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Why Wont He Fuck Me/
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Why Wont He Fuck Me/ I am at a complete lost. I get all wet...And sexy....I put on my Sexy panties or whatever. Then i get stuck masturbating all night. Why do I have to beg for dick?? I just dont understand. I personally think im a fox!! I mean im tal land slim with nice legs and a tight, wet, fat pussy...What more coulda gut want. Unless Its a dick he needs. I wouldbe happy to strap one on but I dont think thats his thing. I really should have picked a guy that was on my level sexually! |
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7/2/2018 1:51 am |
Have you tried talking to him about it. There could be reasons. He may not be into sex. It maybe mixed signals. He could be tired. Of course there are other reasons as well. I'd say either talk with him about it. Or spend a day "courting him" see if that helps. Or just bite the bullet and be full on aggressive. Good luck with endeavour
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7/2/2018 3:33 am |
Talk with him. Find out what you both enjoy. have fun on a non sexual level, then let the lust naturally creep in. Then tell him what you need, and reinforce him as he provides those needs.
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7/2/2018 3:48 am |
You may have to look for another man to satisfy your needs. You're way too young to have to go through this. I see you enjoy receiving oral, wish I was there to pleasure you.
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7/2/2018 5:35 am |
I concur with the communication aspect. Alleged, Mature Adults, should be able to communicate as mature adults. If communication is a problem, then maybe you need to consider finding someone whom is mentally and physically mature and an adult, to facilitate a desired level of communication, equal to your own. One thing is sum certain, maturity and being adult does not always come with age. Sometimes people, just simply get older and have not gained nor learned anything relevant to being mature or adult, as they are moving along the path of life. Best of Luck! ENJOY.
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As a therapist that has worked with many different types of couples for sexual dysfunctions, there could be a number of reasons to explain his lack of libido. It sounds like you are really into him. Sometimes when women come across as too sexually assertive, it can intimidate or repel the man. A majority of men need to be the Alpha and take the lead sexually. (At least in the early stages of sex). When they don't have this opportunity, their libido suffers. I've seen men not be able to get erections, lose erections, and not reach orgasm because of this. Try slowing down and giving him the opportunity to pursue you sexually. It may get you the results you seek. Good luck and best wishes! xoxo, myelin36
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I agree with myelin36 that it could be any number of issues. However, without more information, it is difficult to say what might be the problem. Start by trying to have a conversation about sex. Own your feelings and do approach the subject with anger. Explain you are frustrated by the situation but do not blame him. In short, you are trying to understand, not assign fault. Give it a little time as the first conversation may not go well. Be willing to take breaks and to discuss it over time. Giving it time is not the same as ignoring it. Being patient is not the same as letting it go. Also remember the issue or issues may need professional help. Good luck. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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How long have you been together. He could be acting the gentleman. You could ofcourse take the initiative and dress naughty and make the first move 
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My opinion is that if the sex isn't mutually enjoyable, naturally, it's almost impossible to "learn" to please each other. You are probably just more sexual than he is.
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If ur not married to him leave . There many men who would die for a woman like you.
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Communication is key. If he knows he is leaving you cold then you have to decide what is best for you. My wife has such a low libido and some history that means she is just happier not having sex. She allows me to find what I need elsewhere which means we can still e happily married.
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