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Who Are You? We all have horror stories about chatting with people and meeting them only to find that their physical appearance didn't match their photos- there are eleventy billion posts written on the subject. But what happens when their online persona doesn't translate to real life? I've touched on this subject in other posts, but I want to ask the straightforward question right now: How REAL are you when you can hide behind your words? Sometimes it's easy to play the ingenue or the stud when you don't really expect to meet someone in real life. Maybe they live too far away or your marital situation might prevent such a meeting. We might all be guilty of 'playing a part'- whether it's creating a new persona that is totally unlike your own, or simply exercising a part of yourself that you'd never be comfortable revealing in your offsite world. For myself, I am a lousy liar. I attribute this to my crappy memory and inability to multitask. In short, I'm not smart enough to create another persona because I have enough voices in my head as it is. But perhaps I'm just not seeing myself realistically. Perhaps I am subconsciously projecting a different side of myself when I'm here...only those who meet me can tell (those of you who HAVE met me may feel free to comment on this honestly with no repercussion). I can attest with confidence that my photos are real- believe me, if I was to fake them, I certainly wouldn't use the photos I use, lol. I'd use pics of Jessica Alba instead  . I might hide some chunk here and there and wear a tad more mascara, but what you see is what you get, for the most part.The other reason I ask this question is that i've noticed an interesting trend as of late. Some of my Readers are faithful Readers of other blogs, naturally. I've noticed that the comments you leave on other HNW pics are a lot different than the ones you leave on my pics. Sometimes they are more crass and forward, other times they are more demure and subtle. It makes me wonder if you are showing me one side of you and showing everyone else someone else. Obviously I've given consideration to the fact that you might have a different relationship with other bloggers than you do with me- that stands to reason. But when you are a consummate gentleman here and a total lout there, it makes me wonder: When I read YOU, am I reading YOU? Or am I seeing only what you want me to see? Someone you think I want you to be? When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load... |
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GOOD
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4/18/2012 1:52 pm |
I am more candid then usual, being that it's easier to write personal details, then it would be to at times express in person.
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The temptation to embellish is quite large. Few are confident in themselves enough not to cave in.
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4/17/2012 11:29 am |
Run like hell, and get a new Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating name !!
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4/15/2012 9:14 am |
You have to be yourself online to get the most out of your meets, I think
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Who am I, maybe just another horny guy like the rest of the male population on this site...pretty much not... Don't need to be crude crass or a jackass why bother not my style, here to make friends and find an awesome partner for some sexual antics and orgasmic bliss... Personality and chemistry favor heavily in the mix... Truth be told, guess most people are afraid of truth & honesty and might look upon that as something more than it is...cocky, arrogance, dorky, lame or whatever...who knows? Figure there are a lot of hot horny single women scattered around this site dreaming of a hot cool fun handsome guy to come their way as well... Problem is this site is a bit too antonymous when it comes to most women here, most women don't seem to really know what they want, are too selective, choosy and dismissive without realizing a lot of guys me included at times are prized possessions, aren't that good at writing all kinds of interesting things about themselves or delivering up the perfect email/conversation a girl is expecting... You have to remember, it's pretty much a woman's world on this site, I understand you ladies get hit up on all the time by a bunch of jerks, dorks and losers, yet maybe if some of these women were a little more accepting, openminded and conversed with more guys instead of instantly writing them off, they might just score bigtime and get what they truly wanted in the first place... As far as the guys with the Jeckle n Hyde insulting personalities, they are most likely not men but lonely insecure cocks with a boy attached...
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I am who I am, and hopefully that comes through in all that I write or comment on.. although at times, my sillier side may show while at other times it may be my more serious side.. I will admit, that tend to "flirt" more on the blogs than I do in real life, simply because, believe it or not, am shy.. Captivate my mind...and who knows what will follow. Discover more of my ramblings at [blog geysergirl] 
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I don't think I could portray myself any other way. I'm too much of a r'tard Not to mention, there's pics of proof of that everywhere!  I have no effing clue where I'm going and what I'm saying Vixn_Vella Its not me....It's you. And no...we cannot be friends
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4/9/2012 9:24 am |
agreed
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4/9/2012 2:23 am |
The statements made herein are in no way meant to express the opinions or views of ANYBODY ELSE.
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1 post 4/8/2012 2:32 pm |
Damn id ove to put my monster cock between those monster tits.
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I display more eloquence on a blog or a comment I think. I might use words in writing that I may not in conversation, because often in my conversations I have to explain the words I use. Its hard enough being a walking dictionary for my 12 year old, I get tired of having to be a thesaurus as well. So I choose my words differently. The attitude and thought processes remain the same. My pictures, while not all recent (I mean, seriously, how many cameras can one woman break in a year?) all look like me. Hopefully a bit more flattering, but usually not. I am a lot of different people, just like everyone else, but I have never tried to pretend here to be anyone but the crazy fat old lady that I am. I am the only Me you get.
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4/6/2012 3:31 am |
I gotta go with...I sometimes consciously, sometimes unconsciously portray different personas. Consciously I prefer to call it creative license. And if I were to comment on a pic it would be respectful because I respect women just for having to be a woman and doing so with grace. But unconsciously I must as well cause every guy I know, some just on this site, some fairly well in real life, thinks that I have a black book an inch thick and don't hesitate to use it several times a week. LOL nothing could be further from the truth! The statements made herein are in no way meant to express the opinions or views of ANYBODY ELSE.   There is no abnormal and normal Just honest and dishonest 
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4/5/2012 6:23 pm |
I came in to this and my page is what I am I do not know if that is the way to get a date on here but I could not try to be someone I am not. Thought it was better to be the real me and be honest because I did not want to trick someone into anything. yes you sometimes need to ask the right questions but I will tell you the real truth that is who I want to be. some questions are hard to ask and some people will not ask them because they just don't want to really know or are afraid of what they will hear, but at some point it comes out and then where are you and what do you do from that point.
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4/5/2012 12:21 pm |
I'm extremely real. I put it out there, if you like it fine, if you dont, thats ok too. Like you said I figure..if we make a connection, somewhere down the line we are going to meet and you are going to see the real me anyway. Ever if you lie about your personality type...you can only lie for so long. Eventually the "real" you is going to come to the surface. My philosophy is this is me..take it or leave it. I'm not everyone's cup of tea, my ego can accept that. And I agree is I was going to use fake pics...Megan Fox would be plastered all over my profile. I wouldn't use pics of a short, fluffy chick with so so boobs Be the kind of woman that when your feet hit the floor in the morning the devil says "Crap She's UP"
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I've tried to be as straight forward and accurate when representing myself on this site. That may be the reason I haven't hooked up with anyone here.
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IT ALL COMES OUT IN THE WASH, YOUR SIX SENSE SHOULD KICK IN IF THEY SOUND TO GOOD TO BE TRUE >>!P
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3/30/2012 4:27 am |
that fine an all but you have so me lovely nipples
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I'm the one that got away.
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3/26/2012 11:00 pm |
As we are still noobs. We pretty much try to present ourselves as realistically as possible. Well as much as we can while still being discreet about it all. We met a guy once who presented himself totally different then what he was in real life. It was awkward at best. Since that experience we just want to be open and honest so no one gets set up for a fall.
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I agree with this Sandra1000 person. Whom, I have never met. Yet, from her photos, I've no reason to think she would lie about having a fantastic butt. I mean look at it. Still if I looked like someone other than my photos, no one would know I was me, when they met me. And I've had people from this site see me, and ask: "Hey, you're on that sex site?" That's why I'm on this page. To meet people!
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I met someone from another site whose online persona was not the same as his real life one...the real one was very nasty. Lets just say it was a hard lesson learned and a big price to pay. As for me? Its me! I'm flirty and nice all the time...lol.
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I'm just plain ol' me, myself and I, nothing more, nothing less. Take me as I am or just move on. That's my thoughts. I've known guys that give out an alias and you should see the priceless look on their faces when you find out their real identity . . . LOL
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I get what you struggle with as a somewhat "innocent" exhibitionist (forgive me the qualifier, much as I hate any kind of label, it's just the best I can come up with at the moment), as I could probably be labeled as an "innocent" voyeur. As much as I love the female form, I have long known that the end does not justify the means...that there has to be more than just a physical connection to satisfy that which is or has been missing in our lives. Guess this rules out any NSA interaction! Being honest with others mandates that you be honest with yourself, first and foremost. Temporary compromises are just that...temporary. I truly appreciate the openness you share and the whit you use to convey it (as opposed to the graphic descriptions from others that leave little to the imagination).
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Assuming that I feel safe with someone and that we have time and opportunity for a one-on-one, I am exactly as I portray myself on my blog, because I don't "portray" myself on my blog. I show big parts of who I am. Can I show the totality? Over time, yes -- the good, the bad, and the ugly. Age cannot wither her, nor custom stale Her infinite variety. Other women cloy The appetites they feed, but she makes hungry Where most she satisfies. For vilest things Become themselves in her, that the holy priests Bless her when she is riggish. ~~ from Antony & Cleopatra
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