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My sexless marriage  

raymondinKC 62M
12 posts
7/12/2018 10:24 pm
My sexless marriage

It wasn't always like this. Its something that has happened over a 30 relationship. We used to have sex quite regularly. Wild sex too. I'd throw my back out hitting it all weekend. And from every angle too. Then came the fibroids and the drugs and the peri menopause. And school, and work, and more work and more school. And deaths in the family. It took its toll on our sex life.

Then a small miracle. For a while at least. HRT. It turned her back into a horny teenage girl again. At times it was too much. I couldn't keep up with her. It was too much. She said all she thought about was sex all the time and it was driving her suicidal. I told her that now she know what it feels like to be a man and for the first time had to wonder if she would cheat on me.

The risks of cancers and other weird shit, not to mention the cost of the drugs and time for injections was not worth it. We decided. I guess. Fair enough. No blame. Sex with her is not worth the loss of her.

Life marches on. My sex drive is nowhere what it once was. I am a man in my 50s. But I still have one. And its ongoing unsatisfied needs are driving me to suicidal thoughts. I've made it through a and half depression over the loss of my sex life and the loss of a friend (he's not dead, just moved away, he was my sanity). I will probably survive this. But it sucks. Hard.

I love my wife dearly. But the sexless thing is silent suffering. Discussing it is not worth the strife it creates. I have no intent to harm or leave her. But human. So here I .

On the bright side I've got lots of views from totally hot young chicks from Japan, Korea, and Taiwan. One flirt from a totally hot babe in Australia. I am sooo getting laid at this site.

raymondinKC 62M
14 posts
7/12/2018 10:25 pm

 Lifesaver.


partygald 41F
1963 posts
7/12/2018 11:13 pm

 lol
Good luck with the search. And I'm sorry about the situation with the wife. Trying to work it out is so fucking hard sometimes


raymondinKC 62M
14 posts
7/16/2018 8:36 pm

 Thanks for the replies and words of encouragement.


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