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Are you more attracted to a woman because of her confidence or body type??  

hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 3:32 pm

Thank you so much Samson Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 3:33 pm

Thank you.


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 3:40 pm

    Quoting justaguyinalaska:
    I absolutely go with *confidence*.

    That said, the *data* indicate that humans- whether it's in a biz meeting, a social gathering or pouring over an on-line profile- are first attracted (or not) by physical features. The question is: how do we process these first impressions and use them to guide what we do next? In deciding my responses, I bear in mind an old bromide from Army infantry: "The first report from the field is always wrong."

    A person with poise and confidence projects a powerful attraction- capable of overcoming many impressions received on a *first look*. The key is to restrain impulsive summary judgment and open one's heart and mind to the full, four-dimensional picture.

    I will also share that all of us- regardless of age and/or circumstances- are capable of *change*. I appreciate the challenges of inertia, the inevitable decay of our energy that begins in middle age and that *change* is more easily counseled than achieved. All the more reason to find a partner with whom to share your journey of change. The thrills and accountability of an awesome connection can be the force of change.
You absolutely correct. First impression on a online profile is physical appearance. Confidence and personality is what keeps someone interested. You do not see that online unless you communicate. I often wonder when we get older if our expectations are less because our journey is more about companionship than physical adventures.


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 3:41 pm

    Quoting 69ereatwetpussy:
    Confidence goes a long way to me.
    Every body is different.
    If you know it a use it to your advantage.
    It beautiful to me.
    You have both.you also have a beautiful smile.
    Beautiful eyes how couldany one not love you.
    Your smart and that a turn on
    So have a wonderful day hope your warm enough.
    XOXOXO Thomas
Thank you so much sweet friend


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 3:43 pm

    Quoting benard69:
    Just as long as you are Healthy and Happy...It's all that really counts...But must say your body with creative camera angles (As you say) is more than desirable...
Yes very creative angles. It is a illusion...lol..thank you. I am healthy who is working on being happy. Thank you for commenting. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 3:45 pm

    Quoting Piper3654K:
    Confidence confidence confidence..... very sexy. You have more than you think, even though you say you're "good with camera angles" you'd probably not be posting pics if you didn't know at some level you're damn attractive.
You would be surprised if you knew how difficult it was for me to post a photo..lol.. II hate taking pictures..lol..Great to see you. Happy Hump day


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 3:47 pm

    Quoting SC4wheels:
    Confidence and attitude. There are women of all shapes/sizes that are sexy and women of all shapes/sizes that aren't. There are plenty of women with "super model" bodies that are very unattractive when you talk to them.
That is true. I really believe beauty comes in all sizes. Thank you for your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 3:49 pm

    Quoting  :

I do not think it is wrong to have a preference of body type. I just think it is wrong to body shame. I appreciate your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 3:50 pm

    Quoting Myoraldesire:
    Confidence and comfort with herself, hands down!
Comfort and acceptance is the key. I appreciate your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 3:51 pm

    Quoting needitnow69nks:
    I love women of all shapes and sizes. Though I do tend to lean more towards the thicker and curvier ladies
You like what you like and that is okay. I appreciate your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 3:52 pm

    Quoting  :

Awww.. sweet talking me again. Thank you for participating Jack. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 3:53 pm

    Quoting inprimeageguy4u:
    Id say its a mixture of both, and by the way you look amazing
Thank you. I appreciate your nice compliment. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 3:55 pm

    Quoting pacnwlover42:
    None of us have the perfect body. We are all unique. I didn't always enjoy my body until I joined this site. I love your curvy body and you are much more than average. I think women are harder on themselves when they see their bodies. This whole thing about needing to have the ideal body is just fantasy. You have many wonderful qualities along with your gorgeous body that make you a one of a kind and very desirable.
Same here. I started exhibitionism to become comfortable with my body. I always appreciate your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 3:56 pm

    Quoting Story435:
    Vert good sweetie
    Buych


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 3:56 pm

    Quoting Story435:
    Very good response!
    Butch


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 3:57 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    I've always been attracted to bigger women. They are more confident, caring and cuddly. Just like your good self
I thought you would be the cuddling type..lol.. great to see you citizen. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 4:11 pm

    Quoting Lonely16842:
    Confidence and personality definitely, I don't focus on body type at all. Oh and in your case as you already know..... your eyes. I could get lost there
Thank you Lonely


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 4:13 pm

    Quoting  :

I think you are absolutely correct. It is always a pleasure to see you. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 4:14 pm

    Quoting justskin1:
    For me it is mostly about confidence.
Same here. I appreciate your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 4:17 pm

    Quoting  :

Honestly I find that hard to believe. I think you are a attractive lady, but you are correct people on this site can be very superficial. Especially when you are a exhibitionist. Thank you so much for your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 4:18 pm

    Quoting  :

Thank you. I like your blog too.


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 4:19 pm

    Quoting stopbyandsayboo:
    I totally agree...Sure looks play some part but a long lasting relationship stems from within...That never changes or grows old
I agree that never changes or grows old. Thank you for your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 4:21 pm

    Quoting 1salesman3:
    Sexiness is in the mind for me.
Same here 1salesman. The mind is so sexy. I appreciate your interest. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 4:21 pm

    Quoting aspencutter:
    only comment i am going to try now is i fall into your eyes
Thank you so much


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 4:22 pm

    Quoting Tbadboytoy69:
    Inner beauty is true but I have to be honest. If your ugly your ugly. No amount of inner beauty will help you. I’m not a good looking guy. I try and use humor. My wife is ugly like me. That is why we are together. Mr and Mrs Fugly. Beer googles in college.
I appreciate your honesty


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