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Bail out.
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Bail out. i’ve been reading quite a lot of blogs or status updates from guys wondering if most women in this site were real or not...because they planned or arranged to meet but they never shows or they just never heard from her anymore. Being bailed …. it happens to A LOT!! I mean really, it's not a big deal...it just for sex but it will be nice if they will let me know least...hey, my situation changed sorry I can't meet you or hey, I kinda meet someone else or just get new gf so I can't meet. then done. I don't think anyone will turn into psycho bitch and keep chasing them right? fyi, the only time I will become psycho bitch only when in relationship haha. for example, couple months ago, this guy been talking to for weeks...and suddenly one morning he's just disappear. or this guy I've been talking and planning to meet on certain date... he just suddenly never reply. For me, veryyy rare to guys first. . and if he didn't reply once then I won't bother to him again and again. onto the next guys lol. so I was like...weird... made feel like we were still a . I dont really give second chance. if they gone and showed up again, which was happen too, then I won't respond anymore. I mean come on, we're all adult here and it's kinda a basic manner...you can or can't..let me know. so simple. I bailed many times as well... if I don't feel confidence, or when my guts tell me don't go, or I met someone new...ill just apologised to him and move on. everything can changed in a matter of second...so I do believe in 'sorry I can't' , as long as they let me know then it's all cool! so yeah....every guys that reading this, you are not the only one. girls also experience being bailed lol...or maybe just haha. but really...even though it's just a fling, just nsa, fuck buddy, ons....whatever it was you are planning to...no matter how small that things are...or no meaning...let's not be an asshole to each other. 
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now 5 am in the morning and I'm hungry...for food lol...
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Well said and I totally agree.
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in the last couple of weeks i have read blog accounts where said female was left wondering because the guy didn't show or have the courtesy to say i won't be coming. it doesn't just happen to you but a lot of other females too. manners do go a long way but some here don't seem to have any.
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Hey Darlin, ........I read “Bail Out” out loud and My phone automatically called my Lawyer and my Bondsman!..........I can’t Believe that anybody would Bail on You,.........I guess Stupidity really is Contagious, I’ve been seeing A Lot of it on this “Site” (and I use that terminology very very loosely I assure you. ) It must be Catching!........Thankfully I’ve had My Shots!......Just a little ramble is all,......... Sinfully Yours, backpocket13
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The term I like to use is "Ghosted" It happens and it's not asking a lot for a simple text to apologize about canceling because something came up.
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8/22/2019 6:42 pm |
you can thank the block button on all these social media outlets. That made the behavior acceptable so now everyone does it. We should band together and politely inform others when we do not want to show up
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8/22/2019 7:59 pm |
well that is the mature way of looking at this. trouble is too many people can not handle rejection... me i like to set meets where i like to eat... if they don't show, i don't leave hungry  "if I don't feel confidence, or when my guts tell me don't go, or I met someone new...ill just apologised to him and move on." and that would be the main difference between bailing (just not showing up) and self respect... where you cancel there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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8/22/2019 8:01 pm |
about your hunger... just move closer i will gladly make you breakfast. after all breakfast for two is always tastier than breakfast for one there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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Yeah, not sure who is real or not, they send a couple of messages then nothing . By the way u have a great body, would like to chat with u
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It seems a little late in life to have to teach people about courtesy.It sounds more like people making good on their karma but only on the wrong people! Using more than all the road!
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8/22/2019 10:28 pm |
I have had so much trouble even getting women who live close enough to me to actually meet to respond to attempts to communicate that I can not comprehend finally getting to the point of meeting and just shrugging, then not going Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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Sad truth my lady , indeed Ghosting happens, and usually has to to with priorities changing - with you becoming a back burner plan , and of course unaware of the shifting ( in your case though, I bet a considerable amount of hard core stupidity on their part was involved  )Too late in life to educate them actually Only appropriate motto : "Zero fucks Given "  Cheers my lady , and keep it up P
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Are we asking too much for people to have and use manners in this day and age? I dunno....seems like a few of the public role models are also lacking in manners/ respect. Social media seems to have made people bolder and nastier, and then they hide. It has happened to us all....and its not a good feel. The anxiety and excitement building up to the meet...and then its all for naught. With each one.....it makes you pose the question.....wtf? Ugh ~~
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totaly agree
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However I will say this, being bailed on happens more to men than it does women, at least in my experience. I've been bailed on so many times by women, I think it's normal. Who can you call on to save the day? Why none other than... Agent 
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I'm sorry some people aren't treating you right...
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8/24/2019 11:48 am |
"yes please....im so hungry but realise that nothing to eat at home. and nothing opened at this time sigh....." there is always something to eat... even if it only crackers and foie gras, and champagne, or chocolate syrup and bodies there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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