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1quietguy35404 75M

9/15/2019 8:23 am

First time meeting , I would treat


benhereagain 66M
50 posts
9/15/2019 8:28 am

yes we should pay for coffe and maybe a meal to get to know the lady
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funsnellvillecpl 66M/54F  
3901 posts
9/15/2019 8:41 am

to many hookers on here since yahoo stopped ad's for sex


Toppingnbottming 42M
111 posts
9/15/2019 9:08 am

There's a lot of fake profiles out there...


Sgt_Tarado 35M
32 posts
9/15/2019 10:05 am

😁


milk69man69 59M  
90 posts
9/15/2019 10:41 am

I dont do brothels or any other such services.

Call me old me old fashioned, but I would not under any circumstances consider asking any lady whom Im on a date with, to pay for 1 cent of anything.


aFunGuy336 45M

9/15/2019 11:36 am

Always fun to see what happens


lonlyforlove2 81M
32704 posts
9/15/2019 1:28 pm

Some things you can't put a price on, this is a judgement call on a case by case issue.. But nothing to the up front hooker or scammer, don't need any thing they got..

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6TallFitFun9 56M

9/15/2019 1:31 pm

Money isnt an issue if shes worth it.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/15/2019 1:39 pm

Reading through these gave me a good laugh. This is 2019 and there are still those penis people who think they have to pay for a woman to visit with him at a meeting. That kind of attitude today, is a clear showing of lack of self esteem, or just plain foolishness.

A woman, whom a man has no intimate history with, is only another person. Absolutely nothing whatsoever is a special enough reason about her to spend any amount of money [on].

So why do these guys insist they must spend his money to meet with a woman?

Because he is a guy who feels he needs to kiss up to women, a guy who feels that he needs to buy a woman's affection with gifts, drinks, dinners, compliments...[so sad:] because , in truth, he can't imagine that a woman would want to be with him just for him.

That is truly sad about these males. Immediately he has introduced himself a doormat.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/15/2019 1:53 pm

    Quoting funsnellvillecpl:
    to many hookers on here since yahoo stopped ad's for sex
I don't know why hookers being on this site should bother anyone.

Men are given the choice, now. Try to get a woman to visit him offline, or pay a woman for sex. Seems fair to me.

But, isn't "Paying for her, coffee, drinks or food" , just another way of saying , "I'll pay for your company"?... Well , yes it is.

So is hooking always bout sex?... No. Women who expect a man to pay her way, is also hooking, but hooking for attention.


hirajind 42M
49 posts
9/16/2019 12:53 am

sexy pic


Makeitper0late 63M

9/16/2019 11:22 am

It’s all about comfort level. I have met ladies who want to pay their way in a greet and meet. Good question.


aimtoplease1033 63M

9/16/2019 11:53 am

Public place, meet and greet coffee not alcohol always the smart answer to this question


tryme992012 64M
49 posts
9/16/2019 4:09 pm

if the women is really worth it then go for it. otherwise meet and greet for a drink is best.


wantyoufucked 59M

9/16/2019 10:36 pm

Paying for a coffee , is a lot cheaper than going to a brothel . If it don't work out you have spent a few quid


Ndsomefun2018 54M  
152 posts
9/16/2019 10:57 pm

I would in vest in buying coffee and dinner and then c were it goes


Maxbillion87 36M
49 posts
9/16/2019 11:07 pm

Whatever gets you laid right


anon04184 39M

9/17/2019 12:17 am

    Quoting funsnellvillecpl:
    to many hookers on here since yahoo stopped ad's for sex
You're not lying lol


4FunPlayfriend 45M

9/17/2019 5:55 am

Meet for coffee if all goes well then get a room or play elsewhere


Cardinal863 60M
2 posts
9/17/2019 6:14 am

    Quoting funsnellvillecpl:
    to many hookers on here since yahoo stopped ad's for sex
Where are these Hooker's. I don't see any on here. That would be a treat.


Casquetin14 50M

9/17/2019 6:49 am

Really depends on what was establish before when u find a non fake person !


Grangeroanonimo 45M
209 posts
9/17/2019 7:48 am

Solo mi tiempo pero si si vale la pena si pagaría


ALPHASonly 69M

9/17/2019 8:07 am

Sure I would spring for a cup of coffee, if there was a chance of me getting cock, but guys wanting to cum wouldn't care so i could save the money(honey).


Retiredfucker59 65M

9/17/2019 8:08 am

It’s the gentleman thing to do.


Bicurguy101 38M

9/17/2019 10:27 am

Show me the hookers 😂


hardtoholdtime3 64M

9/17/2019 11:27 am

I don't mind paying for the place if the meet goes well


KinkyGaBoy 53M  
16 posts
9/17/2019 11:57 am

Not trying to be a sugar daddy. Looking for mutual benefits.


Grangeroanonimo 45M
209 posts
9/17/2019 1:24 pm

No gastar tanto


10mikie10 74M
3 posts
9/17/2019 8:34 pm

I am sorry but I have to disagree with you completely.

As one person said a few comments back, maybe I am too old, but I was always brought up that men walked on the curb side, opened doors for women, paid for the meal or what ever if he is the one that invited her, and treated women with respect, no matter what.


StCloudCouple19 33M/33F

9/17/2019 11:15 pm

Well just depends. We aren't footing the bill for people we have never met. Either they could unreliable and not show or they do show and are total weirdos. So first time I would say meet for a drink or two. We would expect each party to pay for themselves. From there, if there is a next step, wouldn't have a problem spending money on a room for a night of fun


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/18/2019 1:04 am

    Quoting 10mikie10:
    I am sorry but I have to disagree with you completely.

    As one person said a few comments back, maybe I am too old, but I was always brought up that men walked on the curb side, opened doors for women, paid for the meal or what ever if he is the one that invited her, and treated women with respect, no matter what.
That's great you were brought up that way, but women [whom the man has no intimate history with] today don't deserve that kind of behavior from a man.

Your lessons , back when you were a kid and a teen are antiquated , and only make you seem ill informed, behind the times.

Women, exclusively, your age and older, unless they were turned, probably deserve that kind of behavior.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/18/2019 1:08 am

Willing to invest in a first meet for coffee/drinks, then see where it leads

Those people, who chose that one, are fools. That isn't an , "Investment", that's a gambling loss.

Men should just pay for himself , meeting with an unknown woman.


dick03081953 70M
114 posts
9/18/2019 7:06 am

Only fair that both parties split the cost of any 1st encounter.


LickAPussAMus 64M

9/18/2019 7:56 am

Certainly willing to invest a little time and money for lunch/dinner/chat/meet and greet. What do the parties have to lose.....their virginity?


DripOnMyTongue12 53M

9/18/2019 8:18 am

Just time no money...and I get points too


BenSteel5 64M
17 posts
9/18/2019 8:29 am

ill pay to meet ...then go from there


rollmeover2019 66M
79 posts
9/18/2019 8:48 am

trade


aniceride 53M  
117 posts
9/18/2019 9:20 am

money shouldn't be an issue,time & quality is.


777sully 54M

9/18/2019 9:40 am

Depends on situation, money might not be available?


bitchkitty2017 71F

9/18/2019 10:19 am

you should have said this is for the guys only


tastemeY 57M  
148 posts
9/18/2019 11:00 am

I've paid for pussy from this website already! Worth every penny


luvhandle14 57M  
705 posts
9/18/2019 11:28 am

It depends, usually I am prepared to buy drinks or a light diner, but also prepared to get a hotel room if there is no other easy accommodation. In any case i will provide condoms, different lubes and bottled water when it is getting serious.
But if i should pay pro-prices I am looking for a professional, and that is not someone who tries to scam me by pretending to be someone else.


OctaviusHot90 52M

9/18/2019 12:43 pm

If she really worth, money is not a problem. But generally the less $$$$$ is the more . Best Reagards.


Showyouinsac 50M
78 posts
9/18/2019 2:17 pm

First time meeting and get to know each other, then go from there.


Ronbin32 31M

9/18/2019 2:29 pm

É sempre bom investir


flasher4u3 66M  
106 posts
9/18/2019 3:57 pm

I voted for coffee and see where it goes but really this has to be judged on a case by case basis.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/18/2019 5:17 pm

    Quoting  :

Good question... I renounce that one statement.

Women have been making their own paycheck and have been officially recognized as a social equals to men.

For women to also insist on certain courtesies granted to women dependent on men, bestowed on her, too, is laughable. There is no reason to give these women undeserved special treatment any more.

This reality of today leaves those men with , "Gentleman-influenza",socially degraded doormat-men for women to wipe her shoes on.


Bowforshow 33M

9/18/2019 7:46 pm

wouldn't be the first time i was hard up and did more to facilitate the meet then I should have invested for a first time.


ajax057 48M

9/19/2019 4:14 am

This site is only a tool for meeting people... only the bare minimum of time and effort should be needed to get a contact number and establish a sit down meeting with someone to determine if you REALLY click or not. If you can't do that in real life, NO website is going to do that for you. Remember, people have been meeting at bars, clubs, and other public places long before sites like these were even an option, and that method still works just as well as it ever did.


Mikemike107015 53M  
136 posts
9/19/2019 5:46 am

Other than the cost of my membership I only invest my time.


yexx127 51M

9/19/2019 6:39 am

nmmmmmmmmmmmmm mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm


Granny5761 63F
12 posts
9/19/2019 10:04 am

For the right person money is no object but I am very picky.


Ilovemassageass 41M
24 posts
9/19/2019 11:35 am

Lovely!


DiscoverMidlife 58M
124 posts
9/19/2019 1:24 pm

I invest money and time to get what I want.


Mann4u2nite 53M

9/19/2019 7:14 pm

Make it a date night...and see where it goes


69ereatwetpussy 61M
6774 posts
9/19/2019 7:22 pm

im glad to host when time aloud. willing to get a room but don't ask me for money after we a done. will have coffee or drink even make you dinner or breakfast. just don't expect money. you want sexy as much as I do we will get along.


MomoBear1 73M/109F
345 posts
9/19/2019 8:00 pm

We have never charged or paid for sex, we do it free and love all we do, if anyone asks for payment we do not entertain them. My wife is very Bi and loves anal too


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
9/20/2019 12:14 am

Whatever anyone would invest on any given social acquaintance
And always along the lines of existing chemistry

Anything more, is simply a hard to maintain exaggeration

Cheers - P


Smartwolf69 45M
5 posts
9/20/2019 2:15 am

if you pay for sex its not the same


AnewWoman 65F
273 posts
9/20/2019 6:16 am

I use to be upfront about insisting the person I was meeting pay for coffee or a meal. Nowadays I offer to cover my expense, but with that said the men still always insist on paying the tab.


29HornynBored 39M
16 posts
9/20/2019 8:35 am

really depends on if its going to be a 1 time deal or an ongoing thing.


sassos 57M
41 posts
9/20/2019 12:35 pm

It's good to be generous ...in every way


Spidey604 46M
82 posts
9/20/2019 7:06 pm

I did hook up more and meet when I was Gold. Not willing to do that again though. I think


Fukm3nowallrite 53M

9/20/2019 9:01 pm

Room n dirty deeds


singlemale4fun96 57M

9/21/2019 3:25 am

nothing wrong with meeting for coffee and paying for that coffee.


happytimes20189 55M

9/21/2019 5:15 am

sometimes we cant make money an issue even though it does work like a catalyst...you have to know your worth and your partner's worth


YourGoodLukCharm 64M
83 posts
9/21/2019 1:14 pm

Have always been willing to spring for the first meet & greet for coffee, a drink, &/or some food at a neutral place for both of our safety. This allows one to see if there is truly some shared interests & chemistry without giving away to much personal information first & gives each a chance to get through the first meeting butterflies. If the common denominator is there, as adults we can then decide to get down somewhere or move on at that moment or perhaps meet again at a at a later date.
I've had a variety of scenarios play out, whereby some are looking for more of a long term relationship and there have been others that just want to play & be made love to with some mutual orgasms. Then there are those that wish to be dominated & those that have a few kinks & fetishes that they need worked on & fulfilled! Different strokes for different folks that are different from day to day. Such is the wonderful variety of the human condition from day to day...
I think the older iterations of this site allowed for much better interaction between members. We have lost a great many privileges & features that made this site function better than it does today for both std. & gold members. Tis a shame & I do believe that by trying to monetize every aspect of this site has changed the makeup of its members & yes there are some that are hookers or want roses or something to meet. Hopefully you can figure that out beforehand. Sometimes it's right there in a profile. I also believe that since cell phones have become ubiquitous it has diminished etiquette & attention spans for using the IM, which truly, truly needs some upgrades; like how you can call a message "delivered" but not "read" a "chat" which by definition is a conversation between 2 or more people, not a one way dialogue is beyond me. I could point out quite a few more things but won't. I just know that my area seems to have a real lack of active members & you can no longer screen out the inactive ones but have to trawl through all of them, or search by zip code when traveling, that I don't feel Gold membership is worth it anymore


jonesie004 34M

9/21/2019 3:40 pm

Provided that it does make you a professional...…!


southrnaccent17 58M
27 posts
9/22/2019 12:35 am

Well I believe the question was for "hook-up" not date. Just hook up I believe split cost... Date - yes, I invest in drinks and a meal..


likeit563 71M
22 posts
9/22/2019 11:17 am

I would spring for a few drinks on first meet


CleopetrasClit 35F

9/22/2019 11:51 am

Great Poll!

Men have offered me flights and all other sorts of shenanigans just to see my clit in person. I've had men fly in from other countries...

If men admitted they'd put a price on a hookup, they'd have all sorts of hookers inboxing.

Why do they think they are labeled HOOKers? Because they wanna a hookup and we all know what a hookup is LOL! Seriously!


lokingforfun82 42M
206 posts
9/22/2019 1:47 pm

I'm not down to pay for sex, but investing in meeting could always become an issue depending on personal circumstance. sex site or not, if you meet someone on here it's almost as if you were going on a date unless both parities are purely in it for some raw sex and just want to get down to it. otherwise there will be some kind of financial responsibility either or both or all parties involved..


noname1233215 43M

9/22/2019 6:57 pm

ive never had the situation where she would pay for anything above her share of a first meet.. but wouldnt be oppossed to trying that suggarm omma idea out lol


NeedFWBorGF 53M

9/22/2019 8:30 pm

This thought applies mostly to ongoing relationships, but in this era of equal rights (and equal pay) for women, I think expenses should be shared. Usually I prefer that whoever suggests going to a particular place pays the bill there. If I ask her out to dinner, that means it's my treat. If she suggests going to a movie together, I kind of expect her to pay for both of us. I know not all women agree so I don't get upset if she expects me to pay, but I'm not filthy rich and the simple sad fact is that some women are more expensive than they're worth.


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1 post
9/23/2019 7:04 am

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rebelram999999 54M

9/23/2019 9:41 am

As a gentleman, i would def pay for coffee, dinner or the first "date" to get to know the person and see where it leads. Least i can do.

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Thequarry 45M

9/23/2019 10:53 pm

I have to agree with the masses on this one


Speedster997 26M

9/24/2019 12:38 am

Only time and effort.


atr680 53M

9/24/2019 7:03 am

mmmmmmmmmmmmmm mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm


a_taboo_daddy 68M

9/26/2019 1:14 pm

Not a paying member but have met a couple ladies in person thru IM


6TallFitFun7 56M

9/26/2019 1:40 pm

Money is no problem when the woman is the right one.


Happyfunz2 63M

9/27/2019 6:18 am

I usually do spring for the meal, drink etc at the first meet. Is nice to meet someone who at least offers to help with the bill. Shows maturity


herbman693 37M
18 posts
9/28/2019 9:02 am

If she's 10 yeah anything


TallFit4Fun69 56M

9/29/2019 4:21 am

no issue with spending money if shes worth it


billinokc 58M

9/30/2019 9:58 am

I usually pay, but I also respect a woman that insists on splitting the bill or the room.


Discreetmeetfish 56M
41 posts
10/2/2019 7:20 am

funny how you put in the choice about the pro. I laugh because i'm pretty sure that about 80% of the single women are possibly hookers but that's just a feeling no data to truly evaluate. Anyway why worry about money shouldn't be the main focus.


LickU4Hours55 52M

10/2/2019 8:40 am

That's a good story and I get points too


PhotoGuyOP 50M

10/2/2019 2:15 pm

I guess it depends on what you plan to do on the first meeting.


Percol8er 61M

10/4/2019 8:34 pm

Always willing to spend on the right person.


fishersman68 55M
48 posts
11/2/2019 12:26 pm

I just really want some pussy


nastypoppie33 46M
85 posts
11/22/2019 11:33 am

For me it will always depend on the person and the situation because I usually go and vibe off of the woman to see where's her head is at to determine how to approach the situation. Me personally Im open to most of any and all situations and circumstances sexually so it just a matter of what type of woman I'm dealing with at that point and time.


StillBoredinTx 47M

11/23/2019 6:48 am

Let talk about it first


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