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This is such a True Statement!!!!
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It also requires self examination. Trusting the one with whom you are communicating is helpful, but the only way to get that sometimes is to initiate honest communication in the first place. Honesty involves risk; I believe the reward that trust brings is worth it. Adieu!
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Unfortunately I am a good liar... it came naturally to me as a child and it was a habit I carried into my mid teens. Once my parents figured me out everything came crashing down. If I was speaking they assumed I was lying just because it was too difficult to trust anything I said. I went through years of having to validate where I was, what I was doing, who I was with. Flash forward 20 some odd years and I've mostly corrected my dishonest ways. I make a point to be completely open with people I meet on here about my marital status. I agree that honesty is the rock upon which good times can be had, because without trust something will always be reserved. I could go on and on on this topic, but this isn't my blog.....hmm, perhaps I'll have to start one of these blogs.
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This is the "information" age. Most of us learn the hard way that once its out there, we can't take it back. This happened to me. The consequences where devastating. That was many years ago. The scar's remain. Though we may forgive and make peace with ourselves, it has no effect on others, nor does it negate the potential harm that can be inflicted by those unimpressed with your personal salvation. Yes, I am sometimes reluctant to share with people with whom I have not yet developed the bond of trust. As far as my self image, It stands up to scrutiny, including my own. Only a handful of us have a clear and true view of ourselves free of distortion or delusion. That is why we are still here. To know one's-self is to become enlightened. Whatever truths have remained hidden from your view will emerge. Our understanding of who what and why we are, is the lens through which we observe the universe around us. Confidence? Yes...Courage? Yes.....Wisdom? Yes. I speak my truth clearly to anyone who asks. I do not always do so in public. It would not be wise.
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