fantasize together (sorry - but that does seem to be the case, mostly). Maybe we are all actually just supplying our Ukrainian or Latvian (whatever third world country this site originates from) content for entertaining their own local public. It's free entertainment for them. But, to put it into English that they can understand, they have an algorithm to turn it into the pigeon English that they are used to. That would explain a few things about this site.

Any other theories?
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Don't know why...
Posted:Nov 19, 2019 3:01 pm
Last Updated:Nov 19, 2019 3:10 pm
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there's no sun up in the sky
stormy weather
since my woman and I ain't together
keeps rainin' all the time

[having trouble getting this song out of my mind]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EIgVCU19pjg

[Billy Holiday getting it right - no offence to Lena Horne intended]
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Who wants to see dick pics?
Posted:Oct 1, 2019 2:29 pm
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2019 5:01 pm
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I've seen plenty of woman say that they really aren't interested in guy's dick pics. But, it doesn't stop a large percentage of men from making them their profile picture. I finally just changed my "Content Filter" to "No Nudity".
Much Better!
But, I do wonder, who really wants to see that?
Official poll question is: Do you want to see dick pics on this site?
Yes - I'm a woman and pictures of penises turn me on (or, at least, show me what I can expect assuming they aren't lying
Yes - I'm a gay guy and dick pics are a turn on.
No - I'm a woman and your dick pic is not going to impress me.
No - I'm a gay guy and your dick pic is not going to impress me.
No - I'm a straight guy and, get serious, our dicks are the most ridiculous looking parts of our bodies. Who the hell wants
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Who would have thought that "no nudity" would be the better option?
Posted:Oct 1, 2019 2:23 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 7:3 am
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Finally got so sick of seeing a parade of penises that I changed my "Content Filter" to "No Nudity". Thought I'd miss seeing all those beautiful women's bodies. Turns , no so much.

This site may well be the cure to a hyperactive libido.

Is there anybody on this site who really wants to see dick pics? Don't answer here - see the poll on this blog.
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Dang I'm a lucky guy...
Posted:Sep 25, 2019 6:14 pm
Last Updated:Oct 22, 2019 2:37 pm
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My wife and I went to a jazz club this past weekend to catch the late set of one of our favorite artists. I chose to sit on stools at a high table with a good view of the stage, but ended up having to look through another couple sitting across from us. They turned around from the table to watch the music but we had a view of their interaction.

They were middle aged, both not unattractive. It was soon obvious that they were not a married , and on maybe their second or third date. It was also soon apparent that maybe she wast not quite as into him as he was into her - the body language was speaking volumes. He was hovering, even stroking gently at times. She got too warm and took off her sweater leaving a revealing tank top, but, soon got self conscious and put it back on. He was not picking up the clues and clearly thought he was going to get lucky that night. She clearly had other ideas. It was painful to watch (luckily the music was great).

At some point, my wife gently leaned against me. It was so nice. And I could not help but to think dang, I am a lucky guy.

Of course, I would still like to get laid sometime before I die...
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What better place...
Posted:Sep 12, 2019 4:52 pm
Last Updated:Sep 26, 2019 2:20 pm
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What better place to throw some of your wildest weirdest ideas out there. Doesn't have to be sexual - not all fantasies are. Come on, you've all had the flying dream! Hey, maybe that's a good place to start. My flying dream was always off of a mountaintop, soaring through a valley, somehow totally knowing how to control the flight steering the wings of my windbreaker, hands in pockets creating a sleek glider/rocket.

What's your flying dream? Mountains, skyscrapers, over the plains, across the ocean. Is there a destination (I never seem to have one - just that awesome feeling of total freedom)?
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