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Just set up Gold.  

Nermie01 41M
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11/16/2015 11:37 am
Just set up Gold.

So I'm trying this out for a year. I need to find someone to have some fun with, relieve stress, and validate myself as a man again. My girlfriend of 8 years cheated on me in January, and we broke up soon after I found out. My confidence is at an all-time low, since I considered her to be my one and only. Who out there wants to help me feel a bit better about myself, and have some fun hanging out and having sex in the meantime? Don't judge the book by it's cover, hit me up, and we'll see where it goes. In the meantime, I'm just working and trying to get my life straightened out.

rdy2try4 59F  
3330 posts
11/16/2015 11:47 am

 First off, only YOU can make yourself feel better. What someone else did is no reflection of your worth. Having sex with another woman won't make you a better man either. It means you got laid, nothing more. You need to believe in yourself and not base it on what someone else thinks. You don't need anyone to validate you as if you were a parking ticket. If you had children I am sure you wouldn't tell your daughter to go out and let men have sex with her to validate she is a woman, nor would you tell your son, I hope, to go screw women to prove he is a man.

Secondly, try making your profile a bit more happy. All the comments on what others said you did good and such, most of us care about what someone else thought. My best friend thinks some men are cute that I don't and vice versa. It doesn't matter what you did before, it matters what you do now.


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