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what you should know about me  

jadesmith69 55F
455 posts
3/22/2015 7:43 pm

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5/7/2015 6:10 am

what you should know about me

]What you should know about me:
I am not easy or cheap just because I like sex.
I choose the lifestyle because it allows me the freedom to be me and the friendships that show what true trust looks like.
I am not perfect, I don't expect others to be perfect. I do expect honesty, and effort.

If your best effort looks like “hey, or lets chat, or wanna fuck” be prepared to get a “ why, or what for, or fuck yourself” in response. (see blog.. should sex be that easy ) take a little time to treat people like you would want them to treat you and you will get a great deal further.
In real life you get what you pay for and if all you want is to get laid you can Purchase everything including sex. Just remember anything that you throw money at is not a real relationship and if you want any kind of a real relationship it will cost you time and effort.
Now for less preachy and more exciting thoughts, I am very sexual, my body responds very well to any kind of stimuli so if we meet there is mutual respect and there is chemistry, then there is a good chance we will take it horizontal.
Put your nerves away if we make it this far you wont have much trouble producing an orgasm from me, you may have a harder time getting yours (see my blog...My great SEX experiment ) but I can orgasm multiple times when I am aroused that arousal is intensified by your arousal its really that easy.
try not to confuse the fact that my orgasm is easy with the idea that i am, if you don't offer me some kind of motivation other than your dick i am not going to fall down on my knees and crawl after you. i am a person worth taking time to get to know and if you don't want to take the time find a different person.
if we have a great time I am not going to try and “keep you” I am not going to try and change your life or mine. I will do my best to wear myself out on your parts. If things are intense and we mutually decided that FWBs are a good place to be then I am going to want sex with you all the time. That does not mean you have to give me what I want. It just means that the sex was good and for me when the sex is good I just want more.
If I am sweet to you it is because that is my nature not because I want to trap you. If we decide that we want to take a relationship to another level EX: swing together, then we will but understand this, I don't need you to get what I want from the lifestyle so if you want me to take you with me into my world I need to be motivated to do so and I need to trust that you wont bring “drought to my garden”.
I believe we are all seeking something, I also believe that if it feels right you should do it. Because anything worth doing is worth doing right, take your time, and do it right. (blog A PIG and Fairy Tale )
I am at a very FUN stage in my life, I have no responsibilities, I work 3 to 4 days a week and I do what I want with my free time... If I want to 'do' you and you ask there is a strong possibility that you may “get me”, but if you don't ask don't expect me to know that you want my time.
Any questions? ask, and if I ask you a question and you don't wish to tell me the truth just say “i plead the fifth” rather than make up a lie.
I have written about a great deal of my life here in the annals of Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating... take some time to read and some time to comment and start a blog as well you may grow in an area that you were not expecting.
Thanks for reading now go “PLAY”



Lets Create together. http://Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating.com/blog/jadesmith69
we can fantasize forever.
J


AK_Snowflake 48F
339 posts
3/22/2015 7:55 pm

Well said!


jadesmith69 replies on 3/23/2015 8:02 am:
Kindred swinger?

scoupe42 60M

3/22/2015 8:02 pm

You have a plan in place.


jadesmith69 replies on 3/23/2015 8:03 am:
much as it sucks to plan it is worse to find that you are in a place that you did not wish to be and you lost a lot of time getting there.

Slipkn0t27 46M
50 posts
3/23/2015 9:10 am

I have fake profiles on sites, chick profiles, and i can vouch.. 90% of the messages she gets are "hey" or "whats up" and of course "nice tits" haha It brought me to the conclusion that dudes like that are morons.. They REALLY believe that one word communication will make them score. In reality, there are a few dumb chicks who jump all over that just cuz the dude has nice abs or pecs or a big dick haha but no the majority are in your position where they want something more than a primate who's lookin to get his nut..
And in all this time i've known you i've never once gotten a "psycho clinger" vibe from you or the "i wanna try and change you" vibe not once.. You've always seemed very settled in your ways and very accepting of others (me) ways you're really one of the coolest most laid back people i've ever talked to on here so i cant imagine why anyone would get those bad vibes from you

For the record, i want to start a blog, just lacking ideas for questions. All i got right now are rants.. Though they could probably be entertaining to a few hehe


jadesmith69 replies on 3/23/2015 9:49 am:
never really thought to put up a fake profile... but then again if i did it would not do me any good to pretend to be a man...lol... i am not looking for more of my parts i am seeking his... thanks for the post and thanks for always being respectful here to me...

jadesmith69 55F
505 posts
3/23/2015 5:16 pm

    Quoting  :

well that may be true but it sure looks like its always greener.

Lets Create together. http://Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating.com/blog/jadesmith69
we can fantasize forever.
J


jadesmith69 55F
505 posts
3/31/2015 8:26 pm

    Quoting darkmaster776:
    I like what you're saying here. I feel the same way. I have met a few people on here for just sex, and I will admit that the idea was exciting, but there was too little time to get to know the person. I seek a bit of a deeper, free spirited connection. You intrigue me. I want to know more.
    Ray
thank you for taking the time to actually read me... i am intrigued as well

Lets Create together. http://Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating.com/blog/jadesmith69
we can fantasize forever.
J


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