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Coaxing out your Partners Daddy Dom!  

romeojuliet74 50M/43F  
18 posts
7/30/2015 9:00 pm
Coaxing out your Partners Daddy Dom!

For Littles~ Coaxing the Daddy Dom out of your Partner There’s definitely a taboo around calling your partner Daddy. If you’re someone who wants a Daddy Dom and little style dynamic, this can make it hard to tell your partner about wanting this. But it doesn’t have to be hard.

Blurting out “I want you to be my Daddy,“ to your partner might not go over too well, especially if they are vanilla. The taboo around Daddy Doms comes from a lack of understanding what this dynamic is all about.

If your partner is already friendly with this idea, you’ll likely have an easy time getting such a dynamic established. Otherwise, it can take some warming up to the idea.

Regardless, you know your partner best, and can make the best call on how to bring this up. Here are some subtle ways you can go about introducing the concept:

1.Call him Daddy. Doing this during sex is probably one of the easier and safer ways to bring something up at first. It’s hard to not like something when you’re having an orgasm. You can judge your partner’s reaction to help you figure out if this idea will be a hit or a miss with him.

2. Let your Little side shine. Sometimes playing the part you want will help bring out the Daddy Dom in your partner. If you take a subtle approach, it can help ease you into things, so it doesn’t sounds like wanting your partner to be your Daddy is out of the blue, and maybe even take some of the taboo out of it.

3.Talk about your “fantasies.” This is a way to express that this dynamic, having a Daddy, is something that you are interested in, in a more relaxed way.

If your desire is to make this into a lifestyle for the two of you, you will more likely than not have to have a direct conversation at some point. You’ll want to figure out what this means to the both of you, and address the shift to this dynamic vs. it just being some bedroom fun. This could involve laying out rules or just a simple confirmation that you are both on the same page and going to let the dynamic evolve with time.

If your partner is initially a bit “grossed out,“ thinking this is perverted, uous, or that you have “daddy-issues”, be ready to explain what the Daddy Dom and little dynamic is about and what it means to you.


You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think


rm_dalilad 70M
1322 posts
7/30/2015 10:58 pm

How women react to being invited to sit on my lap. If it is non-committal, a non issue, then there is probably nothing there. If she is verbal about how much she enjoys it, this can obviously be a good start. The less obvious thing is when she initially complains about it...and then complains some more...and then makes a bee line for the lap and reluctantly admits how much she enjoys it, although she never did it before and never thought she would.
Bingo.


smilegirlak 43F  
1 post
8/1/2015 12:56 am

Juliet, this is wonderful to read. I had the conversation with my husband, who doesn't want the lifestyle, but is willing to let me play and find a daddy. I am very lucky to have a supportive spouse!!!!


fjman53 62M
153 posts
11/19/2015 1:09 am

Juliet I would love to be a sub with you for your Daddy DOM.


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