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is name calling, shaming and humiliation the reason fewer women come here.  

MrHammer2u 71M
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8/15/2016 11:47 am
is name calling, shaming and humiliation the reason fewer women come here.

The world is rampant with language that tries to shame women. But it's beyond the words, it's the intent behind the words. It us possible to use some of the words in a way makes it a good thing instead of a bad thing. Like I could say; "Your a . Come on admit it. You not a in a bad way your a in a good way. Come on, say it after me. "I'm a " then I do all I can to make you feel good about it".

Most men don't seem to understand what shaming does. It's a form of bullying. They bitch about their not being enough women who play with others and don't have a clue about the fact they are responsibleness for that fact. All you have to do is go to a site like xhamster and look at the titles of the video clips, even the amateur stuff. Women who enjoy humiliation are a minority of a minority. A separate kink inside the kink world. Nothing wrong with it but there aren't many.

So what you are left with in videos, is women who are getting paid or are masochist, and in the swing world are submissive and have agreed in advance that it's in play, or women who don't like it but don't complain because they're afraid of losing their men, or in other words, they tolerate it. Most women do not like be called names, except when in extreme arousal where it frees the inner bad girl and helps push over the top, and a decent man should be able to tell if reaction to it was positive or negative. (But that goes beyond the science of arousal into the art. )

Women are more susceptible to guilt and shame because they most all have been slut shamed or falsely accused or seen other women go through it from Jr. High onward. I think it's the A number one reason there are fewer women doing this than men. There are not enough men who can make them feel good about it.

Don't get me wrong. I know there are playful ways to use the bad words. Like when I say I believe in slut praise. Do women what to see themselves as sluts or tramps? No, not in a derogatory way they don't and men can quickly go overboard with that stuff, especially young ones who haven't figured out that women don't exist solely to boost their fragile egos.

Is there a right time to bring out the big guns, slut, cum slut, fucktoy, cum sucking pussy, cocksucking cum sucking slut... or, if it's been talked about... even treading on thinner ground, bitch, , cunt... I'd say for most women that's a yes. But like I said, timing is everything.

The word is a word I like. is one of the milder words. I think every good woman should have a side. I think every women that's had more than a few passionate affairs should find a way to think of themselves as a bit of a as a symbol of being confident free spirited, adventurous and untamed.

"That's why the lady is a "!

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