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Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
5/16/2021 7:22 am

The other two site I am at is for kink d/s and fetishes. I did kink only. No way am moving just for kink. Not that I can. There I am clear on kink only. If not in my area don't bother to contact me. Will do no good. There just like here what I have is ignored. There like here everything else is the same.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


Ultraviolet_Sol 43M
622 posts
5/16/2021 8:16 am

I met someone very special once... Who told me "never lie to others, because you never know who'll they'll turn out to be." That stayed with me... She was very smart and wise. (Don't know why she talked to me.)

I know it sounds cliche but maybe try to mix in different events and activities into the search (as time goes on)... For me... I don't expect or even really want to meet anyone online... It is kind of complicated but as long as I have my own reasons that I understand... It is probably better if no one else can or does understand. Of course... You just never know what will happen...

*. *. *


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
5/16/2021 9:09 am

Ive told ALL before....that those other sites are ALL about getting to the flesh too. Dont fool yourself...into buying or thinking differently. They are just wrapped up in pretty packaging while here that packaging is already ripped off. That being said....my realness and my profile there, here and everywhere.....is the same....always the same.
If they dont like, arent willing to be patient, arent will to explore with me....they are not the one. It would be ideal to find..the one....but as my profile says.....ideal is hard to come by.~~


Owatalife 67M
1711 posts
5/16/2021 9:47 am

Yes indeed old & jaded think that definitely sneaks up on you & before one can blink you're there & more or less stuck. Guess it comes with the territory regardless. With that out of the way am on this site & one other vanilla one yet am not really bothered or looking to be honest. This one for the blogs & chat rooms as geography rules me out being in a small remote village which is fine. So haven't sunk to new depths & don't intend to because that's not who I am.

From here it doesn't look as if you've completely given up it seems your strongly held principles are what guide you in how all this plays out, i.e you won't & shouldn't settle for less than that what you seek. Am a firm believer that love of some sorts is always out there to be found yet the journey is never easy, so why give up if that is what you want. Frustrating as it is sorting through all the rubbish in the end though you've come too far to call it quits.


Weeload2 60M
1104 posts
5/16/2021 1:00 pm

Interesting. Any sites I have hung out on, I am just myself. No matter if it was a meet site or cam site that I moderated, I have always just been myself not pushing sex but trying to be friends with ever who I met. I did find good friends on the cam sites over the years that are not all about sex or bumping uglies. Just plain and simple teasing and having a good experience while meeting them in chat time and time and time again. In the other hand, on the dating sites I was simply myself like always, never pushing anyone to do anything they didnt want to or invoking sexual activities. I met Friends. I be contacted often but still never took the bait straight off. Same as here, I been hit with 'where can we meet today' type situations and haven't gone for it. Not into banging someone that I haven't gotten to know well first.. I mean there is ore life to a couple than just sex all the time. There is this thing called living life together that counts the most. I am not into getting laid to add to the number count. I believe the shorted that I have chatted with some before having anything physical was around 2 weeks. But is has happened and I was not disappointed in the end... total satisfaction
Good luck finding a good one !

~Weee~

𝕋𝕙𝕒𝕟𝕜𝕤 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕓𝕖𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕪𝕠𝕦


SingleInGR 56M
360 posts
5/16/2021 1:22 pm

I have had profiles on other sites though that was about 9 years ago and have not had any other than on this site since.

I did speak with far more women on those sites then I ever have in all of the time I have been on this site.

I have had soooooo many fakes look at my profile and maybe some real women but have not had any send me any mail stating interest or a possible connection here since I joined,

I was transparent on those sites about whom I am, what I am about and what I am seeking.

I find it best to be upfront and honest as it saves a lot of time and future drama from happening.

Hopefully either here or there or just at a store someday I will find someone whom is real and is looking for a one on one.

A guy can dream right ?


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
5/16/2021 1:23 pm

>>>>What about y'all? If you are on other personals sites, how does your profile compare t.o the one you use here? Do you expose your vulnerabilities? Do you paint a rosier picture of yourself than what's actually your reality? How low do you go in that quest t.o find a date, a lover, a life partner? >>>>>

Yes I am on a lot of other sites but as you and many others have found out they are all the same. some more costly, less benefits ( if possible?) but mostly the same.. I have portrayed about the same over the last decade on each of them . I try not to post to much info, just some personal facts and visions. ...... HOW .LOW!!!!! Never because it puts you at that same level of "low", a place I do not desire...
There is nothing wrong in you posting truth. I wish more had have in the past.. It is hard to learn of some one unless they can and will express the real self..
Good luck in your life's venture, I think he is out there . You just got to turn over a lot of rocks and kiss a lot of frogs to find him......

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


lunchandconvo 53F  
4034 posts
5/17/2021 2:47 am

i tired a few vanilla sites and all i got was guys asking for sex...
if i had a less sexy photo i got no messages.
as you know i tamed down the photo for this site and i still get mail even with not being online!


CedarsPrince 44M
1608 posts
5/17/2021 12:21 pm

Call m.e crazy, but I actually hope there's life beyond Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating that is rational, sane and maybe even wholesome.

Sadly I think Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating is reflection of the world. It has its share of the good, the bad, and the ugly (trolls and abuse)

Hopefully you find what you're looking for but usually you find what you're looking for when you least expect it


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