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sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/2/2018 7:31 am

personal experiences influence behavior...... one common trait...... is that someone doesn't want to get caught rather than not acting in a manner to worry about who sees or who knows

The Hubby


Eviloutlaw1 62M
5180 posts
6/2/2018 7:31 am

I run into that a bit myself. Sometimes the unavailable profile is just that, turned off, and they are ghosting the site. On but not wishing to be seen for what ever reason, like keeping on the DL from a spouse or lover. Or could be the case of the unavailable profile just using the IM system alone. Not fully on line but using their phone to access it and the ability to talk to others via IM.
To each their own, but to get my attention I have to be able to see and possibly converse with them, if I can't I just ignore them.


Ienjoythetaste 75M
2560 posts
6/2/2018 7:36 am

I always think that "Profile Unavailable" is the site sending things out.

I just move on.

“For a moment, nothing happened. Then, after a second or so, nothing continued to happen.”
― Douglas Adams, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy
Much like this site

Visit my Blog for my adventures.


RavenGB 63M
1430 posts
6/2/2018 7:45 am

Some people simply aren't very nice.


SingleStr8NYCGuy 54M
59 posts
6/2/2018 7:47 am

Joy is always worth aiming for.


hardanddeep0 57M

6/2/2018 7:48 am

are they bots created by the site, someone that is putting on a false front? Who knows. Move on, always another fish in the pond.


SingleStr8NYCGuy 54M
59 posts
6/2/2018 8:12 am

joy, astroglide, and a nice kinky playmate... mmmmm


SingleStr8NYCGuy 54M
59 posts
6/2/2018 8:19 am

Sounds like my kind of kinky gal!


SingleStr8NYCGuy 54M
59 posts
6/2/2018 8:26 am

BTW, I'm a standard member, so I can't respond to messages. If you're on IM, I can give you my email address.


notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
6/2/2018 8:32 am

agree with you, do hate profile unavailable after someone sends a message or looks at you, most of the time, think it is just the powers that be on this site playing games


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
6/2/2018 8:33 am

Yea, I see that on IM. You ask for a real picture and they're gone. You can't except a 100% in the online dating world.


SingleStr8NYCGuy 54M
59 posts
6/2/2018 8:56 am

I must be looking in the wrong place (that's what she said). Can't seem to find that on your blog, sexy


XHamburgDave 80M
10466 posts
6/2/2018 9:41 am

Hello JOY,

It annoys the hell out of me when I receive an IM, check the Profile and find it switched off!! It Screams Fake to me
I just Delete and move on!!


Please visit my Blog "Older but no Wiser"


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
6/2/2018 9:43 am

What are your thoughts on those who hide and why do they do it?
Really don't care much. If they leave a relevant comment I'll respond if something like xxxxxx I delete. I only check out other blogger once I get into further interaction with them usually on both our blogs. By then I'm fairly safe in figuring they are genuine.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Apollorising2057 63M

6/2/2018 11:04 am

Honesty is in the long run rewarded!

Become a Apollorising2057 blog watcher!


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
6/2/2018 11:50 am

Unfortunately this has been going on since I have been a member, and it will never end its sad that members feel the need to turn off their profiles..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Story435 76M
3791 posts
6/2/2018 12:05 pm

Hello beautiful!!!
Yes I have come across a lot of lately and it sucks. Click on their profile and it say profile unavailable ! I get this from young and older ladies. Why do you put me on your hotlist or wink at me if you don't want me to know who you are! And people with no pics or any information what WTF people!
Not sure why they do this or what they are trying to do either!
Butch


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
6/2/2018 12:38 pm

Like yourself J, my curiosity often gets the better of me on here. I have been here long enough to usually spot the fakes but occasionally I have let my guard down.


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
6/2/2018 3:32 pm

I tend to think this site is a crap shoot so to speak. Half or less of what you read on profiles is real for some.

I don't get why one would want to lie on their profile....seems to me that something started with lies is going to be doomed from the start. You tend to not trust people that lie to you....so simple a concept.

I speak from my heart on my profile and tell it like it is - how else will someone know if they would care to meet me, or have anything in common? I'm a take me or leave me kinda woman.....lol

There are too many fakes on here.

One guy in my area has 40+ profiles on here....ridiculous!!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


SingleStr8NYCGuy 54M
59 posts
6/2/2018 4:06 pm

    Quoting  :

I don't like surfing on my phone, and if things get steamy, then I have to balance the phone, the sheep, the - shit. Forget I mentioned the sheep.

I'll try using a different browser, but it wouldn't surprise me if the website is coded for an older browser standard.


scott6250 61M

6/2/2018 6:37 pm

Good points my friend. Great pics too.

"Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
6/2/2018 8:31 pm

Agree soon as the profile is unavailable a big red flag is raised on my end as well. Lots of people don’t have a pic and that is ok. Great post Joy hugs V

Become a blog watcher sweet_vm


wd40w 71M
6966 posts
6/2/2018 10:29 pm

Some folks...Have so many "Sock Puppets"...They lose track...It's pathetic...Borders on psychotic...It's been a problem since...Well...This joint started...Some will tell you..."Oh that's a Profile I test stuff with..."Riiiiiiiiiiiight...Pull my other finger...Just because you can...Doesn't mean you should...I'll be in the Garage...

"Illigitimi Non Carborundum Est" W.F. "Bull" Halsey wd40w


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
6/2/2018 11:03 pm

The woman/man ratio on these sites is such, that fake profiles always appear
and notifications abound, that a man has been "Checked out"

I don't pay any attention to it actually
- and as a Standard member, profiles are unavailable

For me, in order for a woman to spike my attention, I have to see her
interact in the blogs and comments , and check out her blog

Otherwise, it's a fumbling search in the dark, and I don't feel too inclined into playing

Cheers my lady - P


Spoon1975Man 49M
165 posts
6/3/2018 4:37 am

Admittedly, it's rather frustrating to get a like or flirt, only to then have zero information on the member. Are they hot? Are they local? What are their interests? Could we click?

Rather than lose myself in, "What if?" I quickly move on to those I can see, those that are nearby, those with similar interests, and those I do click with. Not an egoist, "Their loss!" but a passing, "Huh...Wonder who they are? Oh well. Hey look! BOOBS!"


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