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What? Me vile? ... nonsense. He's upset.  

Heathen_G 65M
391 posts
2/28/2020 6:14 pm
What? Me vile? ... nonsense. He's upset.
[See the first comment at the bottom of the page.]
positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
2/28/2020 7:53 pm

 Oh you nailed it. Don’t tell me how I am supposed to think. Those media hyped buzz words of hate speech and discrimination is all they can say because the concept of a free thinking society may not agree with their agendas. Your advice was just not what she wanted to hear.


shadowtoo69 68M  
1056 posts
2/28/2020 7:51 pm

 I have always thought if you are not going to like the answer you should not ask the question..


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/28/2020 6:15 pm

 A while ago a man asked why he , a transgender; looking like a female , was having so much trouble finding his love of his life on this site, and also getting disrespected by the men he met in Vegas. Essentially these men would have their way [sex] with him and tell him to leave the hotel room, unsatisfied.

I told him , to these bisexual men [gay men] he was a bit of an oddity, and passing himself off as a female wasn't going to work. Even suggested he go to a site that caters specifically to transgender-ed people.....

Apparently my stating the obvious was , to him, hate speech. To be clear, it wasn't.

He just took my view on his situation as being full of hate.

So he wrote:
"Heathen_G your vile post has been removed and reported..your hate speech & discriminatory attitudes have ZERO place on Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating".

I don't see why any individual should lose their right to be discriminatory about these people with gender dysphoria. Is that being hateful? No, it is not.

Somewhere along the decades of my life, and yours, a bunch of gay men [mostly] and gay women [though seemingly much fewer] .... decided since they feel the opposite gender in their minds [maybe they do, maybe they don't] ..... they can get gender reassignment surgery. ...And voila, after some time of healing and taking hormone stuff, they expect everyone else to think of them as a woman, or a man.

I just can't do that. Lenard Nimoy put on pointed ears and slanted eyebrows and became a Vulcan , now if he had that actually affixed to himself, permanently , I'm not gong to actually think of him as a Vulcan.
OR if Michael Dorn did the same with his Klingon makeup, and spoke Klingon ....I'm not going to think of him as a Klingon, either.

In their minds they may think of themselves as a Vulcan and a Klingon, especially when they were acting the part. But to me, it's Mr Nimoy and Mr Dorn, Earth men.

So to me, the guy trying to look like a woman, ....is a guy trying to look like a woman. I'm not going to call him a woman.

The folks in BLTGQ rainbow group certainly can play that game, but I'm certainly not going to play along, and if I don't , I certainly don't deserve to be accused of being full of hate because I don't want to play their game, of , "I'm a woman now".

And the transgender , shown, he is a prisoner in Wales , I think in Wales...no matter.. but the report goes:

""A recent survey found that the number of inmates in England and Wales who self-identify as transgender has surged to ten times previous estimates, such that one in 50 prisoners now say they are transgender. The numbers of men “transitioning to women” has increased so rapidly that officials express uncertainty as to how to manage the situation. In 2016, when data on the number of transgender inmates was first collected, 70 prisoners said they identified as transgender. By 2018, the number of inmates who identified as transgender had nearly doubled to 100. Currently, 1,500 of the 90,000 inmates incarcerated in England and Wales say they are transgender, an increase of ten times the previous figure.""

So they moved these guys , who "Identified as women" into the female prison population....Fox - Hen house.... without going into graphic detail, women prisoners were box lunches for these guys saying they are women now. So now the policy is to jail these guys in their own separate wing of the female prison.

Anyway... I can be discriminating , and I don't have to acknowledge the men to be women. Not happening. ..... and neither do some of you . Some of you want to play along,....that's fine. I'm not.

_G


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