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Blogs > Paulxx001 > Paul'S PlacE ❗ ⭕❗⭕ ❗⭕

Lowering the Curtain... Do Any of Us Have a Real Choice... ðŸĪ”❗
 

lust4life59 65F  
2552 posts
12/12/2020 8:21 am
    Quoting Paulxx001:
    It sounds pretty much what we did that day. And you're right - it was for us as much as it was for him.
    Did any of those stories surprise you? ðŸĪ”
Some of his brother's stories surprised me, I had never heard them before. For his memorial service that was a couple of months after his death, it was a very informal type service, cookout on the property, on Memorial Day weekend, just like we had every year when he was alive. A young woman that was like a daughter to him gave his eulegy, and that morphed into everyone one by one coming forward and telling strories about him. THose I were surprised at, the generosity of his time and support for others that I was never aware of because he never felt the need to advertise it, not even to me.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
12/12/2020 9:56 am
    Quoting lust4life59:
    Some of his brother's stories surprised me, I had never heard them before. For his memorial service that was a couple of months after his death, it was a very informal type service, cookout on the property, on Memorial Day weekend, just like we had every year when he was alive. A young woman that was like a daughter to him gave his eulegy, and that morphed into everyone one by one coming forward and telling strories about him. THose I were surprised at, the generosity of his time and support for others that I was never aware of because he never felt the need to advertise it, not even to me.
Wow... Not even to you. THAT, would have taken me back as well.
Sounds like a heartfelt time was had by everyone. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. ❗ðŸŒđ😊


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
12/12/2020 11:34 am

 Many people are uncomfortable talking about death and how they want their end to happen. Recently, I saw a documentary about a Canadian doctor with a degenerative disease. She went through all the steps for an assisted suicide (the MAID -Medical Assistance in Dying Ac) was passed in 2016. The support and love from her closest friends, family and the medical community was remarkable. Her courage and determination, inspirational. Her organs were also successfully donated which was her fervent wish. Her legacy will never be forgotten.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
12/12/2020 6:37 pm
    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Many people are uncomfortable talking about death and how they want their end to happen. Recently, I saw a documentary about a Canadian doctor with a degenerative disease. She went through all the steps for an assisted suicide (the MAID -Medical Assistance in Dying Ac) was passed in 2016. The support and love from her closest friends, family and the medical community was remarkable. Her courage and determination, inspirational. Her organs were also successfully donated which was her fervent wish. Her legacy will never be forgotten.
Dr. Shelly Sarwal’s story of taking control of her destiny will leave a lasting legacy. ðŸŒđ❗


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
12/12/2020 7:21 pm
    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Dr. Shelly Sarwal’s story of taking control of her destiny will leave a lasting legacy. ðŸŒđ❗
Wow! I am impressed that you figured out who I was referring to. Watching her story, also reminded me why my Mother had made it clear to me about what she didn't want to happen when her time came. I made sure her wishes were followed. My son put together a continuous loop musical track of all her favourite songs and also wrote a poem which he read at her service. My daughter knows my wishes also.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
12/12/2020 9:40 pm
    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Wow! I am impressed that you figured out who I was referring to. Watching her story, also reminded me why my Mother had made it clear to me about what she didn't want to happen when her time came. I made sure her wishes were followed. My son put together a continuous loop musical track of all her favourite songs and also wrote a poem which he read at her service. My daughter knows my wishes also.
Hmmm... Sounds like you have a handle on it. ðŸĪ”
I've picked the music but that's about it.
Absolutely no ABBA... over my dead body, FFS!


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
12/12/2020 10:48 pm

 What a great send off! We all have to go. Getting to say goodbye is a blessing.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
12/12/2020 11:24 pm
    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    What a great send off! We all have to go. Getting to say goodbye is a blessing.
Getting to say goodbye IS a blessing; one that few of get to choose.
I joke about getting struck by lightning playing golf; that better not be my excuse - FFS! lol 😂
So... if you knew your destiny - would you throw one last party? ðŸĪ”


BeccaLuvs 61F
20895 posts
12/13/2020 12:57 pm

 Glad you got the chance, and so great you got to "say g'bye" Paul. That, "the end" is where none of us really have "a choice", the end has to happen to us all, but seems like your friend had a good life, and good friends! Also so great you play the drums, hope you still do?!
..... And always 'hold onto all those sexy thoughts'!
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Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
12/13/2020 9:12 pm
    Quoting BeccaLuvs:
    Glad you got the chance, and so great you got to "say g'bye" Paul. That, "the end" is where none of us really have "a choice", the end has to happen to us all, but seems like your friend had a good life, and good friends! Also so great you play the drums, hope you still do?!
I started playing in a band when I was 17 and have never stopped.
Do you play an instrument or have a skill you're keeping to yourself? ðŸĪ”

My point here was, wouldn't it be great if we KNEW - then we could throw that one last great party. Would you? ❗😎👍


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
12/14/2020 8:14 am
    Quoting  :
OMG, I hope not! ❗❗❗
He'd DROWN them out... lol 😂
He was a wild percussionist and a kind soul.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
12/14/2020 4:27 pm
    Quoting  :
Having had the privilege of saying good bye made his passing easier to take. It was a fine send off, to a great fellow.
Thanks for popping in. Drop by any time. ❗😎


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