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The Golden Rule  

RedFunlife 31F
16 posts
6/23/2018 5:50 pm
The Golden Rule

Treat others how you want to be treated!

What goes around comes around, always take note to the way a person interacts with those around them.

4Farenheit451 73M  
169 posts
6/23/2018 6:32 pm

 Glad you mentioned that, W! Our society seems to be suffering from group amnesia when it comes to empathy.
The451


mc_justmc 63M

6/23/2018 6:58 pm

 It is the one rule that if everyone followed, we really wouldn't need any others.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
6/23/2018 7:01 pm
    Quoting mc_justmc:
    It is the one rule that if everyone followed, we really wouldn't need any others.
Yup - this
When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
6/23/2018 7:50 pm

 Alright... what if someone wants to be treated sexually ? So he/she treats you sexually.

By the wording of this "Golden rule" concept [Treat others how you want to be treated!] ... I [or anyone] could then rip off your clothes and have sex with you... Right?


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
6/23/2018 7:53 pm

 Another way of looking at it.... a guy [or even a gal] could approach you, fondle your butt, ....is that your invitation to treat them the same?


Vsl32 38M
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6/23/2018 10:02 pm

 U right


SingleItalianGy2 52M
1205 posts
6/24/2018 12:04 am

 Some people were raised the right way and taught to "Treat others the way you yourself would want to be treated". If you can respect someone else....you can never respect yourself.

Now speaking sexually that comes with earning your partners respect and trust. Once you have earned those then what happens in the bedroom or sexually is sharing that mutual respect. Unfortunately, sometimes that respect and trust are lost. (I hope I don't really need to explain that further).


trisha_ann_glynn 51T
1982 posts
6/24/2018 12:22 am

 True. Case in point. I always watch how a date treats the waiter and person that parks the car. The tip means less. A really obnoxious person can tip well. But, that just means he throws money at people and problems.


pytimesx 64M
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6/24/2018 12:30 am

 The first is an extract from the ten commandments with the second a street speak variation. The latter part while recommended does not lend a foolproof method of drawing conclusion of any person under review no more than first impressions are a reliable indication of who someone really is. People have bad days and you never know if and when someone has "done on" earlier in the day or week.

At such an early stage of life, it would be wise to take that under advisement in any search for friends and lovers. The other best piece of advise would be to avoid the typical female generated stereotypical maxims. One such maxim at my age is "all men are looking for younger women". Its not true and a real turnoff.

Along that same line, I'd be more than happy to talk with a younger woman if for nothing else than to answer "everything you wanted to know about life and sex but were afraid to ask". But there's more than a dozen reasons why many older men prefer to avoid a relationship (or sex) with younger women. Its never personal and leans more toward logical. That doesn't mean you shouldn't date or even befriend someone older.


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