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Luv2bottom4u2 66M  
1875 posts
7/28/2019 6:53 am

I wouldn't fool with anyone if I knew they were attached and that there significant other didn't know about it.
Like you I prefer not to get involved if there is a home problem, but if there partner tells me personally it's ok, that's a different story


12211male 60M/54F

7/28/2019 6:59 am

When they leave Their “status” blank, or mention..must be discreet, it’s a dead giveaway they’re attached..


1980hwl 52M
90 posts
7/28/2019 7:05 am

I agree but don’t have to worry that often!

Better late then never


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
7/28/2019 7:16 am

Nope, it's not for me either.

I don't want to be that third person in the relationship which has to be kept secret, I don't wish to cause deception or lies in the relationship, don't want to have excuses told to me all the time.

Like you said, I don't want the drama of all that.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


SomewhereSE 66M
336 posts
7/28/2019 7:37 am

If the woman is cheating it’s a flat out no go, finding out after the fact is a deal breaker, I have no interest in having to deal with an angry significant other.

Given that in today’s society open relationships and permission to play is within the range of normal, there is a slim chance I might consider getting involved with an attached/married woman if I can ask questions and be more than reasonably certain that she is doing so by mutual arrangement with her significant other.


BigBadSteve94 30M

7/28/2019 7:38 am

Yeah you are right somewhere deep down inside you know their partner isn’t like 100% with it even though they can act like it. Only was given an opportunity like this once and I did feel bad but still hooked up sadly lol


Mikemike107015 53M  
136 posts
7/28/2019 7:39 am

I prefer women who are attached but only if there partner gives them their blessing. I find single women become clingy even though I am up front about my desire to only be casual. I will not be with someone I know is cheating. Interestingly enough, I've been talking to a woman for a few months and we obviously share a mutual attraction. I've made it perfectly clear to her that not only will I not be with her physically while she is attached but that I also don't want to be the reason she becomes unattached. Quite simply I'm only interested in being with her if she breaks up with her boyfriend for her own reasons, not because of my interest in her. ✌


Satyr48 75M
1905 posts
7/28/2019 7:54 am

Men are rabid dogs when it comes to sex... You're wise not to believe them without hard (excuse the pun) evidence... Personally, I don't lie, because I don;t have to, but if a woman doesn't want a married guy, regardless, I respect that, and don't press... there's plenty of other women...
A few years ago, my wife would have been 100% with you, but lately her "standards" have slipped, and she isn't as strict about relationship standard... Her current attitude is that she's getting older, and her sexual drive and ability won't last much longer, so she's "stocking up" now...

Pleasing women in unbelievable ways for 45 years...
You could be next...


xxxncincy 47M

7/28/2019 7:55 am

Just be real with your partner, if you not happy in the situation just leave and move on. Better and safer for both parties.


thinkingofyou12 67M
4690 posts
7/28/2019 8:44 am

It Depends, I see a married woman in an open relationship. I know her and her husband very well and all know and consent. Our relationship is not for everyone but as long as everyone communicates and knows, there may not be a problem.


1_bolt 57M
1 post
7/28/2019 9:01 am

My wife and I have an open marriage. We both like to fuck a lot and I travel quite extensively. Sometimes I may be gone for several months. Because of this we both allow each other to play separately as long as we communicate to the other what we are doing. Sometimes it is just a simple text saying :Hey I'm getting laid".


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
7/28/2019 11:47 am

It certainly lends credence as to why people don't want to be seen here.
To many people these days really never give a second thought even care about the disservice they do to others emotional health!

Using more than all the road!


lediscret31 42M

7/28/2019 2:10 pm

Qu\'en pensez-vous ??

C'est plus un site pour s'amuser et se passer le temps que pour faire des rencontre, mais en deux ans j'ai quand même rencontré deux personnes du sites avec qui j'ai eu quelques rapports, et vous ,


Srabon2017 36M
35 posts
7/29/2019 9:37 am

I don't know what is right or wrong?


sicky81 42M
23 posts
7/30/2019 5:26 am

mmmmmm


MrRareity 64M  
4589 posts
7/30/2019 7:56 am

This maybe a sex site but I do have my standards. If a couple are swingers that's one thing, and I'm ok with that because all parties involved know. But when one person is married and says oh my husband isn't interested in sex any more, or can't get it up, and the man says that his wife has lost all of her sexual desires. Then do something about it there is help out there for you. But I refuse to go out, meet, or sleep with someone that is married when the other person doesn't know what's going on.

We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious


hotnhorny4nsafun 62M/49F  
6 posts
7/30/2019 4:35 pm

Well we are attached and have very open communications about meeting others. We dont hide anything from each other at all. She has no desire to meet others without me at this time. I meet others but she is always aware of it BEFORE hand unless its a last minute thing and that happens very rarely at all. Some ladies have said they want to talk to her first to confirm however she refuses to do that because she feels she is forced to give approval to somebody to meet me, and i agree that we are adults and her nor I own each other. We have full trust and openness between us so no need to receive permission from her, if they require approval then I wont meet them.


rh1972 51M  
609 posts
7/30/2019 6:20 pm

I know it's going to lead to some trouble for me, but I will fuck them even if I do feel bad for their spouse - but I won't abide being cheated on myself.


fffinder2000 60M
128 posts
7/30/2019 7:08 pm

I agree, prefer singles for less drama. Also, if an individual is less than truthful regarding one topic, how much of a stretch will it be for them to be less than truthful in regard to other topics?
Last, in regard to profiles mentioning "discreet". I know it signals a red flag BUT the concern is not always in regard to relationship status. Professional and community image are concerns for some people.


Oxygen4fun 53M/52F  
163 posts
7/30/2019 7:24 pm

Mr Oxy is allowed to fuck other women, but we are always together. We never separate. For us, we enjoy the experience together. If the other woman is straight, then we play all 3 that way too. Mrs Oxy has a few guys in her pocket for mfm fun, notice that was mfm, because we always play yogether. One of the guys is upfront and already told us that if he meets a lady, we'd have to take a break or stop with him. We completely agree. Honesty and openess eliminates the Drama! Cheaters are so so sad! We won't have anything to do with cheaters and agree with you completely.


Soukyan 67M  
17 posts
7/31/2019 3:31 am

I've been really tempted a few times.

But I've only gone there when the guy knows what is going on.

How do I know he knows? Well, when he wants to watch, is one sign ...


oldman1973 75M/38F
617 posts
7/31/2019 3:44 am

I Phon (F) will fuck and suck any man whether married or attached, I do not care if his partner knows or not. He need that dirty free sex same as me, but my husband is always there, takes pics and joins in.

This is a fucking sex site lets do it. I also do it with girls too in front of my husband but do not do sex without him there. I just love 3 hole sex anytime anywhere we can get it


mott105 70M

7/31/2019 4:38 am

Good for you


mott105 70M

7/31/2019 4:39 am

I do agree with you


routerdf220088 65M
54 posts
7/31/2019 6:54 am

its a matter for each person to make


dig76301 65M  
126 posts
7/31/2019 7:21 am

Really, who cares. Not here to care about another's problems. Got my own. Here for some adult fun, to enjoy each other for the short time we managed to arrange. That's all.


DWWD444 49M
15 posts
7/31/2019 11:32 am

Open marriages are probably the way to go


hookerman 69M
26 posts
7/31/2019 2:39 pm

whoa, lets all remember, this is a site for Adults and Sex, what the other persons situation is doesn't matter, it's not our concern unless they involve you in it.

Attached, married, whatever it is, it's between the two of them and has nothing to do with you.

I do agree some people are serious fuckups and occasionally someone else will hurt thier partner and i've been involved, i feel bad for them but it's still not my concern.

we are grown ups here, it's sex, feelings are going to get hurt, but no one forced them to sign up here, no one forced them to meet for sex, it was a personal choice based on thier relationship and not my concern.


Breezysmooth33 27M
1 post
7/31/2019 5:29 pm

Don't care just fuck


illtrynow 57M
69 posts
7/31/2019 6:24 pm

do unto others as they have done to you----im fucking


motoneta56 67M
30 posts
7/31/2019 8:42 pm

Creo que todas las opiniones son validas me gusto leer los comentarios gracias


Masti01011978 45M
3 posts
7/31/2019 10:12 pm

I love fuck n what my partner wish as per her wish


burakcelik67 53M

8/1/2019 2:21 am

their problem


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
8/1/2019 3:42 am

No thank you, yes amazing how good some people are at deception. I believe in honesty and karma.


bootlacebob 57M
25 posts
8/1/2019 6:08 am

I agree, I don't need the drama and don't need to be the one causing the drama. It's not for me.


tallfit4fwb67 56M

8/1/2019 7:06 am

its their deal just dont add drama.. best to leave that out of the convo and have fun!


naughtyguy1950 73M
74 posts
8/1/2019 7:31 am

Been down that road once with a married woman. Won't do it again. To much drama.


madisonfwb 46M

8/1/2019 8:06 am

I am respectful of both parties


Curiousthatsall9 50F  
12 posts
8/1/2019 10:22 am

Generally I say that's their business but I've learned that married guys are usually more trouble than they're worth. Unless they're traveling from out of town, then they can be fun.


4DaBoy 58M
47 posts
8/1/2019 7:40 pm

I am married, but my wife lost all interest in sex many years ago. I love my wife and certainly have no intention of leaving her. News flash - there is a hell of a lot more to marriage than sex, especially after over 20 years together. But, to protect my marital status, I prefer a woman who is also married and has as much to lose as I do. That way there's no misunderstandings and discretion is maintained.


wn2bottom 66M
4 posts
8/1/2019 8:16 pm

It's great with her husband/partner watching or participating! I've been with a few attached/married women alone too and it was fun.


need2knowit2 64M
188 posts
8/1/2019 10:16 pm

you will be surprised on how many married women fuck around behind their husbands back. I prefer married ladies, they don't get clingy.


Azbear1969 54M
85 posts
8/1/2019 10:54 pm

I am married and do have permission to see others just as my wife has permission to do the same. I have been with another married woman and my wife and I have swapped. If the person is cheating without their other knowing, then I end it because don’t need that. If they say that they have permission, then we ask if we can check with their partner if that is true.


sexstarvedme1966 57M
383 posts
8/2/2019 2:59 am

What might have been really interesting is to split the questions up between the sexes. I have a suspicion that the majority of the "I'll fuck them anyway" answers come from the men, but I wonder how many come from the ladies...


h0rnyScubaD1ver 66M

8/2/2019 5:33 am

So, its tough being committed and no sex at home due to medical issues, my long term partner has no desire for sex and it painful. Told me to seek it elsewhere.. Whats a man to do.. Ive been seeking a woman who's other half has ED or something and just needs some good hard sex on a regular basis... Shit happens in life, everyone has a story.. Sometimes you stick with someone for other reasons...
Don't wish to hurt or embarrass anyone, I am attached and very careful.. Life happens...


louisianafun2 46M
29 posts
8/2/2019 7:37 am

Fun is fun...unless you're looking for a spouse.


HornyCoot4 72M  
6 posts
8/2/2019 10:17 am

Well, I didn't answer the married question until I was chatting up a woman and mentioned I was married, she got real pissed. I kind of got a charge out of it, but changed my status. However, it's cliché, but truthful that my wife's interest in sex is minimal.
Consequently, I'll fuck any man, woman or couple that is comfortable with fucking me.


southend57 61M

8/2/2019 10:50 am

I truly believe humans are not wired to monogamous.


BiGuy4U53 61M
161 posts
8/2/2019 12:10 pm

i cheated on both my wives. all i can say is i would not ruin anybody elses marriage. because in a divorce nobody, i mean NOBODY wins...so no i would not be with any one married again


ItsHappening06 61M

8/2/2019 1:09 pm

Never ask and I won’t know. It’s on them.


brow6902 59M
99 posts
8/2/2019 2:14 pm

swinging is a lifestyle and if they both agree I am in....especially if he wants to join in and make her even happier!


gemhunter1958 65M

8/2/2019 3:30 pm

I feel because I am bi Male happy they are marry or not But with a females must be single. Most wife's know if there male partner is bi and seeing and looking sex with a other male


couple4fun_STL 56M/47F
24 posts
8/2/2019 4:02 pm

Depends on the situation. Poly and open relationships are becoming more of a thing. Cheating is not cool, but sometimes it's kinda hard to tell


fancy_legs 52F  
190 posts
8/2/2019 6:06 pm

I don't care to get involved in anyone that is married/has a girlfriend/ live in FWb or multiple fwb. If they are not truly single they are NOT worth my time. If they will cheat on someone they are already having a relationship with. They would definitely cheat on me. Don't need the drama or heart ache. If they are not happy with their own sex life. Get divorced, change their relationship before hurting someone else emotionally.
Communication is the key....


Funtime__19 44M
23 posts
8/2/2019 7:03 pm

Cheaters suck


dbsimms 54M

8/2/2019 11:05 pm

    Quoting 4DaBoy:
    I am married, but my wife lost all interest in sex many years ago. I love my wife and certainly have no intention of leaving her. News flash - there is a hell of a lot more to marriage than sex, especially after over 20 years together. But, to protect my marital status, I prefer a woman who is also married and has as much to lose as I do. That way there's no misunderstandings and discretion is maintained.
I'm in the same boat. My wife had to have an emergency hysterectomy years ago and after that she lost all of her sex drive. I love her and don't intend to leave, but I have needs and I'm the one who has to bear my guilt for stepping out to take care of those needs. I too usually look for attached women who don't wish to change their situation either.


campgdp6969 48M/45F
6 posts
8/3/2019 6:01 am

Every situation is different, so it would depend on that person and situation.

campgdp6969


mike1958773 65M
945 posts
8/3/2019 6:24 am

en lo personal soy divorciado lo he hecho con chicas casadas que tienen ganas x mal atendidas o su pareja viaja mucho x acuerdo entre ambas partes se ha consumado sin problemas


Fertilestream12 43M

8/3/2019 11:33 am

Personally even when I was single I always had sex with married women. Though I told them ahead of time that I would only do them bareback. Simply because they were married, granted I got a few pregnant, but they seemed ok with that.


swfla56 67M
99 posts
8/3/2019 12:02 pm

I agree No bullshit drama free. Less problems more fun.


Gingerbread3000 38M

8/3/2019 5:07 pm

👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻


earth2adam4u 60M
109 posts
8/3/2019 5:37 pm

Wow - it seems like most people "don't care". I am not sure that is how I would phrase it but I do believe that people are going to fuck who they want to fuck and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it. So, any "arrangement" that dose not recognize that is hiding from the reality of life.


LickDripLick333 50M
3 posts
8/4/2019 8:50 am

This looks like a good way to get some free points


Starthavingfun06 61M

8/4/2019 12:13 pm

Best to just steer clear of married, imo. To each their own, I don't judge.


collegewmnn6 28F

8/5/2019 6:47 pm

its their concern if they are cute for me


lips2kizher 26F

8/5/2019 7:21 pm

i dont like being with attached


farmboy499 51M
23 posts
8/6/2019 10:08 am

cheating is cheating its not right especially a freinds wife


couple496fun 44M/43F
45 posts
8/6/2019 3:53 pm

I started fucking a married man cause his wife was a bitch and i kind of like it.


FishersMan67 56M
42 posts
8/6/2019 5:26 pm

why should I worry about married or attached. It's a fake constraint the religions have designed to manipulate people into feeling guilt. Guilt that the religion can then twist to their own measures. So if someone is horny there is a reason and I believe that they deserve at least a momentary respite. Who am I to turn away a horny woman.


cutegirll4kizn 25F

8/7/2019 4:11 pm

wouldnt like it happening to me so its a nono


summrwomn7 29F

8/7/2019 5:24 pm

only if hes cute,,lol


bevgirlly4hr 24F

8/7/2019 9:07 pm

only if hes hot


Ccuntfucker 34M
28 posts
8/7/2019 10:43 pm

i dont care if its mutual


bevhillsgrll 24F

8/8/2019 3:15 am

if the guys cute enough then sure


moviestar7 66M
28 posts
8/8/2019 7:49 am

my best way of doing things.... is meet them for coffee talk with them for a while ..then after a couple of coffee if we both want to do something... we will... but I also ask if they are married or attached... And I tell them that I do not want to hurt them so either I just come friends with them or not … I do not want to hurt them or brake up there family.... I would feel really bad about it ….


Discreetmeetfish 56M
41 posts
8/8/2019 2:24 pm

when it is as difficult as it is to finally meet someone I'm not going to rule out and potential partner based on a piece of information that Is only their business.


vagatariun 67M
118 posts
8/9/2019 6:25 am

Now that is a great question, would be interesting


DiscreetXXX67 56M

8/10/2019 1:11 pm

Discreet means discreet...


LetsGetStarte06 63M

8/10/2019 6:16 pm

I don't ask and I don't have to give it a second thought!


BiGuy48125 49M
47 posts
8/10/2019 8:42 pm

I'm in an open marriage and she encourages me to find others to be with. But yes, nobody believes me.


bevhillssgirly 24F

8/11/2019 4:18 pm

if i liked them, why not


Looking86192 37M

8/11/2019 5:50 pm

to each their own


phillyboldgirl2 23F

8/11/2019 7:02 pm

i wouldnt care


HARDTHICKLONE1 40M
18 posts
8/12/2019 12:45 am

it is mutual desire to have sexual satifaction .


Dickinsideha 51M

8/12/2019 4:18 am

It is sad if you feel the need to cheat or go outside of marriage for sex. But as humans, we have needs.


georggirlly7 26F

8/12/2019 7:34 am

ill take them on


laughs4womn 27F

8/13/2019 4:56 pm

dont mind if they are cute


armydommguy6 39M
3 posts
8/13/2019 6:20 pm

like married women


penngirl4fn 23F

8/13/2019 7:12 pm

no way


chiiwomnn7 36F

8/14/2019 3:03 am

not for me


themick6982 68M

8/15/2019 7:12 am

Only if the other partner is there, as in threesome.


101daydream 58M

8/15/2019 7:25 am

I'm one of those guys. Everyone lives in a different world and their are circumstances that drive a person here. I hope u understand that and that we are not evil. Everyone needs to be honest and live by the rules they set for themselves.


teenspringsgal 23F

8/16/2019 6:18 pm

i wont be with a cheater


WhatsItGoing2Be1 63M

8/18/2019 8:00 am

Stay clear of the situation.


favbeau 37F

8/20/2019 2:30 am

Most men are cheaters and they will say anything to be with another one..I know this cause I was married to one once


Fertilestream12 43M

8/26/2019 10:59 am

Here’s another “poll” for all of you:

If my spouse has no interest in sex (due to physical issues and/or other reasons), we’ve tried multiple rounds of counseling and that didn’t help, but we love each other and have a great relationship otherwise, then my spouse gives his/her blessing for me to get sex elsewhere as long as I’m safe and discreet and don’t fall in love, what do I do?

A. Try a site like this, but not find anyone because they don’t want “drama.”
B. Seek “professional help.”
C. Suck it up and do without physical intimacy the rest of my life.

A


Grangeroanonimo 45M
209 posts
9/1/2019 6:34 am

Quiero un cojin namas


TallFitforFunn 56M

9/4/2019 9:29 am

Best to keep that stuff discreet..


4DaBoy 58M
47 posts
9/4/2019 3:17 pm

I'm married. Wife lost all interest years ago. So I specifically look for a married woman who wants some extra-marital excitement. My take on it is that it is better to be with somebody who has as much to lose as I do - it's insurance of discretion (hopefully). And I do have a lot to lose. I love my wife, and the lack of sex has only made me realize how much more there is to our relationship than what goes on in bed.


truthchecking209 58M
2 posts
9/9/2019 6:20 am

have you been meeting yourself?


truthchecking209 58M
2 posts
9/9/2019 6:22 am

bigbeautibarb, have you ever met a guy in person??


Retiredfucker59 65M

9/10/2019 3:56 am

People need to get their freak on and go home.


ANANALFREKE4U 63M
23 posts
9/13/2019 8:04 am

I have had more than 3 women tell me they were separated. One of the women's husband kicked in the door and I had to fight him naked. Another one claimed she had her own apartment and when we walked in I had a gun put to my head. I am lucky because it was in Texas and legally he could have shot me. But, I was bigger and faster and was able to knock the gun away. If a woman wants
to fuck you and she's not happy but is married and living with someone they will say anything to get you to sleep with them.


maybe1932 69M/55F
44 posts
10/11/2019 6:22 am

If they are far from home and married I'm ok with it. That means they have to be discrete. Most guys like to brag to their friends "hey I fucked so and so's wife" If your out of town it don't matter.


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