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Blogs > secret_lade > Ramblings of the depraved.....

Ripping off that bandaid...
 

moema999 68M

11/10/2020 2:35 pm

 a lovely pic..............you deserved better......


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
11/10/2020 6:16 am

 Thanks for sharing. Nice pic. 👍


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/9/2020 9:49 pm
    Quoting tickles4us:
    Be thankful for the warning signs when you get them before getting in too deep. Much better to know before than after you have become invested. Nice picture.
You're right... It's better to know before you become too invested. Casual or not, there are just some things that shouldn't be done out of respect. Had the shoe been on the other foot, I doubt he would have been comfortable hearing me say the same things.


tickles4us 62M
7262 posts
11/9/2020 3:36 pm

 Be thankful for the warning signs when you get them before getting in too deep. Much better to know before than after you have become invested. Nice picture.
Vive La Difference


topherific 61M
5209 posts
11/9/2020 3:24 pm
    Quoting secret_lade:
    I think this is as much as I'm going to share. Lol Have to leave something to the old imagination!
i guess i could hope for a private showing


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/9/2020 3:09 pm
    Quoting citizen4722:
    Thanks for sharing that pic...phew! That idiot guy must have really poor eye-sight
I think it's more that, he thinks he can do better.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/9/2020 3:06 pm
    Quoting Ont_Bulldog9:
    In the early stages of dating, there is no place for talk of other men or women. When you built that trust and respect, then you get into discussions of your past. We all have baggage. Those past relationships have helped form us, but still do not need to be brought up on a date.
    Also, the picture has just the right amount of sexy and class. Beautiful picture of a beautiful lady, inside and out!
I have always avoided talking about past relationships... The conversations never go well, ever. Someone invariably gets mad or someone gets hurt feelings.... In this case, it was my feelings that got hurt and to this day, he can't understand why I stopped seeing him.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/9/2020 2:57 pm
    Quoting  :
Thank you... I needed to hear that! I did end things, several months ago.... I internalized it though, and took it to heart. I knew if I wrote about it here, I'd be able to get some closure. I so appreciate the input I get.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/9/2020 2:49 pm
    Quoting lindoboy100:
    Ah McLade.....ye've no need ever to doubt your looks, your attractiveness or your sex appeal.......but then you wouldn't be the lovely, gorgeous woman you are if you were over-confident.
Better watch it.... compliments like those are going to go straight to my head. LOL But, thank you... You're always so kind to me.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/9/2020 2:43 pm
    Quoting KX450F2016:
    Insecurities also applies to us guys as well
I think insecurities are possible for all of us.... Even the men. It's probably harder for the guys as you kind of carry the burden of initiating everything.


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
11/9/2020 9:52 am

 Thanks for sharing that pic...phew! That idiot guy must have really poor eye-sight


Ont_Bulldog9 51M
50 posts
11/9/2020 9:04 am

 In the early stages of dating, there is no place for talk of other men or women. When you built that trust and respect, then you get into discussions of your past. We all have baggage. Those past relationships have helped form us, but still do not need to be brought up on a date.
Also, the picture has just the right amount of sexy and class. Beautiful picture of a beautiful lady, inside and out!


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
11/9/2020 4:56 am

 Ah McLade.....ye've no need ever to doubt your looks, your attractiveness or your sex appeal.......but then you wouldn't be the lovely, gorgeous woman you are if you were over-confident.


KX450F2016 55M
193 posts
11/9/2020 3:57 am

 Insecurities also applies to us guys as well


KX450F2016 55M
193 posts
11/8/2020 6:42 pm

 Looks pretty damn good to me!


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/8/2020 5:42 pm
    Quoting Apollorising60:
    I have had previous relationships before my wife but those relationships never are brought up!
That's how it should be! You're respectful and kind.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/8/2020 5:41 pm
    Quoting topherific:
    i agree nice pic but now i want to see more
I think this is as much as I'm going to share. Lol Have to leave something to the old imagination!


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/8/2020 5:39 pm
    Quoting flannel_light:
    I have to say you are so right. I am one who does not want to hear about other women. That's the past and should stay there. That is a nice sexy picture of you and you are a beautiful woman inside and. I can see that in you when I read your Blogs. Hugs.
Thank you, that was such a very kind complement. Hugs to you as well.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/8/2020 5:37 pm

 You're welcome.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/8/2020 5:36 pm
    Quoting  :
It's kind of like a jigsaw puzzle. Lol. Only the regular readers will know where all the pieces are.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/8/2020 5:33 pm

 Thank you! It's a side of myself I don't normally share.... I really liked this pic.


Apollorising60 63M

11/8/2020 12:45 pm

 I have had previous relationships before my wife but those relationships never are brought up!


topherific 61M
5209 posts
11/8/2020 11:44 am

 i agree nice pic but now i want to see more


flannel_light 61F
4586 posts
11/8/2020 8:40 am

 I have to say you are so right. I am one who does not want to hear about other women. That's the past and should stay there. That is a nice sexy picture of you and you are a beautiful woman inside and. I can see that in you when I read your Blogs. Hugs.
The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


big54al 69M
2259 posts
11/8/2020 7:03 am

 Thanks for sharing


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