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Fear or Fake  

BiPlaypen 51G
9 posts
11/5/2014 4:49 am
Fear or Fake
Now, anyone that has been in the life style for a while should know by now there are many people that will schedule hook up's and never show up. Don't think it's just in your area, it's everywhere. Single ladies fake, men fake and couples fake, that's just the nature of the beast.

Is it fear, do people get scared at the last minute or did the fear kick in early in the week...lol...I have literally received 1000's of naked pics from people I have never met. I have had ladies text me 10 naked pics, videos of them sucking dicks, endless text saying how much they like to suck and endless emails saying they need to fuck but I have never met them. I have been in contact with couples that send multiple face pics and dick pics and titty pics and ass pics and pussy pics. The wife is saying she wants to see her hubby suck multiple dicks. The hubby says he wants to suck and cuck and see his wifey get fucked but I have never met them. When it comes to guys please...lol...I been on this site for years, many different profiles. I have received easily over 2000 emails from men with less than a sentence in the email, come on man. I have received emails from men that say I would love to come to a party but I am not bi and all I can ask is why would U want to come to a party with bi men if U are straight, what kind of sense does that make. I have been contacted by many men that say they fantasize about sucking cock. Many men want a small cock in their ass while they have a big dick in their mouth. Men that say they want to make a cock cum and men fake more than the ladies do....lol.

If a person comes across 3 or 4 or 5 fakes in their 1st 3 or 4 or 5 encounters I could see how this could make them fake too. Maybe this is starting to be part of the culture.....or maybe it always was.

Gee Bigsexyfreaks
Torrid7 73T
497 posts
12/11/2014 10:08 pm

 Your pretty much spot on. Although from my experience I think it is more of a mater of cold feet. Fantasy is a lot more controllable than reality. And sometimes life gets in the way and hooking up is dicey or becomes complicated. Its the unknown that nauws at some peoples minds. That and lets face it you are your most venerable. When you have no clothes or very few on you have no where to hide and its put up or shut up time. There's a lot of trust that goes into this life style.


bisex4adultfun77 46M  
47 posts
12/5/2014 11:02 pm

 I agree with everything you said. I think that it's a fantasy for most and are 100% into it while they are in the moment. As soon as the variable of being in the moment changes (Climaxed, Shot their load) they detach. I think this is why a lot of people, especially men don't show. Just like you said, it's the nature of the beast and dealing with it is inevitable. Thanks for your post. Hope all is well, Ryan


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