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Sometimes we don't recognize our own contribution to life's problems. From your description, it seems your partner believe she has already made herself clear, but you're not on the same page, and therapy wouldn't be a terrible idea for both of you (regardless of the outcome) I often feel that way about my marriage - I've been explaining the same problems for a dozen years, and my husband still says, "I don't know what you mean." (not "what do you mean?" because that would imply he wants to change his i-don't-know status) It's clear he's not willing to make the effort to try because then he'd have to look inward. A LOT of women experience the one-sidedness of effort and change. After 100 different kinds of attempts at self-improvement, they find out they're not working as part of a team. They say, "fuck this hassle," and they leave. It's not for me to say what's going on in your particular case, of course. We all play a role in both sides of a relationship: expressing ourselves with integrity, creating a safe space for our partners to express themselves, and responding with changes that need to happen. And sometimes it just doesn't work out. I'm sorry you're going through that.
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Reading this, brought back some eerily familiar feelings. It was a different time and place and the props and scenery were changed but... I recall her words. When communication dies, then that WHOLE thing (whatever it is), just shrivels up. I understand where you're coming from. Walk at your own pace...👍 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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