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Nobody's your friend when you're down and out...  

4DaBoy 59M
23 posts
11/30/2020 2:56 pm
Nobody's your friend when you're down and out...


Just realized that I've been on this site about 1-1/2 years. Managed to pick up four friends (1 transvestite, 1 gay man and two women thousands of miles away). Not one fan. Total goose egg, nada. Granted, I'm not exactly flashing Atlas' bod on my profile, but, really? zero fans?

4DaBoy 59M
47 posts
6/29/2021 4:20 pm

    Quoting AlyTal:
    Hi there (Waving atcha) I have been remiss in keeping up with some things the last few days, and I wanted to add something else to the comments above. When you explained why you are behind your phone, etc., I can tell you are providing a completely honest answer, and by explaining with additional comments about not cheating on your wife, etc. Your comments impressed me. Good for you Out here in this crazy site... many times the best I can do is just making a friend. For all the sexually oriented meetings that don't happen, I suspect there is a lot more friendship making than meetings being held, if you see what I mean. Men like you, the straightforwardly honest kind are the exception more than the rule, and that is the compliment I want to give to you. I enjoy making new friends, and in the right time and place if it could happen, I would ask you to dance, but since that is not possible maybe you would allow me to be your friend You are a cool guy I like you
Gosh, thank you!
I would be honored to be your friend - I like you too.

From what I can tell, this is basically what this site has evolved into - friends in the groups who just like to chat. No longer the adult sex finder site. Which is fine by me.


AlyTal 36M/33F
134 posts
6/27/2021 12:20 pm

Hi there (Waving atcha) I have been remiss in keeping up with some things the last few days, and I wanted to add something else to the comments above. When you explained why you are behind your phone, etc., I can tell you are providing a completely honest answer, and by explaining with additional comments about not cheating on your wife, etc. Your comments impressed me. Good for you Out here in this crazy site... many times the best I can do is just making a friend. For all the sexually oriented meetings that don't happen, I suspect there is a lot more friendship making than meetings being held, if you see what I mean. Men like you, the straightforwardly honest kind are the exception more than the rule, and that is the compliment I want to give to you. I enjoy making new friends, and in the right time and place if it could happen, I would ask you to dance, but since that is not possible maybe you would allow me to be your friend You are a cool guy I like you


4DaBoy replies on 6/29/2021 4:17 pm:
Gosh, thank you.
I would be honored to be your friend.

4DaBoy 59M
47 posts
6/22/2021 5:16 pm

    Quoting AlyTal:
    What do I think? I think it is time for you to come out from behind that phone and show us your smiling face THAT's the first step in the way you get fans, I think. There are a lot of us girls out here that are not hung up on the handsome factor, or the good looks of a man. Down here in this rabbit hole there are a lot more men than women (thank goodness for the girl's side), but that only tells me there are a lot of pretty boy airheads out here that fall by the wayside quickly because most of the girls prefer SMART older men who are fantastically sexy on the inside. Not sure I said that right, but... smile at us, them, they, people with vaginas, LOL, and see what happens // Tallie
Thanks AlyTal!
Actually the reason I'm hiding behind that phone isn't just that I've become a rather silly looking old man (which I have), but mostly because I really am married, love my wife, and have a pretty good idea of just how good facial recognition software has become. Can't be too careful.
I am voyeur on this site just because I find it entertaining to see what goes on here. I certainly don't expect to ever meet up with anybody through this site. Doubt that I ever really would cheat on my wife in the odd chance that the opportunity ever arose. This site exposes me to people I would not otherwise normally run across - and it's fascinating. And it helps fuel my fantasy life.
So why did I complain about not getting any friends on this site? I don't know. Bored that evening and the idea just popped into my head.
Before I forget to mention it - damn you're a beautiful woman. And a delight to "converse" with, such as it is on this site. Look forward to more of your posts on the young tarts for old farts group site (no, I don't think you're a 'tart' - just couldn't resist the rhythm).


AlyTal 36M/33F
134 posts
6/22/2021 12:20 pm

What do I think? I think it is time for you to come out from behind that phone and show us your smiling face THAT's the first step in the way you get fans, I think. There are a lot of us girls out here that are not hung up on the handsome factor, or the good looks of a man. Down here in this rabbit hole there are a lot more men than women (thank goodness for the girl's side), but that only tells me there are a lot of pretty boy airheads out here that fall by the wayside quickly because most of the girls prefer SMART older men who are fantastically sexy on the inside. Not sure I said that right, but... smile at us, them, they, people with vaginas, LOL, and see what happens // Tallie


4DaBoy 59M
47 posts
12/30/2020 2:16 pm

A 29 year old little hottie who is 170 miles away hot-listed me. Wonders never cease!
(Why am I skeptical?)


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