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Transition to the lifestyle (Male point of view)  

rm_polyguy4two 34M
1 posts
8/15/2013 9:04 pm
Transition to the lifestyle (Male point of view)

So I've had my share of monogamous relationships, (don't get me wrong they can go very well with the right connection) but times have changed! With all these easily accessible mediums to connect with people ie: smart phones, adultery websites and social media it's no wonder why the divorce rate in Canada was 59% in 2008.

I've always sought out companionship and I've found that the best relationships I've ever had were the ones my girlfriend and I explored. Couples for full swap, guy, girl, both a few times not even being present!

I felt, while in a monogamous relationship that there was a constant guilt for me desiring other women or men and of course I fought with myself to do the "sound" and "moral" thing on a regular basis. I think if I met the right person, at the right time in my life there is definitely that opportunity to have something serious.

But here's the kicker, the one thing that's messed with my head from the early days... When I dated one sex, I wanted to explore more with the other. This is what really opened me up to making the transition to the lifestyle in the first place.. why not get the best of both worlds?

I'm on Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating because I know there's a bi couple out there seeking long term fwb, and it's going to be with them that I'm truly content with things.

Socially acceptable? You know what, I don't care either way. It really depends on if my significant others prefer to be discreet or not.. but here I am, cum and get me.

Until then, I'm definitely looking forward to exploring cuckold and group fun experiences as well as hearing what you beautiful people have to say about swinging!

rm_polyguy4two 34M
3 posts
8/17/2013 9:33 am

 Thanks for the comments both of you, to each their own for sure but reaching that conclusion and having a medium to explore like Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating, is a huge weight off my shoulders. There are some amazing couples on here and I've got to chatting with a few really awesome people!


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