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Hot wife rules Hotwife Rules for Her These are our rules, as we’ve learned from experiences over the last , to protect both her, and our relationship. It’s also to discern between sexy “fantasy” and sexy “reality,” which has caused some confusion in the past. All rules are subject to discussion, but cannot and should not ever be broken without discussing them first. Always be honest and open about your feelings with me. Your comfort level, what you don’t like, what you do like, what the other man may have done better than me, and any possible romantic feelings about the other man are all things that you should tell me even if you feel uncomfortable or worry that they will make me uncomfortable Never do anything that makes you really uncomfortable - even if you think it’s sexy for me or okay with me to do. You have final say over what you do with your body. If you’re on a date with someone new, check in as much as possible - I suggest at least once an hour to let me know you’re safe until you are back at your place and something may be happening that would preclude you from checking in. Don’t do anything for another man that you wouldn’t do for me. Never let a man get too rough with you. Remember, you have a voice, and you can and should stop anything that’s making you uncomfortable or hurting you. Always tell me when you’re arriving for a date, exactly where you are (specifics, town, address, name of establishment, phone number), when you’re leaving, when you’re home or at a new destination. Communication with other men: All chats/conversations/phone calls with another man should be completely out in the open. You should share all communications with another man with me, the only exception being extremely mundane things. No secret sexy talk. Any sexy photos you share with another man should be shared with me as well. Always make sure that the other man knows you are in a solid, loving relationship and your “husband” approves of what is happening. Avoid any situations where there are secret agendas, tricking men into thinking you’re single, etc., unless we discuss this ahead of time and it’s part of a particular “game”. I will always be the last one you say goodnight to. No conversations with other men after we’ve said “goodnight”. If someone does contact you at bedtime, either politely let them know you’ll have to talk to tomorrow or don’t respond. You won’t ever get into a car with anyone that you haven’t gotten to know thoroughly, and we must both agree to it ahead of time. In that case, you will text me the license plate number, color, make, and model of the car. If you’re on a date with someone new, I would prefer that we discuss ahead of time whether anything sexual is going to happen. Even if we have agreed that you are allowed to engage in sexual activity, I would prefer you ask my permission first, via text message and wait for my response. I understand kissing, making out, etc., can lead to certain things, and if it does I won’t be upset, but I would like you to excuse yourself as soon as it’s appropriate to the restroom and message me. I would like you to try to allow yourself the physical and emotional pleasure that you feel on any date without guilt or fear. I understand that this is difficult and I will do my best to talk you through any bad feelings that you may have without becoming frustrated or upset with you. I reserve the right to ask you to cancel a date or to stop seeing someone at any time, up to 24 hours before a date, just as you have the right to ask to stop all of this at any time. No anal penetration You’ll never put me down in front of another man, complain about our relationship, or allow me to be the subject of questioning/insults by another man. If he doesn’t respect me, he doesn’t respect our relationship and arrangements, and the date needs to be over. You’ll never allow yourself to be insulted, abused, objectified, or demeaned in any way. If a man calls you his ‘dirty cum slut’ I expect the date to be over immediately. You’ll always use protection during any sort of penetration, unless it’s been discussed ahead of time, and is with somebody we both agree to be regarded as “safe.” You’ll never let a man cum inside of you. If he does without your consent, you should be prepared with whatever you can do to clean yourself and you should ask the man to leave. I understand that if this happens you will likely be scared out of your mind and I would like you to call me immediately so that we can walk together through what you should do next to keep yourself safe. Dates should be kept to an average of 4 times per month or once per week, any more than that would be too much unless we’ve otherwise discussed it. At some point, eventually, and only if it’s comfortable for you, you agree to ask the other man if it’s okay to take photos or video for your “husband.” If it never feels comfortable, I won’t push that issue. At some point, eventually, and only if it’s comfortable, you agree to discuss the topic of me joining in or being invited to watch. If this never feels comfortable, not going to hold it against you or be upset, but I would like to discuss it with you lovingly. You’ll never spend the night with another man or let him spend the night with you. 2 is a reasonable time for things to end depending upon the evening - exceptions can be made for special circumstances, but should be discussed ahead of time. You’ll be smart and protect yourself from any sort of danger. First meetings should always take place in a busy, public environment. You should always drive yourself and park in a well lit, public area should you want to leave. You’ll always carry pepper spray when meeting someone for the first and possibly second time. You always look amazingly beautiful and sexy when you dress up, and I would love it if you wore bras and panties that made you feel particularly sexy on your dates. You agree to send me selfies of how amazing you look in them before your date arrives. You’ll remember you don’t owe any of these men a single thing. You aren’t obligated to continue conversations that make you feel uncomfortable, or to let a man think you’re interested when you’re not, to have sexual relations that you don’t want. You’ll never “take one for the team.” You’ll never fall in love or get too attached to another man. If you start having these sort of feelings, we need to stop what’s happening and discuss things in a kind, loving and unintimidating atmosphere/tone. You won’t arrange meetings or dates without my knowledge. No secrets or surprises. You won’t communicate (verbally, text, messaging, etc.) in a sexually overt manner with other men without my prior knowledge or consent, unless an opportunity for something new presents itself. In that case, you’ll contact me as soon as possible to give me the details, and ask for consent to continue, if desired. You won’t forget how much I love you, respect you, adore you, or how grateful I am for everything you do, and I will agree to remind you of these things as much as possible, especially on days you’re having a date. |
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