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BIGNSASSY33 50F
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3/11/2014 4:01 pm
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Travel_Couple69 58M
1604 posts
3/11/2014 6:22 pm

 In the absence of any medical issues such as hemorrhoids, it shouldn't hurt and bleed. The anus consists of two circular bands of muscles and outer and inner. Lots of lube, lots of time and gentle pressure - starting with a finger, there should be no tearing of the sphincter and no pain.

There are plenty of reputable websites that will give you a beginners guide to anal sex, suggest you google it.


Satyr48 75M
1905 posts
3/11/2014 8:10 pm

 One or both of two reasons:
No lube
Doing it wrong
Pleasing women in unbelievable ways for 45 years...
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vabeachhotwife 63M/62F
394 posts
3/11/2014 8:51 pm

 Been there. Done that. Not all that it's made out to be by so many. She doesn't need it to enjoy herself. And he doesn't have a desire to unless someone really, really requests it. There are just too many other things that we can do together that feel sooooo much better.
Now with all that being said. When you do......... Go easy. Go slow. Let her take the lead in how much and how fast. Hearing "ow!" takes on a whole new meaning!! Pay attention!!


coptrainer56 74M
1880 posts
3/11/2014 9:05 pm

 back into him, that way you control the penetration and the speed. Be extremely careful as you CAN be hurt badly.
Be safe, relax and just have fun!


Lynn1812 54M
4928 posts
3/11/2014 9:13 pm

 Because nature didn't design your anus to be fucked. Pain is your body's way of saying "don't do that".


Iamwaiting4u49 74M
1 post
6/13/2018 6:52 am

 it has to be slow and easy, has to work up to taking the cock in, 1 finger to start with, and as u get relaxed and enjoying the finger, then add another, but you don't want to be forced, I have been with a lot of women that said they don't like it in the ass, and then I ask them if I can play with the rim of the ass, and start playing with the rim, and just going into the ass a little ways just with the tip of a finger. and soon you will get where you enjoy it and want if more


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