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Unowned Submissive’s  

MidSouthToyMaker 42M
2 posts
7/30/2018 6:58 pm
Unowned Submissive’s

Lets talk about the submissives who were owned and have been recently released from their most recent relationships with their Dominant. Perhaps it was a relationship that had its good points as well as bad, like most relationships had a growing sense of love, but with many differences to difficult to resolve. The struggles with these submissives was/is who they are outside of the “ownership” that they had grown accustomed to?

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Every submissive has a time where they will be unowned, whether it is new or where they have been released by mutual agreement or by default. I hear stories of unowned submissives who struggle to identify themselves without the tug of the Dominant. They allow themselves to be filled with self doubt, identity crisis, and a drop from the lack of leadership that a Dominant provides.

It is important to remember the submissive psyche that we all carry. The traits and the strengths that make up the submissive core. The core of the submissive is a primal one. It has everything to do with your own natural and nurtured self. You are valued by your attributes, you are seen and admired.

When you are not in a relationship these attributes do NOT go away. The beauty remains, and one day someone will walk into the room and all will become evident. As we move through life we never know what will happen. Hearts and minds change, conflicts arise, sickness comes. The fact is every D/s relationship has an end on earth. There will always be a Dominant without a submissive and the submissive without the Dominant.

The unowned submissive must be able to look in the mirror and say, I am beautiful, I am strong, I am a submissive. Every day is a day to learn, a day to do more, a day to grow in their submission. They should not rush or worry about finding “the one”.

WE OFTEN FIND WHAT WE ARE LOOKING FOR WHEN WE STOP LOOKING.

DON’T be afraid to be unowned!!!

TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
7/31/2018 5:12 am

 I'm curious, your profile lists your age as 36 but the text says you've been in bdsm for over 20 years.... how does that happen?


MidSouthToyMaker replies on 8/8/2018 2:44 am:
I became interested in bdsm at an early age. So I start researching and learning as much as I could until I turned 18. At which point I started practicing much of what I research. Futhered my learning by joining the local dungeon at 21. Where I furthered my skill even more by learning from the best I could find there.

Subfantasy67 57M

8/26/2018 5:09 am

 Still sucks to be unowned, though. Lol

Lost my Mistress due to a move. One owner, so I can't be certain, but I think that may be the worst way to lose a Master or Mistress.
"You take the red pill—you stay in Wonderland, and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes."
Subfantasy67


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